Now I am collecting my past OS s on Prats. While searching, I found this -- Padma and Vibha , yesterday you both were talking about a similar issue ... This is my first thread in this IF!😃
Posted: 5 years agoPOST OPTION
Let us start analyzing the choices she made and the perspectives she holds.
Sagarika's revolutionary resolution, filing a case to expose Amma and Bunty, to explore a way to join the man of her life .Maybe it is her spontaneous, carefree, impromptu personality, that is offended at the thought of distancing her from her spouse by Amma disturbed her. They are making her a doormat and determining her life according to their whimsical wishes. Her today and her tomorrows were ruined by this Mishra family. Then there is a beginning of a thought, a new awakening, by filing a case, she is asking for justice, love, and companionship and family bonding, the binding factor in a marriage, the consummation, but not from the judiciary, but from her husband and his family! She is trying to make him realize his god-given potential !!
Being a woman is never a curse to be endured, or a trait to be tolerated. It is a gift to be treasured and esteemed. How do we raise our daughters to be ambitious, educated, and sure of themselves, while at the same time help them appreciate the rewards and blessings of submission? Touching the feet, washing the feet at marriage rituals are such diminutive acts,the serial makers are glorifying time and again.
Human relationships are not designed to be a raw contest of power and strength, but an acceptance of clearly outlined roles .The clashes between the Mil and Dil will always result in broken families, unstable homes, unhealthy dynamics and destabilized lives, --living rooms will become war zones resulted from us, as a lesser way of living, that demeans and devalues a girl's existence.
Why the wife always has to be submitted to the leadership of her husband, submission to legitimate authority, given by society ? Why?
This type of autocratic decision making is creating a battleground, raged within the hearts of women. In most of the INDIAN SERIALS, they are showing as it is a commitment to honor the one who married us , presuming that who knows us best , who has proven time and again that only in obedience to his plan for us will find ultimate fulfillment!
Sagarika desperately trying to redefine and re-establish what it means to be a wife. Have quietly and cunningly swing the pendulum too far in her direction to rectify the injustices she is facing now !
Within our mindset,we will cause our daughters either to desire it ,or fight for it again we will encourage our sons either to appreciate it or to take advantage of it !
In every serial they are glorifying the inequalities between men and women . Undoubtedly women are different, obviously but only in function [faction ] not in value,but this truth has become twisted into inappropriate ideas and labels ..
Man is in need of a partner, someone who could help him fulfill his Mandate ?!, without her, these endeavors would go undone. A woman is not an addendum, a last-minute afterthought can be tossed out , without notice. Without a woman's participation in a mans' life, much will be lacking. Menfolk , realize .
Being a woman is never a curse to be endured , or a trait to be tolerated.She is a gift to be treasured and esteemed,lo and behold,it is a privilege to be a girl !.You are extraordinarily significant!
Sagarika realize this, and proceed my dear courageous soldier!
Edited by Snehamadhuri - 5 years ago
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How is Abhi, my sweet little boy. ❤️🤗 Lots of hugs and kisses for him as well...
and thankful to you for preparing the new nest for all of us to relax for a while every morning.
God bless you all...
. Can understand how busy she must be otherwise. Welcome back dear friend, to the beautiful home created by you
. Thank you for the new home, sure Madi will get excited and finish this thread in a jiffy, she was itching and raring to go, let's remember our muse Pratyusha in these last few pages.
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