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Posted: 9 years ago
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Intrapersonal conflict is the conflict humans face within themselves, it is a conflict between should and want. Should is always driven by the values, religious beliefs, upbringing etc. wants on the other hand are driven by the environment which entices (2 attract arousing desire) humans to indulge (2 satisfy Wishes) overlooking should.


Intrapersonal Conflict is the part of human life


Conflict arises when any kind of decision needs to be taken, be it important of unimportant. Simple decisions like buying a car or complex decisions like marriage or money. Every time a decision needs to be taken, should and want weigh on us, based on which we take decision.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Individuals who develop unhealthy habits are also prone to conflict within, every individual understands smoking+alcoholan unhealthy habit and most wish to quit, however the body which is used to want of nicotine often wins the conflict between should and want.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Intrapersonal conflicts can sometimes have a devastating effect on the mental makeup, some individuals irrespective of should are completely driven by want, they believe in going with the flow hence are saved of the intrapersonal conflict, others who understand the importance of should often become indecisive and confused or start depending on others to take decisions for them. Decision making is tough at times, every action has consequences, positive or negative, however it is important to accept ones decision and live by them.
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These types of conflicts are important because we encounter them on a daily basis and have to negotiate through them. You may think of conflict as negative, but both interpersonal and intrapersonal conflict can have benefits. Healthy conflict provides you with the skills to develop better relationships, gain an understanding of yourself, increase your resolution skills and avoid negative and damaging reactions. Intrapersonal conflict can be disruptive and stressful if you do not understand your own needs and desires, reports Help Guide. Therefore, it is important to understand your deep emotions and interests and stay in touch with yourself, suggests Help Guide. This deeper understanding of yourself will give you a better basis for negotiating through interpersonal conflicts, allowing you to develop better, more trusting relationships, reports Help Guide.
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Conflict can be described as a disagreement among groups or individual characterized by antagonism and hostility. There are different kinds of conflict and Intrapersonal conflict is one of them. It is also a part of human life just like other kind of conflicts.Intrapersonal conflict is the conflict humans face within themselves. It is a type of conflict that is psychological involving the individual's thoughts, values, piciples and emotions. It can be said that It is a conflict between "should" and "want". "Should" is always driven by the values, religious beliefs, upbringing etc. whereas "wants" are driven by the environment which entices (to attract arousing desire/Provoke) humans to indulge (to satisfy Wishes) overlooking should. This kind of conflict arises when any kind of decision needs to be taken, be it important of unimportant. Every time a decision needs to be taken, should and want weigh on us. This kind of conflict is important because the experiece taking place in one's mind, helps him to gain understanding within himself. It increases his resolution skills and teaches him to avoid negative and damaging reactions. But it can cause negative impact on human life as well if he is confused very much among should and want and take a wrong decision such as the decision consuming alcohol or using cigarettes. To avoid such circumstances, a very strong will power is needed, as told by Anthony Robbins in his book "Awaken the giant within". However,Intrapersonal conflict helps humans to know their inner-beings, to take the right decision and to stay in touch with themselves in their too much busy lives.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Conflict can be described as a disagreement among groups or individual characterized by antagonism and hostility. There are different kinds of conflict and Intrapersonal conflict is one of them. It is also a part of human life just like other kind of conflicts.Intrapersonal conflict is the conflict humans face within themselves. It is a type of conflict that is psychological involving the individual's thoughts, values, piciples and emotions. It can be said that It is a conflict between "should" and "want". "Should" is always driven by the values, religious beliefs, upbringing etc. whereas "wants" are driven by the environment which entices (to attract arousing desire/Provoke) humans to indulge (to satisfy Wishes) overlooking should. This kind of conflict arises when any kind of decision needs to be taken, be it important of unimportant. Every time a decision needs to be taken, should and want weigh on us. This kind of conflict is important because the experiece taking place in one's mind, helps him to gain understanding within himself. It increases his resolution skills and teaches him to avoid negative and damaging reactions. But it can cause negative impact on human life as well if he is confused very much among should and want and take a wrong decision such as the decision consuming alcohol or using cigarettes. To avoid such circumstances, a very strong will power is needed, as told by Anthony Robbins in his book "Awaken the giant within". However,Intrapersonal conflict helps humans to know their inner-beings, to take the right decision and to stay in touch with themselves in their too much busy lives.
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It was a very beautiful day. Sun was shining, bird was singing, leaves were playing. But it couldn't gain it's real beauty widout the sweetness n madness of some1. But who will break the wall of her beauty sleep? The sunrays were trying 2 disturb her sleep. It kept fi8ing wid her face,her eyes but all in vain. The chirping of the birds were unable 2 enter the path of her ears. The sound of the beautiful play of the leaves evn could not play through her soul. Bt she was smiling,the sweet smile was atleast presenting sweetness 2 the nature. She was dreaming. Dreaming of achieving the most desired thing she had evr prayed 4. But only this sweetness, this smile couldn't satisfy the nature. Coz they knew this mad creation needs something more.. Something more pure... Something more beautiful... Deeper thn her this dream... N suddenly nature smiled brightly feeling some1's presence. Nature now had 2 do nothing, the person would do everything, but this mad girl had 2 understand dat... Will she?

:Koyal,wake up. It's 9 am. How much will u sleep,huh? Wake up na... Need 2 go...

I m knocking the door since 15 mins bt she... Uff...

:Listen,if u don't wake up na...

Still no response?? I always heard n saw dat boys sleep lyk this bt this girl... Out of the world. No,u should not think lyk this. If she comes 2 knw she will b hurt. My anger.. Hah!! Why can't I control. Lemme try sweetly.

:Plz Yaar... See sunrays r waiting 4 u... Ur dreams r waiting 4 u.

Again no response. Bt... She is not lyk this. M getting tensed coz at least she says "2 mins", "5 mins" bt 2day she's saying nothing. I hav the key of this room, should I open? Bt if she misunderstands me? Such a dilemma! No.. Atleast she bilivs me dis much. Ok, Lemme take risk. Lemme open the door. "Jor lagake Haisha".. No... "Dilemma bhulake haisha" Here is the key.
Omg... The door is opening by itself!!! Noo wait,It's she. So, finally she woke up.

:So u r awake??? OMG!!!

:Uff.. Shut up na.. Listen... U knw wht happened!!!

She is smiling so brightly. I also also wanna join her in his laughter... No... Don't 4get dat u r angry wid her.

:Where r u lost yaar.. Listen na..Ok,at 1st congratulate me.

:Yeah,congratulate u... Ok.. Congrats.. Aftr all ur beauty sleep is broken. Incredible matter. Congo Shongo.

Now she is giving me angry look. Nothing 2 worry i am 2 angry wid her.
Wht??? Her anger is changing again into laughter?? She is really incredible.

: Chal,aaj tere saath khoon maaf. U knw, I dreamt dat the dream of my lyf has come true.. Really... Yippeee...

N she hugs me ti8. N I.. The stupid fellow... Can nvr b angry wid her. Actually who can b angry wid such a person who can b so happy only dreaming of her dream being true. Bt I knw it'll really b true one day coz fate luves her. N me... Me 2...Luv her 2 the core... I smile n embrace her back.
Aftr sometym she breaks the hug n sees me smiling.

:U r also vry happy na?

Suddenly I bcame serious since a tough question came in my mind.

:Will u 4get me aftr fulfilling ur dream?

I m feeling lyk she is shocked hearing this. Bt wht can I do.. I can't let her go out of my lyf. Bt here is she..again smiling. N here.. Starts her drama.

:Kyon janab, aap aisa soch bhi kaise sakte hain? Crore balti pyaar ki kimaat aap kya jane Zalim baba?

N she laughs n me 2 laugh not only bcoz of her joke, bt also seeing her laughter...The laughter which can console my every pain.

:Wht happened? Aise kya dekh rahe ho? U wanna learn frm me how 2 crack jokes.. Arey, u should. U knw wht,widout fun life is lifeless. Arey, Bachpan mein main jab choti si thi na...

:Ok ok stop.. Kitna bakbak karti ho.

:Kya baba... U r such a lifeless person.

"Baba" her fav word n now my fav...

:May I ask u something?

She givs me an unbilivable look.

:U need my permission b4 asking?

I smile.

:U said,crore balti pyaar.. Bt pyaar.. Where did it came frm?? I should hav been dosti,ri8?

She is luking at me wid confusd yet peaceful eyes. Bt her lips has a small smile n her cheeks... Turning red. Hop she is nt feeling awkward.Lemme handle the situation.. Wait,I didnt evn realize.. We r again having eyelock. Hmm..

:Look kya de rahi hain? I knw dosti wala pyaar na? Get ready n let's go.. We r already vry late.

She looks down n jst says:Hmmm

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2day is the day... I'll tell her wht I feel.
Wow m feeling gentle wind breeze around me. Dat means she is around me. I can feel her. Bt where is she? Behind me?
Yeah, there she is coming wearing the li8 pink saree I had gifted her. A confued smile on her face, her hair dancing in the cold wind, the anchal of her saree joing her hairs, her earings n bangles playing music, her fingers intertwined with each other in confusion (lyk we r intertwined wid each other wid a confusing feeling) n her eyes in my eyes... Looking lyk an angle... No, much more dan dat.
N me 2 luking at her almost opening my mouth. Whenevr she is b4 me why can't I tell he r dat 3 magical words. I knw she want 2 hear this.. No i need 2 tell her 2ni8 at any cost.
OMG!!! She is now standing b4 me. N m speechless again.
She is saying something while blushing...

:U called ne here n now u r mum?

M getting more speechless now. I close my eyes n finally widout changing topic, widout uttering any thing else, widout wasting a single moment,widout thinking abt the battle of heart vs mind n widout keeping mum any more, finally I say...

:I luv u...

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Bt...
It is not the present. It is the memory depicted by one's deep eye. The person is standing on a huge bridge over a huge river n the srory of today iss fully opposite. The nature iss crying 2 show it's emotions through heavy rain, thunders n showers. The sun doesn't show it's face, birds r hidding 2 avoid the tragedy n leaves r trembling wid fear. Actually the earth is trembling in the fear of loosing its beautiful asset.

N tge person is still standing on the bridge over the monster river... Lifeless. It can engulf the person. But no tension, no fear in that soul. The eyes r saying nothing but saying everything n r jst staring at the deep river. Suddenly a smile appears in the face.

:Kash ki vo lamhe wapas aa jate. Kash ki vo lamhe sach hote. Kash ki vo lamhe mere liye hote. Par afsos... Chodo.. Jo hona tha so ho gaya.. Yeh dooniya kabhi meri marzi nahi suni, iss kismaat ne kabhi mujhe mehsoos nahi kiya... Par abhi jo hoga ussey koyi nahi rok sakta. Kyonki zaroorat hi nahi padegi na...

The person sees a photo in his hand.

:Tum khush ho toh sab thik hain. Ab tumhari khushi ki lahro mein pankh lagane ka waqt aa gaya. "Koyal" panchi ki saath udne ja waqt aa gaya.. {Tye tym 2 fly wid the bird "koyal" has come } Main jaa raha hoon... Shayad yeh baarish hi keh degi tumhe ki kitna pyaar karta hoon tumse... Aur agar naa bhi keh toh..
(Screaming) I luv u...
Shayad hum milenge "Kisi Mod Par"...

N the fear of the nature comes true ,he jumps on the river n the giant emgulfs the person in it.

At the same tym,another person wakes up frm her sleep, may b seeing a ni8mare.

:(sreaming)Nahiii...





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nope. Naz r coaching jai nai😛
Save for web option e PS e save kore.😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Prologue
Kahke Bhi Ankahi Si
01
Chapter 1



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Prologue
Kahke Bhi Ankahi Si
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