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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Anjali_

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u r thinking abt balvivah -

I am scared abt something else-

Pushkar is going to reject kamili and will demand nandini😡

Now if kamili is going to start a running race along with gopal - then kidnap fly will divorce nandini and give her to pushkar family 😡

dont know whether all these things are possible wihtout bloopers- but BV Cvs are capable to do any thing- Grr- i hate them-

Drama 😡

@bold - Quite possible
But they will stop the running race with Gopal too because he is not from their biradari and will kill him/try to kill him.
Giving Nandini as a free gift to Pushkar along with kamili is one way to get rid of that girl 🤢
But stupid Devi ma is there too
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Posted: 10 years ago
Except for that horrible kidnapping which I can never accept everything else is fairly okay
Hats off to the writers who converted a simple story of couple's growing bond and strengthening relationship as they went about fulfilling their responsibilities as husband and wife, parents and as son DIL into an EPIC unforgettable love story which probably will join the ranks of all those love stories which are being told over centuries❤️👏

Anandi's image of her husband will never change - He will always be remembered with great deal of love and longing and sadness because they didn't have much time with each other.There will never be disillusion or disappointment with him.

She will never think that her husband doesn't care for her or will she get the feeling that the distance is growing or will feel insecure because she was his one and only woman till the day he lived.

Writer is right.Adhoori kahanis are so much more beautiful - this is even more beautiful because they loved each other so much there was never anything that could come in between them not even death
He did love Anandi and Shiv and gave them the most beautiful love story even if it is only for around 3 years.


With each episode it is becoming clearer.Very clever way showing it. A woman who is feeling lonely and disillusioned and alienated from her husband whom she loves in contrast with Anandi👏
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma

But here it is about marriage and unsound mental status and the parents took the decision on behalf of him.
At least in health care issues where the patient is unconscious or not in a position to make deccisions regarding medical care there are some closest relatives who can take the decision on behalf of the patient including discontinuation of life supporting services if the pt is beyond medical help.

Here the parents of the boy didn't hide so they can't be held responsible either


By this logic, parents of kids (whether boy or girl) who marry off their underage kids should not be held responsible either since they have not hidden the fact that their child is underage from the other party. In case of bal vivaah, both parties are willing. It is the law that plays spoilsport.

Not sure what is the law on marriage of mentally unsound persons. I think a bill is pending in parliament.


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Posted: 10 years ago
point is under the law, a person of unsound mind, does not have a legal capacity at all..and even more specifically in marriage acts..the thing is that activists are pressing for legal status for them..but its not yet happened - I think thats what artee is talking about - the disabilities bill which is yet to be enacted..because of the debate around whether a person with unsound mind can be a party to contracts at all..
health related is different - our law doesnt even allow euthanasia..basically everybody has a right to live..but not choose death, hence a guardian is allowed to take calls for the patient with unsound mind..
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Under Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, conditions in respect of mental disorders, which must be fulfilled before the marriage is solemnized under the Act, are as follows.

  1. Neither party is incapable of giving a valid consent as a consequence of unsoundness of mind.
  2. Even if capable of giving consent, must not suffer from mental disorders of such a kind or to such an extent as to be unfit for marriage and the procreation of children.
  3. Must not suffer from recurrent attacks of insanity.

The expression "mental disorder" means mental illness, arrested or incomplete development of mind, psychopathic disorder or any other disorder or disability of mind and includes schizophrenia. The expression "psychopathic disorder" means a persistent disorder or disability of the mind (whether or not including sub-normality of intelligence) which results in abnormally aggressive or seriously irresponsible conduct on the part of the other party, and whether or not it requires or is susceptible to medical treatment.

Marriages in contravention to the provision in respect of mental disorders come under voidable category. Voidable marriages (sec 12) are those which may be annulled by a decree of nullity on the given grounds but may continue to be legal till the time it is annulled by a competent court.

According to the section 13 of the Act, divorce or judicial separation can be obtained if the person has been incurably of unsound mind, or has been suffering continuously or intermittently from mental disorder of such a kind and to such an extent that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to live with the respondent.

The expression "incurably" of unsound mind cannot be so widely interpreted as to cover feeble minded persons or persons of dull intellect who understand the nature and consequences of the act and are therefore able to control them and their affairs, and their reaction in the normal way (A.I.R. 1969 Guj-48 and 78 CLT 1994 561). When there was sufficient evidence for the court to conclude that the slight mental disorder of the wife was not of such a kind and to such an extent that the husband could not reasonably be expected to live with her, divorce could not be granted (A.I.R., 1982 CAL 138). Each case of schizophrenia has to be considered on its own merits. [16]

Under Special Marriage Act, 1954, the grounds for marriage, divorce and judicial separation are practically the same as those in the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. The Special Marriage Act, 1954 is meant for any person in India and Indian nationals abroad, irrespective of the faith that the individual may profess. A marriage solemnized in any other form can be registered under this Act.

Under the prevalent Muslim Law, marriage is a type of contract. Therefore, a Muslim who is of sound mind and has attained puberty is qualified to marry. However, if the guardian of a person of unsound mind considers such a marriage to be in his interest and in the interest of society and is willing to take up all the monetary obligations of the marriage, then such a marriage can be performed. Talaq (divorce) under Muslim Law has to be for a reasonable cause and must be preceded by attempts for reconciliation by two arbiters. According to Muslim Marriage Act, 1939, a woman married under Muslim Law is entitled to obtain a decree of divorce if her husband has been insane for a period of 2 years.

Under Christian Law, marriage is voidable, if either party was a lunatic or idiot. Christians can obtain divorce under Indian Divorce Act. 1869 (as amended in 2001) on grounds of unsoundness of mind provided: (i) it must be incurable (ii) it must be present for at least 2 years immediately preceding the petition. Divorce is not admissible on ground of mental illness under the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936. However, divorce can be obtained if the defendant at the time of marriage was of unsound mind, provided the plaintiff was ignorant of the fact and the defendant has been of unsound mind for a period of 2 years upwards and immediately preceding the application.

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Posted: 10 years ago
artee, anjy agree yaar..DDD trailer is totall🥱 disappointment..not that m a fan of zoya akhtar either. I find ZNMD highly overrated too..luck by chance though is one movie I just love, dont know why - maybe for konkona..
ranveer-anu chemistry is yawn worthy in this one - they just dont recreate the magic of BBB here..atleast in trailers..
PC's lips look bigger than her face now🥱 I dont like farhan's voice uff🥱
anil's look is interesting, but blaahhh storyline..and total chaos and mayhem..😕
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Posted: 10 years ago

Rahul Gandhi is back #RahulGharWapsi 😆😉
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RTee


By this logic, parents of kids (whether boy or girl) who marry off their underage kids should not be held responsible either since they have not hidden the fact that their child is underage from the other party. In case of bal vivaah, both parties are willing. It is the law that plays spoilsport.

Not sure what is the law on marriage of mentally unsound persons. I think a bill is pending in parliament.


I am not talking about the chronological age.Talking about the mentally disabled adults who are not capable of making decisions on their own with regard to their life.
I think mentally disabled have a right to parent their own kids so that means they have a right to have a partner too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
rahul reminds me of vinay pathak from bheja fry series😆 everyone's favourite punching bag😳😆 mine as well😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
Somebody who is mentally challenged at the same time who is in good physical health and has not caused problems to the society at large with his disability why should he/she be denied of a the benefit of a life partner?
I don't think there is a law that can prevent a mentally challenged person from seeking a partner or their guardians seeking a partner on his/her behalf.

There was a case where a mentally challenged girl became pregnant and she wanted to keep the baby court was in favour of her decision if I remember right




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Posted: 10 years ago
HR and her problems - Problems are real - sonny boy is jealous and insecure of the other little boy husband for ever praising the other women just to put her down and now the other son is blissfully unaware of dangers lurking😛
Her attitude and approach to problems sadly proves that her husband is right about her😆

Want to see how much truth is there in her accusations though😉😆

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