The No Nonsense Viewers' Circle (I/O) - NOTE pgs 94 & 99 - Page 99

Originally posted by: PeraltaGarranty

Agreed its pretty sexist sometimes I dunno much coz I'm Christian but at our neighbours even the men keep fast for their wife's which is so sweet I wish everyone followed this

Hinduism celebrated womanhood initially but later turned all its attention to male worshipping.

Infact Hinduism has the provision for Ardhanareshwar where Lord Shiva showed how he was nothing without Shakti.

Also, Narayan will allow Laxmi have her name taken first. So, its Laxmi Narayan, Radha krishna, SIta Ram etc.

Later god knows what happened. How women became second class citizens🤢

I don't have any problem with women doing the household chores or even keeping such Vrats as long it is their personal choice. I don't want they should be forced into anything. One typical attitude almost all mother-in- laws have is to pressurize their Bahus into such vrats. Some will literally blackmail them. Common he is your son first. Why don't you fast for him ?

I am only annoyed by the fact that men don't even give the respect she deserves after putting her whole life in doing it . Little do they realise that if a woman stops doing the' trivial' works the whole system will fall apart.

Tell me one such man who is handling his family while managing his office. Women do it. In fact they are doing it in almost all places.

No body thinks that a homemaker also works almost 24/7 and that too without a salary. WHy can't we distribute the amount of work ? Why it is such a taboo for men to work at home ?At least help her if you cannot take the charge yourself.

I have seen my uncle treating his wife. As if she was born to work for him and at the end of the day he has the audacity to say that the money she spents belongs to him😡 I sometimes feel like saying it in his face that he must be thaking god for his wife knows how to use an ATM card or else he must have been starved to death considering what a hopeless person he is.

Originally posted by: ecrivain

NERDY ..U SAID IT ...I thiught I was the only one who hates relatives ..whether it is festivals or death or marriage or any god damn thing ...they JUST know how to poke their nose n do nothing else😡

U won't believe it if I had my way I wud have barred ALL of them from coming into my home🥱

ecrivain, meri jaan. Love you for agreeing with me. Guess we both are anomalies in our families.

All of them unnecessarily hogging both food and space. I like roaming around and then I get restricted. And uparse sawaal puchna, yuck yuck yuck. I don't even go to anyone and so what gives them the right to spoil our day.

Anyways I always spoil my mood if I talk about them.

Originally posted by: Nerdgal

ecrivain, meri jaan. Love you for agreeing with me. Guess we both are anomalies in our families.

All of them unnecessarily hogging both food and space. I like roaming around and then I get restricted. And uparse sawaal puchna, yuck yuck yuck. I don't even go to anyone and so what gives them the right to spoil our day.

Anyways I always spoil my mood if I talk about them.

Count me too.

Dey, Join us. The Guest Haters club.

Originally posted by: Nerdgal

Dey, Join us. The Guest Haters club.

Kids imitate their parents.

It becomes extremely annoying when kids do so such things. One of my cousin who is actually years younger to me will come over and literally take over my things which I find annoying. I try to hide them but she insists on taking them.

One bad thing in Indian upbringing,' De do na choti hai tumse'

What worse her mother will never object to her such type of demands. SHe thinks its cute. On the top of it some will even comment I was such a jealous person. Its not that. I am in love with my bangles and bracelet collection. Fir bhi if she asks for one I will let her wear it or even take one or two but I cannot let her touch them every now and then.

Aur kya karun uske sath ? serials discuss karun ? 13 saal ki bacchi ke sath.?You wont believe she watches all these romantic shows and even comments how good looking the actor is.

I am not bashing men here Ecri. But the rituals.

Please don't get me started on child partiality. I hate the fact that I am the eldest of all. And a girl too the boot. So older sister set an example.

Its all nonsense and some old fashioned thinking of the ancient times. People need to get out of that regressive attitude and not let their kids suffer from it and make their daughters go through it.