Originally posted by: aparnauma
I think A will be brought only to tell her about G2 and after that fight she may feel that JG2 was made to happen to keep her away from J
She is as twisted as DB
I know people and their enormous love for Gauri and not to forget that JG chemistry but redemption of J is much easier than redemption of Gauri
J always knew what is right and wrong and he had conscience but that spine to do the right thing is not there.
He was never happy with Gauri also because he knew that he crushed A under his foot and it was only a matter of time before he owned upto his faults.
He knew he was wrong but Gauri doesn't ever think that she has done any wrong so it is very difficult to convince her that she is responsible for her all the crap that is her life.
Aparna,
Did not J more at fault since he knew the difference btw right and wrong. He was not under any pressure to choose wrong except his own selfish needs. It must have taken all of his spine to go against his family's wishes and crushing the life of the girl who sacrificed every thing for him and his loved ones.
Gauri was doing what she considered right in her and her parents opinion. Her parents brought her up with their twisted logic and with a sense of being cheated from her rightful dues.In this matter she was not able to distinguish btw right and wrong. A through counselling from a friend like Shivani and removal from the bad influence of her parents is needed to make her realize her mistakes.
I want to clear that I am not a Gauri's fan or admirer but when I watch as a neutral observer ( neutral coz when Anandi is not involved I do not side with J or G1 and was equally hating both at one pt of time) what I see is that two persons were involved in an ugly business, one perhaps more from my pt of view, that one again walked off from a relationship , got redeemed ,got every thing back on a platter , got a loving selfless wife again , two lovely kids, restored the faith of his ex wife whom he brutally scarred at one time and on the other hand the other person got stuck in her past, lost her metal balance and again is on the point of breaking down due to lack of courage of the same person to inform her truth about his marriage when he told her about A's marriage and put himself as someone who is suffering from the consequence of his wrong deeds by loosing Anandi.
It makes me feel bad when I see women suffering due to failure of their relationships while their male counter part keeps on jumping from one sachcha pyar to another and settling in a happy married life quickly.
