*Gustahk Dil*Chit & Chat Corner # 2 - Page 86

Hope that all is well. Happpy Birthday Anu, Enjoy the celebrations.👏👏

Our christmas party season has already started, went to 3 last week and have 4 Office parties this week.

Going to put on the kilos for sure between now and new years day.

Planning to join a gym in the new year.

Have fun.

Hope all of you are having a nice time. I was busy over the weekend so could not make it here.

Now that the holiday season has started...kids always keep me busy!!😆

@ Anu ,My kids found the maths Olympiad good ...maybe it was easier than they had expected it to be!!😛

It is getting very cold here, especially in the mornings and late in the evenings!! I sometimes wonder how people feel where it snows! My teeth are chattering at the thought of it!! 🤢

The new year is soon approaching ..and it is time for resolutions!!...which most of the time remain resolutions!!😆 So friends what you people want to do?!! I am planning to diet and take to an exercise regime to reduce a few kilos as recently I have been eating a lot of sweets!! ..well I am eating a chocolate while writing this!!😉😆 There goes my resolution...however there are 10 more days left!!😛

I am watching a detective series on Star Plus...It is Private Investigator or P.I ...seems interesting, it is once a week. If you people are interested in investigative stuff , you may like it.

So happy weekend friends!! enjoy yourself..and sometimes come here to say Hi!!😃

Wishing YOU ALL have wonderful holiday season. Here is getting so cold it's unbelievable😡. There is snow and freezing rain it's dreaful. Other than that I am doing ok. As the new year is coming closer will need resolutions. This year my resulions will be eat right, stay fit, learn Hindi and Garman hope to fulfill that promise 😆.

I am watching now days Ajeeb Dastaan Hai. Very interesting show more drama than ever and there is lot of psychopaths it's crazy and there is two adorable cute kids loving it.

Everyone have marvellous holidays and stay safe❤️🥳👍🏼

I went thru the earlier episodes of G.D and felt that Nikhil had indeed wronged Ishana to some extent. When Nikhil's Dadaji and the villagers of Sonbarsa forced Nikhil into marriage , he once did not speak with Ishana to ask her opinion though he loved her so much. Isn't it a betrayal? I can understand that Nikhil's decision was taken in haste as he was too soft hearted to let Laajo bear the burnt of whatever happened after that night at the river. But was it not Nikhil's responsibility to make Ishana aware of what he was going thru' as she was his love and knew him since childhood.

Nikhil's disregard for her seems to have made her more insecure about her relationship. Nikhil went a step further to compromise his marriage with Laajo with his love for Ishana...by hiding it under the garb of being confused. If we look at it objectively Nikhil went to save Laajo's dignity and life...by marrying her , but made her life more miserable. I think here Laajo is also to blame..she went hammer and tongs to fight against dowry...but when it came to save her dignity she simply married Nikhil...knowing very well that Nikhil and she had not done anything unethical. When she was not scared to raise her voice against dowry...then why was she scared to face injustice and prejudice of her fellow villagers?!! If we feel that she did it to save her parents from disgrace...then where was that concern when she went against the society for dowry.

As for Ishana, she was entitled to feel insecure, hurt and left alone. She had to break all ties with Nikhil once he betrayed her. But she continued to run after a dream which was bound to shatter.

Once a person breaks trust...it is difficult to rely on such person and Ishana got it very late!! in the meanwhile she went after the wrong person Laajo and made her life as well as Laajo's miserable.

@ Jatinder, The song from Frozen was good and my kids enjoyed it...as they wanted to watch the film but couldn't do so. I heard London is very cold!! keep yourself warm and enjoy the holiday season.

@ Zulekha, enjoy yourself ! and take care and keep yourself warm. I am not watching Ajeeb Dasatan. I had guessed that Sarika may be Vikram's ex- girlfriend...so it seems to be coming true.

Well watching T.V shows ...I have mastered the art of guessing it seems !!😆😆😆

@ Anu, Hope you are enjoying the weather, as winters are mild in southern part of India except for Hill stations!!

Take care and enjoy yourself!!🤗

Nikhil, indeed wronged and betrayed Ishana. To marry a total stranger when you have a serious relationship back home is a careless and selfish person's action. We found out even at the very end that Nikhil was a weak person and it was indeed his good fortune that he got bailed out from trouble either from friends or Laajo.

Nikhil in his ever so confused state hurt Laajo a million times and yet could not see that to continue to see Ishana was immoral.

Laajo from the very start was fiesty and principled, and yet in the Bharawaj mansion, she behaved like a frightened mouse being chased by a cat.

The show was too Laajo centric and made all the other characters shallow.

It is a shame that so many characters in Sonbarsa and in Delhi were given a limited opportunity. The last six weeks were truely wasted to that Laajo detective storyline.

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@varsha, Do try to get your kids to watch Frozen, they will love it. My nephews and nieces have been playing this song for so long and so often now that I know the words to the song in it's entirity,

The weather is not so bad in London but we have had strong winds lately from the North and that makes it feel cold and miserable.

@Zulekha @ Anu do keep in touch.

I wish you all happy holidays and may the new year be a pleasent, happy and healthy one for us all.

Merry Chirstmas to all of you!!

I agree with you Jatinder, Nikhil had done something which was totally wrong by marrying Laajo. But sometimes life throws such googly's where it is difficult to say what is right and what is wrong!!😕

Nikhil did save Laajo from Humiliation but it was momentary. In his haste he forgot to look at the larger picture. He found it difficult to define his relationship with Laajo and was not sure about their future!! this is really dangerous if it happens in real life!!🤢 It is like doing the first-aid to a deep wound and letting it heal by itself without going to the doctor!!😲 Nikihl had the opportunity to take a call on his relationship with Laajo many times...but he simply put it off and infact waited for it to get worse!!😡 This makes him a person who puts things on tomorrow!! And "Tomorrow never comes!!"😡 In the process he hurt everyone including himself!!

Laajo 's firebrand lost its charm once she entered Bharadwaj mansion!!😕 Initially she felt indebted to Nikhil for saving her and also it is a tradition in India that it is for the girl to adjust to the new people in the in-laws place and not vise versa!!😡 Then later on she fell in love with Nikhil...and that was the end of it!! Love makes you do strange things!! and Laajo did forget about what she was in Sonbarsa and bore all the injustice and conspiracies only for Nikhil's sake!!😡

Nikhil conveniently got off from all the mess which he had created!! Nikhil hurt Laajo so many times , yet she took it in her stride...and well this happens in real life too!! People who love you the most only can hurt you the most!!😛 Its an irony , but it is true!! Nikhil though was weak and indecisive was a loving and caring person!! His troubled childhood might have made him feel insecure and yearn for total commitment, though Laajo provided it , his inherent insecurity got the better of him all the time!! we have seen it when he was with Ishana too...Ishana used this insecurity to drive Laajo out of his life.

Towards the end , they made a villain out of Nikhil!! even Barkha looked better than him!!😔

Well it seems like people like woman in trouble in Indian shows, So C.V's made everything possible to make Laajo the main force and everybody else was forgotten . Till the end I was waiting for a Sonbarsa track...but it never happened...but they messed up by showing Rambachan dead!!😭

I just stopped watching the show at that point!!

But the characters like Chachu, Bua, Dadaji, and many more still feel fresh..hope they had expanded on these characters a bit more...Miss all these characters so much!!

Happy holidays , Enjoy yourself!!😃

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays to all.

Busy with guests. Will write a long one soon