The Bittersweets#4 [IMP note on pg 76] - Page 5

Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

oh one of us regular members on the forum is happily married...I talk to a few women who are mothers on this forum! I'm not 15...I'm almost 24...so I guess that works fine yeah?

and trust me..chatting with me may not be as exciting as you think it is.😆

Originally posted by: Arnav1Khushi

Don't scare me! I actually like the attention. U can demand anything and expect to get it. Lol. I guess he might not change. Maybe bcuz I have known him all my life, and I feel the security. Well he better not! I am so ready for murder if it wears out. Or I have u, won't u kick him for me?

Originally posted by: Arnav1Khushi

Oh nooo. I won't. My mom already was like 'behave like a girl. Where's ur manners and what indecency'. My reaction was like 'W*F! It was a private moment. How would I know he would play it to like everyone on the planet.' I got a lot of lecture and then my dad was like 'okay she kissed him. They are engaged now. Just don't chew her brains off'. I so love my dad.

Originally posted by: Arnav1Khushi

It's nice how he uses ur real name. I find that endearing. So no initials for him Katie? Where did the name Katie come from? Was it like a pet name?

Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

you two have been busy...what with your respective men and PM exchange and CC chats.😛

p.s: I'll be responding to the rest of your posts on thread 4

Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

I do hold my ground where I think I should. I'm not stiff...I'm actually compliant and I do go out of my way for others sometimes..but like I said..if I feel like I'm the one who does it all the time and the other person doesnt put in that effort, then its not cool. I dont want to dominate over my future boyfriend but I dont want thim to dominate over me either...I believe in equality...growing up in a male-dominated family/society, I'm strongly against all that crap. No, men are not better than women...but women are not better than men either...they're (or rather should be considered) EQUAL. My reason is simple: Remove one gender from the face of the earth completely, and the other won't survive for too long. It's as simple as that. anyone who refuses to acknowledge that is stupid.

Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

ahaha...I cant guarantee that I'll make you two happy...but I have an end in mind for this story (somewhat) and I'm not going to change it.😃

Originally posted by: Arnav1Khushi

We haven't been all that busy. I wasn't. But next BB update is so MINE or SWATI's. PM exchanges had to be there cuz I talked too much...as in TOOO MUCH about my love life. Worse than what I tell u here. I give u like a censored version. Lol.

Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

um honey..clearly not...if you got everything you demanded...he would have quit that damned game and let you sleep the other night...LOL..

Originally posted by: Arnav1Khushi

I agree with ur point. That is how a relationship should work. I agree about the equality. As long as u feel u r in an equal relationship it is all good. If one is more overpowering, life just sucks. It's too hard to manage and at the end u would lose ur own identity. I tend to give as much as i get. I am not an easy girlfriend to deal with and I m quite controlling myself. Actually much more than he controls me. He gives in a little more than me but when he is hot headed, it is a little hard to be demanding because more than anything the reason for his anger would be me.