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Posted: 11 years ago
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Saumya 🤗 Heema 🤗

Are you having lunch yet, Heema?

Sorry about not showing up yesterday...had some weird Internet issues.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22

Hey Kaddu 🤗

Looks like you are very busy .. How was your day ??
That link is incredible . Those people are smarter than many I work with , who have lots of
degrees .

🤗 🤗 How you? Where you? Home or hospital? And what eating you?

Yup, really incredible. That double decker bridge was lovelier!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

Saumya 🤗 Heema 🤗

Are you having lunch yet, Heema?

Sorry about not showing up yesterday...had some weird Internet issues.


I am having lunch. Shama and her lunch treats , she is going to spoil me and go back to her round Chapaties .i had great rava idlli and chutney . Home made yogurt. And fruits. How is food in Pandecherry ? Did you have your dinner ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was supposed to go home but next on call doc is stuck in traffics so I have to wait . It's raining very hard and lots of accidents on the high way . One Md must on Premises for me to go home .
How was your day ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22


I am having lunch. Shama and her lunch treats , she is going to spoil me and go back to her round Chapaties .i had great rava idlli and chutney . Home made yogurt. And fruits. how is food in Pandecherry ? Did you have your dinner ?

Rava idli and chutney 😃 ghar ki yaad aa gayi Mom makes...

Food in Pondicherry is always nice 😃 They actually have a food festival here every year. I've never seen one, so don't know much.

I had dinner...a South Indian thali at a nice udupi here.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wrote reply on " Gandhi " it's on 2nd or third page . That subject is fascinating or blood boiling . I am not sure which .
Saumya wanted to write and never did . She asked me question on engagement . I was on my cell. I wrote one and she disappeared .

Her net is acting up too. Hope to see her around . Now free from birthday thread .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22

I was supposed to go home but next on call doc is stuck in traffics so I have to wait . It's raining very hard and lots of accidents on the high way . One Md must on Premises for me to go home .

How was your day ?

There's almost never an easy day na? Someone's brains spilling out, someone with a cracked skull...good I did not become a doc!

My day was good. On the way home, am supposed to spend a couple of days in Pune. Donno when that is, though. Management just says these things without settling on any dates.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22

I wrote reply on " Gandhi " it's on 2nd or third page . That subject is fascinating or blood boiling . I am not sure which . Yes, I saw this...not fascinating...blood boiling!

Saumya wanted to write and never did . She asked me question on engagement . I was on my cell. I wrote one and she disappeared .

Her net is acting up too. Hope to see her around . Now free from birthday thread .

Today, a colleague and I were discussing coping with emotions. She has an angry mother and she does not know how to handle it. Her mom, apparently, gets livid for the smallest thing. I told her that she should engage her mind elsewhere, but thats easier said than done.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

There's almost never an easy day na? Someone's brains spilling out, someone with a cracked skull...good I did not become a doc!

My day was good. On the way home, am supposed to spend a couple of days in Pune. Donno when that is, though. Management just says these things without settling on any dates.


I don't think I will advise any one to be a doctor . Never encouraged my sibling either . You are in better field . Dia did good job too.. saumya is in fantastic field I was very stupid . Choose one of the worst and stressful field . Trauma is full of sorrow and challenge and on top of every thing brain most complicated organ . But destiny that all I can say . Many times I want to cry while attending my patients or talking to their families but I have to be professional even when I am pulling plugs out and waiting . I will never ever recommend my field to any one but it's very satisfying I love when I fix people . No other rewards !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

Today, a colleague and I were discussing coping with emotions. She has an angry mother and she does not know how to handle it. Her mom, apparently, gets livid for the smallest thing. I told her that she should engage her mind elsewhere, but thats easier said than done.



Mom and anger and daughters are very old equations . It's more common than we think . With that kind of anger she will not be able to channel her energy anywhere else . What she need to find out is root of mom's anger . Many times we are mirror image of our mothers and mothers with low self esteem sees that and start to blame herself for the same problem she sees in her daughter and instead of dealing with it they start to build up anger . Many times that level of frustration are very damaging . Tell your friend to start with small talks . First small casual and later big .,once she verbalized her root problems things will improve . Mother and daughter relation is one big complicated biological relationship.
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