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I am sure your basic outlook towards life is similar with your husband.
...😆 he just said yesterday i am the most negative thinker he knows...everytime... over anything ...the first thing i think about are the negatives...he's total opposite...all positive thoughts come in his head...so i explained...we balance each other...you limit my negativity... and i your positivity...positivity brings expectations and when those expectations are not met you get hurt...so being positive all the time is not a good thing neither is being negative...

Originally posted by: DoJin

@ sanika
yeah tell me about it...2nd book i pretty much FF read it...3rd...only the relevant bits...the excitement of first book fizzled out quickly in the 2nd...barely finished 3rd...so moral...classic will always be a classic...people may try to put their own spin to it...but the characters are original authors creation only she knows how they should behave and how they should not...

I find IPK pretty unrealistic...
thats why i like it...its not real...reality sucks 😆

i'm living example of how opposites are compatible...my hubby is an extrovert and i'm a total introvert...he likes socializing...i like staying at home...he likes crowded family gatherings ...i get panic attacks thinking of all the people crowding my space...
how does it work?
...understanding each other and whole lot of compromises...

so i kinda like that they're not supposed to be compatible but are in most instances...👍🏼
talking to each other... thats what i miss most in Arshi relationship...but when they do talk it makes awesome TV...thats for CVs to understand...i think thats too much to hope for these days...still i'm gonna stick to it only coz of sarun.

Originally posted by: nonasi

Hahaha, reality does suck! (Omg, I have those same panic attacks...😳)

I actually agree with both of you. I've seen it in real life too with the seeming opposites attracting. It is all about the underlying understanding, though, that makes it work, so in that regard A and K could work in reality. Surprisingly, these two talk a lot, even if it is heated confrontations; I love how at ease they are with each other.

But, their ideologies are/were so different that you can't help but wonder how long a couple like that could've survived in real life. They're always fighting and whatnot, yet they always end up back together. Practically speaking, their mentalities are (or come across as being) very different and this love-shove business probably wouldn't last...yet somehow at the root of it all, they're the same. Oh, fiction!

Originally posted by: -sanika-

What have they ever talked that has made any kind of sense?

Half the time they are talking abt the diff family members😆

I keep on imagining, what their married life will be like

Khushi will tell him abt what she cooked that day and what is the price of the vegetable or what festival is coming and Arnav will tell her abt his contracts and his expansion plans or about some book he is reading . I just cannot see the other party interested in listening to this stuff😕

I have only ever enjoyed their fights😆

Originally posted by: nonasi

Me too. I actually looked forward to their fights back in the day.

I guess I meant more of their serious convos; they talk a lot about their feelings...😆

The normal daily life stuff is where I come to a bit of a loss too, but then again nothing these two do is normal. It's not unheard of, though, for couples to be at different levels like this; as long as they hold the same things valuable, which in this case is family, among other things, then it's not really necessary for them to be interested in all the same things. I know enough couples who aren't really interested in what their partner is talking about, but at least they listen to each other.

Fair enough !
I haven't seen opposite couples ever working out in real life
Jo bhi dekha, fiction main dekha
Also, Darcy and Lizzy, were opposite in behaviour, but had the same mental level.
That is what I meant.
Arshi are different, mentally and behaviourally...
So it was a bit hard for me to find some common ground when It comes to them as a couple 😕
Chemistry is gr8 but relationship...I dunno ...
I mean you can see in the current episodes, even the writers themselves are finding it hard to write them as a sizzling hot married couple, hum toh bas audience hain ...

Originally posted by: DoJin

@ sanika
yeah tell me about it...2nd book i pretty much FF read it...3rd...only the relevant bits...the excitement of first book fizzled out quickly in the 2nd...barely finished 3rd...so moral...classic will always be a classic...people may try to put their own spin to it...but the characters are original authors creation only she knows how they should behave and how they should not...

oh Gosh yaar!
I felt ditto!
But was worried to say it to you, since u recommended the series to me
I feel angry thinking Darcy be attracted to anyone 😡
And By the 3rd book ...She made Darcy so desperate...aiyoo 😭
So I skipped the whole book to the last directly as well 😳

Originally posted by: -sanika-

oh Gosh yaar!
I felt ditto!
But was worried to say it to you, since u recommended the series to me
I feel angry thinking Darcy be attracted to anyone 😡
And By the 3rd book ...She made Darcy so desperate...aiyoo 😭
So I skipped the whole book to the last directly as well 😳

arre yaar no worries...actually i was gonna warn you before you started the 2nd one...and here you already finished them all...did speed reading... didn't you😆...i just wanted to share the first one coz thats the one i liked more than the others...other two didn't feel like i was reading P&P you know... Darcy was not being Darcy...so couldn't get into it...🥱

good heavens...i became goldie...
1000 posts??
itna bakwaas kiya hai???.😆

Originally posted by: DoJin

good heavens...i became goldie...
1000 posts??
itna bakwaas kiya hai???.😆

Congratulations! 🥳