Random Ramblers Timbuktoo#63!!!! - Page 39

Originally posted by: nimrah

Everyone was in burqas? 😲 No matter how conservative people are over here, no body wears burqas in weddings.. 😕 😆 But I just HATE weddings where there is a partition between men and women! Specially when I go to some doooor daraaaaz k relation's wedding.. Then my brother and I have to sit separately and we're both border during the whole function..

LOL yeah like I said they were like MEGA CONSERVATIVE.....well a lot of the women removed their burqas in the women's only section but if any man happened to walk by outside the door, they'd rush to cover their faces and heads😕😆.....like the caterers were walking in and out of the hall with the food preps and some of them would be men and these women would jump to cover their faces😆

The partition really did feel quite weird to me....I hadn't expected that😆.....I guess it depends from community to community na yaar....like some Muslims are quite liberal about many things are some are ultra conservative....so it varies.

Wow.. I'm quite shocked.. 😆 I mean women love weddings coz they get to wear those fancy clothes and all.. Burqas kinda spoil that.. But chalo, their belief.. 😆 Here, 2 years before, my cousin got married in winter.. and it was damnnnn cold.. Yahan k hisaab se atleast.. and women didn't wear sweaters coz kapray chup rahay thay..

Just curious Nimrah, Mash, Zainu, Fivr and others - how many of your have to wear burqas everyday?

Whew Anu! I read the entire 7-8 pages of that SGP discussion forum and I was exhausted. So people not liking direct criticism? Well no one does actually. We all live in a world where it is ingrained in us that we have to "soften the blow". So when people come face-to-face with those who dare to bare all, they cannot handle it. Without preaching to the choir or "batooing gyan" Anu - all I can say is - don't feel bad over few people's myopia. You have a lot more supporters and friends elsewhere, here at this CC for example - people who value you for what you are and not mincing your words when you want to make a point. It is a rare trait that I wish to possess myself.

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Just curious Nimrah, Mash, Zainu, Fivr and others - how many of your have to wear burqas everyday?

@LadyM: I hope I don't offend anyone, but I don't see a point to wearing the burqa, at least not in the western countries 🤔. Middle East ya back in Pakistan and India, I can understand the need - it's cultural and I totally understand that. But living in America or Canada or any part of Europe, a burqa's really not needed. Because the whole purpose of a hijab is to not attract attention to yourself and to be modest. Ab app poori busy street mein sir sey paon tak ka kala burqa pehen k ghoomo gai toh lazmi hai k har koi goorey ga! You can dress modest and still fit in without wearing a burqa or a jilbab or something. A simple and decent (i.e. not skin-tight or barely there) wardrobe ensemble would do the trick just fine.. But that's just my opinion.. 😆

Aur bhi reasons like? 😆 But yeah I totally agree with your POV. Wearing a hijab in a western country is definitely gonna attract attention.. 😛

Ohhh mannn! MR was amaaaazing in today's scene.. The whole reminiscing of their journey.. Looooved the dialogues.. It was very well shown and I just loved MR's acting today.. and the precap.. 😆 Kaun hai tu ladki.. Nakku looks damn scared..

Originally posted by: nureat01

LOL I wasn't really bored....but yeah it was very different....waise bhi she comes from a very conservative family and the groom's family were even more conservative...everyone was in burqas.....they put like this giant divider screen kinda thing b/w the women's section and the men's section of the hall :S.....that was the weird bit for me.....and yeah it does get wrapped up pretty quickly....signing the document and done.....almost felt like a court marriage except for the fact that everyone was dressed up in fancy clothes....lol

Everyone was in burqas even though there was a divider b/w the men and women section? Weird...like Nimrah said...even if some women wear burqas they usually remove it in a wedding specially in a segregated wedding. Every wedding on the maternal side of my family have separate sections for women and men...but there isn't any divider as such..just a partition of sorts but you can see the men on the other side. I think they didn't do Nikah in the hall, just the signing of the Nikah Namaa...yeah that usually happens....the girl's Nikah is done a day before the wedding reception...and the groom's Nikah is done in a mosque...then there's a wedding reception where everyone just show off their clothes and take pictures n EAT..haha

Nimrah...Honestly speaking even I would not wear sweaters in a wedding...yaaaaar...kapre chupte hain...😆 😆 We are really obsessed with clothes...haina?

Originally posted by: nimrah

*Edit: Anu, got a link to Manav-Archana scene? Ones which you're using as your avi.. Just feel like seeing it.. 😳

*Edit again: and I told you na, its Khali's turn to leave now.. He's been nominated this week along with Dolly and Sara.. Ab in 2 nautankis ne toh nikalna nahi.. Bacha bechare Khali ji! *sigh*

Yaar the scene isn't available on YT.....but I have a dailymotion link....would this work?

http://www.upbulk.com/media/video.php?id=333138

Oh wow they nominated Khali??? That sucks.....one rare sweet, genuine person in that house.

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Just curious Nimrah, Mash, Zainu, Fivr and others - how many of your have to wear burqas everyday?

Whew Anu! I read the entire 7-8 pages of that SGP discussion forum and I was exhausted. So people not liking direct criticism? Well no one does actually. We all live in a world where it is ingrained in us that we have to "soften the blow". So when people come face-to-face with those who dare to bare all, they cannot handle it. Without preaching to the choir or "batooing gyan" Anu - all I can say is - don't feel bad over few people's myopia. You have a lot more supporters and friends elsewhere, here at this CC for example - people who value you for what you are and not mincing your words when you want to make a point. It is a rare trait that I wish to possess myself.

That's very kind of you to say that, LadyM and I'm glad to have you all as friends here in this CC too but to me it isn't that I need to have supporters to value me or something but I don't appreciate ppl acting two faced and hypocritical with me and that is what I found the most disgusting in that thread when ppl were trying to pull two faced nautanki with me blatantly and then trying to act like innocent angels🤢.....And overall they all just seem to have it in for me for god only knows what reason.....petty minded ppl that they are.....the funny part though definitely is how they changed their colors and suddenly my sarcasm was poison to them cuz it was directed at SGP and certain idiotic poem spouting losers in the forum....isse pehle THESE very ppl would APPLAUD me if I maaroed a sarcastic taana about say a show like Pratigya etc......really pathetic what double standards these ppl have....like that Shounak used to literally PM me crap about Pratigya all the time to bitch about it like I have nothing better to do in my life😆....and look at how he's talking to me now.....utter nonsense.