swayam's character is not getting butchered

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Niveditha

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Posted: 11 years ago

yes guys... i do feel that swayam character is not getting butchered... because the way swayam has been shown till now... is of a person who never gets hurt no matter what happens... he is always forgiving everyone... in literature such a person is known as a Mary-sue or since he is a guy... he is a marty stu... he is this way too perfect person who is always sweet and always forgiving person...such a person can't exist in reality as at some point... the person is eventually going to feel hurt...and that is what swayam is going through now...the cv's are showing that even swayam is not perfect... he is also a normal human being who gets hurt and swayam for all of his goodness is too sweet... so sweet that it would cause a person diabetes... there is a limit to his patience... and Sharon has to learn that she can't take swayam for granted... in a relationship... the people involved are supposed to evolve because of each other... they fight and make up because they grow up together as better person after the fight... right now swayam is hurt that Sharon used his best friend who has given up on a lot of things to help them... but none of the other members of the d3 gang know about it... palki maam kept swayam's character stagnant... right now... he is finally getting the attention his character deserves...he is growing as a human being... he has to learn that being altruistic is not going to help him in the harsh world...if Sharon can change from an arrogant diva who thought she was the best to a sweet person who understands the true meaning of friendship and life... swayam needs to toughen up a bit...

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Ravina

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Posted: 11 years ago

bang on your post...
totaly agree with you swayam is also human kya usse gussa nahi aa sakta...woh bohot hurt hai n m sure woh sharon ko maaf kar dega but kuch time bad...

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Regina.Phalange

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Posted: 11 years ago

I do agree with you ..yeah i understand swayam is hurt ..he can't be peacemaker all the time ..after all he is also a human .

BUT here the basic essence of swayam is missing ...i'm not asking to show swayam roaming around sharon like old times ..behaving like a puppy ..But the way he is behaving with sharon is SO not swayam .

I agree he needs time after how sharon rejected him ...may be months or years BUT this is fiction ...they can't show this stagnant phase for long time ..we swaron fans also wants to see other phases of swaron ...all we have seen from past 3 yrs is fights and misunderstanding ..their love life only lasted for few weeks.

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UndefinedBeauty

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree with you. Swayam is hurt and he needs time to forgive Sharon. He has every right to be angry with Sharon. But its been 4 months since Sharon rejected him publicly and still there's almost no development. I mean how long are they gonna stretch this? SwaRon fans have a limit to their patience dont they? If they keep showing the same thing over and over again we are bound to get frustated.

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surbhimathur

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Posted: 11 years ago

Swayam is not even softening a bit..you mean to say we should wait for another 2 months for the patchup? Already 4 months crossed!
And frankly speaking what do you expect sharon to do now, climb off a cliff to prove her love?
I understand your views but we are not ready to wait for another month, already its hell late for their patchup, buildup dur ki baat.
As a creative atleast this small thing they should think about swayam, show him a bit concerned, i am tired seeing him walking away all the time! Jo insaan uss ladki ki jhalak ke liye kuch bhi kar leta tha woh ab ussi ke saamne eyes roll karke n rude hoke chala jaata hai, even after knowing that her intentions are true, yeh kya reason hai har baar ki "tumhe sirf lagta hai ki tum mujhse pyaar karti ho?" Dude
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Sorry i am too frustrated on cv's not on you so relax this is not for you as what you mentioned also contains fault of cv's, they went wrong in the projection of his character and one thing i disagree on is palki mam kept his character stagnant, its not true coz if you see pehla nasha and scenes around that you will see swayam being rude yet concerned about sharon, not exactly so rude, so it was acceptable but now he is getting rude for every single reason.

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Divya

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Posted: 11 years ago

ya i agree with some of your points...he has right to get angry on sharon..but don't you think his overreacting too much now??

sharon has tried her best to convince him in all d possible ways...what else he expects her to do??

if swayam can give advice to others about second chance..cant he himself give second chance to love of his life??

see i am not against you..itz just dat CV's have literally killed real swayam...

the basic essence of swaron story is missing...

Edited by sweetdivya - 11 years ago

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rbpll

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree wid u ..at the end of the day he is a human being ...he cant be always d one who luv unconditionally widout any expectation...but the problem is cvs r not portraying his character properly...he has every right to get angry n rude to sharon but wat palki did that she always justified his anger n rudeness through monologues n one more important point was that during palki's tym swayam's anger was the reaction of sharon's action but nwadays he gets angry for no reason for eg. when recently he walked out from canteen that was actually very annoying of him...one of the biggest problem his that there is no consistency in the swaron track...one day swayam is shown as angry, next day casual, another day judgemental i mean y cant cvs stick to one thing...v get one meaningful scenes in 2 weeks n most of the tym it is filler scene

Swayam is a human being not a saint or god like every other person he also gets hurt n angry but he is a good human being...that was the basic essence of his character...he can be dark for eg. classroom showdown or toyboy waala scene he immediately feel guilty about it...that is wat missing from his character nwadays...

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Meera

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Rupita
I agree wid u ..at the end of the day he is a human being ...he cant be always d one who luv unconditionally widout any expectation...but the problem is cvs r not portraying his character properly...he has every right to get angry n rude to sharon but wat palki did that she always justified his anger n rudeness through monologues n one more important point was that during palki's tym swayam's anger was the reaction of sharon's action but nwadays he gets angry for no reason for eg. when recently he walked out from canteen that was actually very annoying of him...one of the biggest problem his that there is no consistency in the swaron track...one day swayam is shown as angry, next day casual, another day judgemental i mean y cant cvs stick to one thing...v get one meaningful scenes in 2 weeks n most of the tym it is filler scene

Swayam is a human being not a saint or god like every other person he also gets hurt n angry but he is a good human being...that was the basic essence of his character...he can be dark for eg. classroom showdown or toyboy waala scene he immediately feel guilty about it...that is wat missing from his character nwadays...

Well said 👏

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Anam Fatima

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Posted: 11 years ago

i do agree wid u to quite an extent i mean i understand him n wat he's going thru n fr dose who r saying dat Sharon has done so much n wat does he expect her to do nw,dats da thing he does nt expect her to do anything.After going thru so much n da same thing evry freakin tym,he's totally given up on deir luv n da thought of dem ever being togeder n lyk he mentioned in deir recent fight "zabardasti lovestory banane se accha hai ki hum dost bane" so dats wat evn after she befriended kriya he never thought of dem getting back togeder as a couple,i dont noe y in one of his monologue he mentioned giving sharon a second chance on da basis of her friendship wid kriya dats a mistake on da writers part.

He still luves her unconditionally bt has stopped showing it as he somewhere noes dat deres no place fr dem to exist n he feels dey'll never be happy togeder n c'mon after da same thing happening again n again he's bound to feel so n hes nt unsure of is luv fr her he's just unsure of deir relationship

N ol dese "i luv u's" r sharon's words nw bt dose 'v wer never a couple n cud never b n hw cud u evn think so' wer her words too dat to after confessing her luv fr him n doing so much fr him,fulfilling his wishes to make him feel special,hw does he make himself sure dat dose will nt b her words again

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LiveEatLove

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Shan_swayam
i do agree wid u to quite an extent i mean i understand him n wat he's going thru n fr dose who r saying dat Sharon has done so much n wat does he expect her to do nw,dats da thing he does nt expect her to do anything.After going thru so much n da same thing evry freakin tym,he's totally given up on deir luv n da thought of dem ever being togeder n lyk he mentioned in deir recent fight "zabardasti lovestory banane se accha hai ki hum dost bane" so dats wat evn after she befriended kriya he never thought of dem getting back togeder as a couple,i dont noe y in one of his monologue he mentioned giving sharon a second chance on da basis of her friendship wid kriya dats a mistake on da writers part.
He still luves her unconditionally bt has stopped showing it as he somewhere noes dat deres no place fr dem to exist n he feels dey'll never be happy togeder n c'mon after da same thing happening again n again he's bound to feel so n hes nt unsure of is luv fr her he's just unsure of deir relationship
N ol dese "i luv u's" r sharon's words nw bt dose 'v wer never a couple n cud never b n hw cud u evn think so' wer her words too dat to after confessing her luv fr him n doing so much fr him,fulfilling his wishes to make him feel special,hw does he make himself sure dat dose will nt b her words again

@Red So, what should Sharon do to re-assure Mr.Swayam?? Jump off MT.Everest? Set herself on fire?? What exactly???? What does one do??