Sharon alienated from SwaRon?

Off late we have seen a big U turn in Sharon's character thanks to the script writers. Sharon shouldn't have done this, she is wrong, I hate her, Swayam should move on with someone else, she doesn't deserve him.. These are very few of the negative things I've read in the forum and to be frank I'm hating it.

I agree what Sharon did was wrong. Insulting her boyfriend in front of everyone, denying her relationship and closing the future of it was totally wrong. BUT, we have also seen her explanation for it. She was nervous, didn't know how to react and such words came out of her mouth at the spur of the moment. She realised it the moment she left the place, she felt sorry for it, she knew she was wrong and she did go to apologise Swayam. She loves him and no one who followed SwaRon story would deny it. This action of hers doesn't mean she is not good for Swayam or Swayam is just too much for her. Aren't there flaws in both? Haven't we overlooked them in the past?

I'm not here to give gyaan or do moral policing since I don't have the right to. Trust me even I was upset at that dialogue of Sharon's and my anger knew no bounds after the scene that followed where Swayam was being insulted in the college. But when I read few posts here my anger got deviated somewhere else. How can we hate Sharon, an integral part of SwaRon? If Swayam has done so much for her even she has done many things for him which cannot be ignored just by one bloody dialogue! Just a recap of SRP's love for Swayam Shekhawat (for those who have forgotten or have never cared to watch). Just think of answers to these questions ONCE before calling Sharon names..

- Sharon didn't reveal her asthma problem to Swayam. Why?
- Why did she attend to his injuries when he was hurt?
- She fought for him with his dad, for him being recognised in front of his dad. What was all this for?
- She went out of the way to confess her feelings to his dad even before she did that to him. Wasn't she brave enough?
- She was the one who wanted to tell it out to the world about their relationship. Am I right or am I right?
- She wanted to fulfill his wishes dil se. Was she selfish?
- She went to him after the Chokra jawaan song fiasco. She went there to save her relationship or for her image?
- She was worried for him after the slap incident and waited all night for him keeping aside her health. Was she wrong even then?


These are just few of the instances I've written down. In my previous post I was supporting Swayam but that didn't mean I was against Sharon. I was stating my unhappiness over the track and the way SRP's character is being handled. They made Swayam justified here and royally ignored Sharon.

Anyways all I want to say is please don't bash Sharon on the basis of this one mistake. The damage is done but yes we should not alienate Sharon from SwaRon. Swayam will always love Sharon till his heart beats it's last. End of story!

PS: Sorry if it was rude and long but I just couldn't handle few comments.

Originally posted by: bleu98

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I agree Sharon shouldn't be bashed or hated. But sympathising with her is also extremely difficult under the situation. Especially after the last debacle it's very difficult to relate to her. I don't want Swayam to be with anyone else, that'll be ridiculous, but I don't want Swayam to immediately get back together with her (which will anyway not happen going by the CV's tendency to drag things). I just want Swayam to be alone, happy, giving importance to his life, his career, his reputation, his priorities for a while.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I did not see any name calling posts for Sharon yet- but yeah people are disillusioned in her. She turned out to be far too image-conscious which I certainly don't like. Also what hurts me is that she may love Swayam to bits, but she doesn't respect him, even after 2 years.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">And all those things you mentioned that she did for Swayam, well every girlfriend would do that, isn't it? That's only normal. She would have made a bigger impact if she stood up for Swayam when Rey slapped him. If she didn't alienate him like she did.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">But yes I'm waiting to see how she is going to win her love back. I wanna see how the CVs redeem Sharon's character, which is almost beyond repair now.</font>

yeah i agree with you!!!

agree nams..!! For once i was super irritated a sharon, but then i realise the character of sharon has done things which generally girls dont do. She tried doing things out of her comfort zone and that too willingly!!
And actually the current situation would have been accepted willingly with just that one line moved. Hum kabhi nahi the!! Just ruined everything!! Evn though she is at fault we need to understand her insecurities. Right?? Many a times we all make mistakes out of insecurities and other matters, its something that goes inside us which makes us react that way, that doesnt make me bad or selfish, its the situation the inner turmoil. And all this i mean love and all is hapening pehli baar for sharon, toh dont u think before accepting it in frnt of sabkoi or whatever a person will think twice. Yes it would have been better if she dint speak and left from there. Bt understanding dono ka pov no one is wrong.! Bt yes for once she should taste rejection just to realize the pain of swayam. Thats it

i am too against bashing of sharon as she is a part of swaron with swayam...but what she did i cant sympathised wid her...i too dont agree some are saying another girl for swayam...i dont think any swaron fan will agree to it...if swayam gets involve wid other girl it will kill the essence of swayam...but i dont want swayam to give her another chance so easily...if he does that sharon will do d same mistake in future considering that swayam will easily forgive her so easily...she need to prove her love and win back swayam which is not going to happen so soon...i want swayam to take time and show others he is not desperate...ya i know sharon has done so many things for swayam but that doesnot mean what she did is easily forgivable...but at d end i want swaron to be together...it was really interesting to watch how sharon manages to get back wid swayam

First of all the one dialogue/denial of sharon damaged everything...

And to be frank the script writers were to be blamed for portraying sharon like this...

If we consider the mike room scene between shareyam when swayam ca,e toknow that the mike is on his first dialouge was " Situation bahut buri hai " and the first dialouge of sharon was " now what will happen, bahut problem ho jaayegi, mera public tamasha ban gaya hai, ab sab ko pata chal jaayega..." . One can clearly see swayam's expressions in that scene

This clearly indicates sharon is worrying about her image... And considering the nature of sharon its natural as sharon is always like that...

Bahar aane ke baad when everyone are questioning her, sharon first get clarified from rey that " kya sabko hamare relationship ke baare mein pata chal gaya hai...".

And uske baad when swayam declares that they are couple sharon just blurt out that they arent... And yes she doesnt mean what she meant there...It is an impulsive reaction

And whatever swayam said was correct... Sharon still wants swayam to get back to her...
ANd yes she is going out of her comfort zone and doing things like hiding in locker room... And in real sense she is the secret admirer... She admires swayam secretly... but when time came where it should be accepted and support swayam she just denied it... whatever the insecurities she has , the thing is just she just denied it and ran away...

And the dialouges from sharon like "i really dont know how the doors of my heart was shut at that moment " were so lame ...

The script writers are definitely at fault... Such a lame dialogues to sharon
It doesnt mean that she doesnt love swayam... If she doesnt love swaym then she wouldnt have did the things what ever she has done for swayam...

An if we come to the swaron convo yesterday, if we look from the side of swayam , whatever swayam said was correct...

If swayam said sharon that she is not a normal girl but popular... then swayam wasnt wrong in saying that as sharon was projected in that manner...

And the dialouge " You dont love me sharon... agar tum mujse pyaar karti toh tum woh nahi karti joh tumne aaj kiya hai "

When swayam says that shaorn tum mujse pyaar nahi karti really means that swayam is doubting her love... No he knows that she loves him ... But the situations made swayam to say like that... and he too knows that it wasnt true...

In the same way if swaron fans says that they hate sharon etc etc then why we cant the others just act maturely and think that it is their impulsive reaction based on the situation and nobody in real means that what they actually written...

Yes i had seen many hate posts saying i hate u sharon / swayam should move on / sharon doesnt deserve swayam etc etc but for me the swaron fans reactions and sharon's reaction appeared similar...

They just blurt out out of frustration and anger and it is their impulsive reaction...

And yes i am not in support of the foul language used by the swaron fans... They might have showed their anger/frustration in a better way and may have constructively critisized...

And again what i disliked in these two days is the moral policing and pointing the loyality of the fans on their favs... Nobody is a certified swaron fan here... So i personally think we should stop moral policing others and try to understand each others POV and act wisely

And i think sharon should try very hard to get back to swayam this time...

So lets hope for the best and pray for swaron patch up...

and yes i am against brinigng a new girl to swayam... Like uzma said swayam shikawat will die the day he stop loving sharon...

so i hope swayam will be shown as a person who stand for himself and his self respect

Originally posted by: diya90

The forum is full of anti -sharon posts lately and some are even considering a new girl for Swayam . Sharon is an integral part of SwaRon , I would even go on saying she is an integral part of Swayam too. Would Swayam , the loverboy exist if sharon was the starry-eye-at-the-thought of love type of girl ? No I don't think so . Swayam and Sharon have always complimented each other and they are, I believe, perfectly suited .

I'm not gonna justify Sharon because what she did was wrong. She rejected him when he most needed her but as she said it , it was a reflex action of hers. It's her nature to be image conscious and like this , when he blurted out in the open about their relationship , she got scared and rejected him without any after thoughts . Sharon has always been a flawed character . She made loads of mistakes in the past and the difference this time, is I can see her regretting it .If people could still love sharon after that shoes incident , why is it so hard to give her another chance this time ?!! 😕 This time she didn't personally insult him at least. 😕

This is the same sharon who did so much for Swayam , she wanted to fulfill his wishlist not caring about her own preferences. Rain dance, camping , chai date , she did it all for his happiness. In papa track , she was always on his side, defending him and stopping others from showing him down . She has to win his trust back this time, and if I think , this track has a lot of potential if the CVs show it properly without any dragging. SwaRon has always been about swayam and sharon for me, and I would stick by them till the end.