Sharon alienated from SwaRon? - Page 2

Trust me nams this was actually the need of the hour:) Thanks a ton for making this post:)
People bashing Sharon, left right and centre,writing.pages of hate messages, asking for new girl for swayam and what not 🤢
I hate those hypocrites who say they love swaron, and write hate messages for Sharon!! Why do they even forget that swaron is impossible without Sharon in it!! First of all, people should calmly understand n analyse the story and then decide! I was and am highly disappointed with the characterization of Sharon, but that doesn't mean that I sit n bash her! Instead of writing I hate you, you don't deserve... Why can't bashers ask CVS for change in script for Sharon!! Point your fingers at CVS not the character! If they still wanna continue it then they should stop calling themselves as swaron fans!!
I came across a post, asking for swayam to move on and never accept Sharon, even if she proves her worth!! Dude seriously, if swayam does that then it's nothing but swayam's failure, not Sharon's! Swayam had always tried hard to build trust in Sharon, but now after breakup she has realised him importance,im sure she'll try hard to get back swayam and probe her worth for swayam's love! As she has already confessed to him that she can't live without him, im sure she'll prove it too, even after all this if people want swayam to move on, then trust me it'll be a mockery of swayam's love!! If Sharon proves herself, then it's the biggest victory swayam's love can achieve!! He has got what he wanted! May be a bit late, but better late than never! I don't understand why ppl are onto saying that swayam move on,dont accept Sharon at anycost! When swayam and Sharon love each other and can never move on with others then will it not be wrong to ask them to move on with others?? They'll not only spoil their life, but will spoil other's lives too! People need to think, a bit practical before asking him to move on, never accept, or move on with some other girl...

First it would be right if people wait till story progress, only after giving some time reaching conclusion on Sharon will be justified! Beforehand judging is completely wrong as per my POV!!

Originally posted by: bleu98

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I agree Sharon shouldn't be bashed or hated. But sympathising with her is also extremely difficult under the situation. Especially after the last debacle it's very difficult to relate to her. I don't want Swayam to be with anyone else, that'll be ridiculous, but I don't want Swayam to immediately get back together with her (which will anyway not happen going by the CV's tendency to drag things). I just want Swayam to be alone, happy, giving importance to his life, his career, his reputation, his priorities for a while.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I did not see any name calling posts for Sharon yet- but yeah people are disillusioned in her. She turned out to be far too image-conscious which I certainly don't like. Also what hurts me is that she may love Swayam to bits, but she doesn't respect him, even after 2 years.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">And all those things you mentioned that she did for Swayam, well every girlfriend would do that, isn't it? That's only normal. She would have made a bigger impact if she stood up for Swayam when Rey slapped him. If she didn't alienate him like she did.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">But yes I'm waiting to see how she is going to win her love back. I wanna see how the CVs redeem Sharon's character, which is almost beyond repair now.</font>

Sharon doesn't respect Swayam? Where did that come from? We can't judge her based only on this!

And I don't think so ANY girlfriend would do what Sharon has done to Swayam. It needs a lot of courage and trust on the person you love to do things I mentioned in the main topic.

I understand it's difficult to sympathise with her right now but just don't judge her by this incident.

Originally posted by: MoNayaHolicPrag

agree nams..!! For once i was super irritated a sharon, but then i realise the character of sharon has done things which generally girls dont do. She tried doing things out of her comfort zone and that too willingly!!
And actually the current situation would have been accepted willingly with just that one line moved. Hum kabhi nahi the!! Just ruined everything!! Evn though she is at fault we need to understand her insecurities. Right?? Many a times we all make mistakes out of insecurities and other matters, its something that goes inside us which makes us react that way, that doesnt make me bad or selfish, its the situation the inner turmoil. And all this i mean love and all is hapening pehli baar for sharon, toh dont u think before accepting it in frnt of sabkoi or whatever a person will think twice. Yes it would have been better if she dint speak and left from there. Bt understanding dono ka pov no one is wrong.! Bt yes for once she should taste rejection just to realize the pain of swayam. Thats it

Yeah right! That one line ruined it all but as I said the damage is done.
Let's just hope Sharon relaizes the essence of rejection and act maturely..

Originally posted by: vinitam

i am too against bashing of sharon as she is a part of swaron with swayam...but what she did i cant sympathised wid her...i too dont agree some are saying another girl for swayam...i dont think any swaron fan will agree to it...if swayam gets involve wid other girl it will kill the essence of swayam...but i dont want swayam to give her another chance so easily...if he does that sharon will do d same mistake in future considering that swayam will easily forgive her so easily...she need to prove her love and win back swayam which is not going to happen so soon...i want swayam to take time and show others he is not desperate...ya i know sharon has done so many things for swayam but that doesnot mean what she did is easily forgivable...but at d end i want swaron to be together...it was really interesting to watch how sharon manages to get back wid swayam

Agree it's time for both to prove things. Swayam should prove he is not a desperate loser and at the same time Sharon should prove it to Swayam that even she loves him unconditionally, without any fear.. It will take time but I'm sure everything will be justified in d future..

Originally posted by: bleu98

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">@TM</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">That's what I felt. Swayam's five years of love, dedication, it was all made fun of. If you respect someone you cannot leave that person to get ridiculed by all and sundry, no matter what is at stake. But yeah, I'm not judging her by one incident. Thing is she decided to protect her image rather than Swayam's dignity. That's something which led me to draw this conclusion. But I'd like to see what she does to get him back.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">And by any girlfriend, I meant anyone in love would do that. Girlfriends are girls in love with their boyfriends right? People do crazier things in love. Anyway, I felt she was behaving like a normal girlfriend for once, and I was happy. But I wouldn't consider it something extraordinary she did for Swayam, like it is being portrayed. The Chai date, camping date, those were Swayam's wishes, yes, but wasn't she equally involved in it? It's not like she was only doing it for Swayam. She decided to do something fun along with her boyfriend. College kids do that. And anybody in love would stand up for their loved ones, protect them, be possessive about them.</font>

<font color="#ff0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I would just like to clear one thing, I'm not hating her or anything. I've myself requested people not to hate her or bash her. But I do find it difficult to relate to her or sympathise with her. Period.</font>

now can i say something?? U arent a sharon fan. and ttoday u ar saying all this coz ur nt vrushika wwali sharon fan warna u wouldnt have said all this. SSAbse pehle u havnt understtood sharon at all.. coz for sharon doing all this normal stuff is nt normal for hr.. shE is nt the person to dnce in the rain or have tea lke that. she has gone out of comfort zone.. so DNT cmment when ur biased and cannot understand characters. no oneof us are saying she she is right. Bt he can get a second chance right?

@bleu98..

I'm not only talking about the dates and d FUN they had together. She was with him even in bad times.
Fine if you're not able to sympathise with her, but don't throw away her love in d bin just coz of a wrong reflex. She didn't do all that with prior planning. She just said it at the nick of the moment without any thinking. Yes she is wrong but her love is not to be nullified coz of this.

Originally posted by: MoNayaHolicPrag

now can i say something?? U arent a sharon fan. warna u wouldnt have said all this. SSAbse pehle u havnt understtood sharon at all.. coz for sharon doing all this normal stuff is nt normal for hr.. shE is nt the person to dnce in the rain or have tea lke that. she has gone out of comfort zone.. so DNT cmment when ur biased and cannot understand characters. no oneof us are saying she she is right. Bt he can get a second chance right?

Couldn't have agreed more with you prags . The things she did wasn't normal by her standards , they are other way of having fun but that wishlist mattered to her because it was Swayam's . Sharon has always been like this her character has been etched out this way. She made more serious mistakes in the pasts, didn't even regret it but still some people hold that version of sharon sacred . Now, she is regretting and trying to make things right , she is being disparaged. I think she certainly deserves a second chance, because whatever her faults, one thing i can say for sure, she does love swayam .

Originally posted by: MoNayaHolicPrag

now can i say something?? U arent a sharon fan. and ttoday u ar saying all this coz ur sneha is nt sharon warna u wouldnt have said all this. SSAbse pehle u havnt understtood sharon at all.. coz for sharon doing all this normal stuff is nt normal for hr.. shE is nt the person to dnce in the rain or have tea lke that. she has gone out of comfort zone.. so DNT cmment when ur biased and cannot understand characters. no oneof us are saying she she is right. Bt he can get a second chance right?

Originally posted by: nami2811

@bleu98..

I'm not only talking about the dates and d FUN they had together. She was with him even in bad times.
Fine if you're not able to sympathise with her, but don't throw away her love in d bin just coz of a wrong reflex. She didn't do all that with prior planning. She just said it at the nick of the moment without any thinking. Yes she is wrong but her love is not to be nullified coz of this.