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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really didn't understand wats ur point?? I mean its fine that Swayam didn't tell about his relationship to Taani it's his decision .. d same goes for Taani .. she is an adult .. she has all d rights to say or hide her relationship .. Swayam may be upset wid it but he can't expect Taani to say every thing to him .. ohh come on if he can't be so open wid his sis he can't expect it from Taani .. be it a trial relationship, committed relation or open relationship d fact is he has a secret d same way Taani has her own .. N swayam is her bro but not much older than her, not her local guardian .. look I can understand he is possessive about his sis but there sud be a LOC in every relationship .. he said about in Shivam's time .. we r expecting its implement from him in this time .. dats it
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Posted: 12 years ago
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My sis is younger dan me! She tells me evrythng coz i deserve to know as her elder sis as i have a responsibility towards her as her elder sis! Bt do i need to tell her evrythng??? No nd moreover i cant! Dis is same here!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shreyasi28

My sis is younger dan me! She tells me evrythng coz i deserve to know as her elder sis as i have a responsibility towards her as her elder sis! Bt do i need to tell her evrythng??? No nd moreover i cant! Dis is same here!


Shreyashi .. my sis is seven n half years younger than me .. I used to do the same thing when she was a kid but now that she is an adult I don't poke my nose in her life n she also gives d same space to me .. ds is called mutual understanding it develops with time .. n Swayam is hardly 1 year older than his sis .. n more than that Taani is an adult n she has her own life.. he has to understand it .. its good to be protective but not interfering..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayaneegupta


Shreyashi .. my sis is seven n half years younger than me .. I used to do the same thing when she was a kid but now that she is an adult I don't poke my nose in her life n she also give d same space to me .. ds is called mutual understanding it develops with time .. n Swayam is hardly 1 year older from his sis .. n more than that Taani is an adult n she has her own life.. he has to understand it .. its good to be protective but notinterfering..



Oh plz i dnt interfer or even ask her nethng! Bt she knows dat i can b d one to trust! Nd i tel her all she needs to know! Datz cal mutual undrstanding!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shreyasi28


Oh plz i dnt interfer or even ask her nethng! Bt she knows dat i can b d one to trust! Nd i tel her all she needs to know! Datz cal mutual undrstanding!


uh really .. den tell me if she is an adult?? I don't think so .. n d fact is she tells u coz she feels like telling u .. d day she wl get something to keep secret she wont .. simple .. each n everyone in ds world has secrets .. n dats natural .. u can't blame one y u keep it secret specially when u have nothing to do with it .. n mutual understanding depends on an individual .. if Taani doesn't want to share something (though it was not like dat wid Taani) Swayam has no right to interfere .. no matter how a person is related to me he/she has his/her own space n r8 to take decision of her life .. so if Taani decides to keep it a secret den everything ends den n there .. simple ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayaneegupta


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uh really .. den tell me if she is an adult .. n d fact is she tells u coz she feels like telling u .. d day she wl get something to keep secret she wont .. simple .. each n everyone in ds world has secrets .. n dats natural .. u can't blame one y u keep it secret specially when u have nothing to do with it .. n mutual understanding depends on an individual .. if Taani doesn't want to share something (though it was not like dat wid Taani) Swayam has no right tointerfere .. no matter how a person is related to me he/she has her own space n r8 to take decision of her life .. so if Taani decides to keep it a secret den everything ends den n there .. simple ..


Acha jst tel me has swayam interfered yet or u can c future?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shreyasi28


Acha jst tel me has swayam interfered yet or u can c future?


I think d whole convo is going on d basis of d precap n ur post wasn't about interference .. it was about y she sud tell n y he sudn't r8?? .. what he is gonna do time will say but where I object wid his thought dat he sud know everything about her life .. his reaction was so over d top .. he just landed in college to know d fact, dat too knowing that she is with a safe guy .. isn't it quite interfering?? well I am 26, my sis is going to be 19 in one month .. I can't even imagine to poking my nose in ds way in her life .. n still I am considered as most caring sis by her, her friends n family .. so from my side whats Swayam doing is so not done
Edited by sayaneegupta - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think we r being judgemental too early...swayam is just upset. .because sharon is totally behaving indifferent to him for reasons unknown to him...his mother has told about his bb game to his dad...he is tensed because of that also...plus he told taani to share everything with him but she did not and rey is his best friend with whom he shares everything...he is hurt that everyone is hiding something or the other...sharon is behaving coldly, taani and rey has hidden their relationship from him...he is just upset and hurt...dont worry he will be back to normal soon...but I can understand his plight- sister dating best friend swayam wont be comfortable with this thing...😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayaneegupta


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I think d whole convo is going on d basis of d precap n ur post wasn't about interference .. it was about y she sud tell n y he sudn't r8?? .. what he is gonna do time will say but where I object wid his thought dat he sud know everything about her life .. his reaction was so over d top .. he just landed in college to know d fact, dat too knowing that she is with a safe guy .. isn't it quite interfering?? well I am 26, my sis is going to be 19 in one month .. I can't even imagine to poking my nose in ds way in her life .. n still I amconsideredas most caring sis by her, her friends n family .. so from my side whats Swayam doing is so not done



Me nd my sis r unique nd i shudnt xpect evrybody to b lyk dat as evry1 is diff bt dis post was bout y swayam wudnt say nethng to tani nd nt d odr way round nd i dnt care for tani so i dnt wanna talk bout dat! Dis revelation will effect reyam nd swaron more dan it will effect taayam or taarey so b hapy nd swayam goin to d colg was out of sheer frustration as he felt betrayed by his best frnd! Nd swayam is far from knowing evrythng in tani's life! Dnt u remembr he stopped tani while she wanted to let him know bout d truth f her relatnship wid shivam? Nd d statement he made in front of his frnds was to justify tani as he dnt want dem talking rubish bout his sis nd moreovr wen tani was d one who told swayam bout her relatnship wid shivam so xpect karna dat she wil tel him d nxt tym also is natural!
Edited by shreyasi28 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with you.
Why shud swayam say abt his relationship to taani???
Taani and rey said I LOVE YOU TOO each other whereas this is not the case with SWARON...and moreover when it happens swaron again will tell rey first and then to everyone else...as simple as that...swayam taani arent in such a bond that wud enable swayam to share his every whereabout to his cousin who came outta nowhere...swayam and taani arent accountants and auditors to give each other every detail of thier lives...yes they are just representing a sweet bro-sis relation...in which m nt much interested..
and ppl are questioning on why swayam expects taani to tell him about her relation...taani had herself told him abt her fake relationship earlier...hence that naturally give him the belief that any such thing proceeds she will definitly inform him...
One more thing...Peechle dhed saal sey we are seeing swayam giving prior importance to Sharon and its continuing still and will continue so...suddenly taani entrance sey if ppl are trying to prove a point that swayam is a possessive brother then meri jhoothi bhi iss baath ko swikaar naa karey...worrying on this fact is merely outaa his responisibility not cozz he is possesive...his acceptance fo taani-shivam relationship instantly proves that swayam only cares abt his ppl's happiness...possesiveness isnt a part of swayam's traits..
M glad that swayam POV is taking a toll and m enjoying all this fuss about swayam and sharon...enjoying cozz i know swayam is right in everyway and looks like ppl are finding it difficult to deal with it...really wanna see how rey wud prove his point to swayam...its abt reyam and SWARON...nt abt swayam-taani or tarey

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