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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
I'm back with my 2 cents 😳 Although I don't think I can put Rey's character into words as well as you do! But I'll try :) And sorry in advance for the long reply!

Right now Rey is one confused soul. He's jumping from big ego Rey...to rude Rey...and then to insulting Rey. Of course the passionate Rey makes a special appearance but then it's back to square one! The thing with him right now is that he simply does not know what he is doing! He has no control over himself and is unable to keep his emotions in check. He's all over the place.

The question does arise - did Rey take Taani for granted? I would say yes. In Taani he found a staunch supporter, someone who had blind faith in him. She held him in high regard and he protected her like she was the most precious jewel in the whole world. But Taani gets promoted, holds the position of GS and Rey sees red. He just cannot handle it. He thought she would always be the girl that he could mould into according to his mood.

But as you rightly mentioned, Taani has always been loyal towards Rey. She has always had his best interest at heart. But he does not see it. He is blinded by anger and is surrounded by tall walls of misunderstandings which he has mostly created. I don't think he has ever stopped to think even once about Taani's true intentions. He has thrown insults and has undermined her on numerous occasions. But as Taani once told him correctly, she has come infront of him as Taani and NOT GS many times, but he failed to see that girl.

It clearly seems as though Rey is in a tug of war with his inner feelings. He loves Taani and it pains him to be apart from her. But at the same time he keeps pushing her away. Why? Perhaps it's easier for him to remain indenial. But although this may work for a short period of time, it is beginning to catch up on him. It's now coming to the point where everything is becoming unbearable for him. And in Wednesday's epi we saw him lose complete focus and at one point he had his head in his hands. That is the impact of Taani on him!

Ultimately Rey isn't really fighting with Taani...he's fighting with himself, with his feelings. Accepting his feelings is hard. But to keep Taani away is proving to be even harder!
Edited by Zinnia.TaaRey - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62
Wow. Really, finally i am seeing the logic of rey's behaviour. U hav done a great analysis and keep it up. I am looking forward to reading it. Ur post made one thing clear to me. Ki wo T se hamesha jo kehta he tum esi ho, muje tumhe samjana nahi he, tum power hungry ho etc etc, uname se logic nikalne se acha yahi he ki me samaj jau ki ye tantrums isliye he kyunki taani usake sath nahi he. Jo hamesha usake sath thi, in every situation, jab use koi chahiye tha jisape wo hmesha trust kr ske tab T usake sath 'directly' nahi reh skti thi. Do make one on his behavior till date
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63
Thankyou so much for this!! Your analysis has helped me to understand rey better!! Rey is clearly frustrated from the fact ki taani is the gs n so she is against him! Her position does not affect him at all but what affects him is ki taani due to her position is against him. During the rasiya seq. He breaks down in front of her saying "har koi mujhe right ke liyr responsible samjhta hai. Sirf tum hi mujhe wrong kyu samjhti ho? " Here he accepts the fact ki woh use galat samajhti hai (which she does not)n that is what affects him the most..
As for taani.. she cleared the fact ki she took up the gs post so that whatever rey wants to do against the dance ban.. he can do it easily.. and whatever she said post rasiya.. is clearly justified coz ek ladka yadi ladki ko pehle reject kar de.. n then jhagde, taunts, misunderstandings, n baat baat par bolna ki mai tumhe samajhna nahi chahta. N ek din achanak se uske itne close aa jaye.. to ladki kya samjhegi? Upar se swayam ne keh diya ki rey was hyper n tensed although his intension of saying it was diff.. so taani ko wahi laga.. n she didn't want to become a burden on rey again..
Mujhe yeh samajh aaya hai.. please tellme if I'm wrong.. I understand taani's pov n her character really well coz I can relate to her.. rey's pov ko samajhne me agar maine koi galti ki ho toh please batayiyega!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64
great post again and a great analysis👏...it made me understand rey more clearly especially his behavior since the last two months
Edited by pixi26angel - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#65
Well u seriously rock!! please pm me wen u post d next part!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: asharani261

wow dr,u r genius in analysing rey... bt i'm realy in lv wt ur post!!!!!


thanks i just love the guy
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Posted: 12 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: ramusk

hmm nice one again @prtn

i wud like to add up certain things to ur points ...

sometimes i feel that he constantly taunts her to expect some kinda reaction from her side. ..may be i think he wants her to snap back at him or atleast expects same kinda behaviour from her side too but bhaav nahin deti hain ...instead her ego being 0 before him she questions him as to why these taunting but she never snaps back or doesnt be rude to him...she ofc taking everything onto her all the time ..this one opposite traits in them is the main thing causing MU's accrding to the present situation ...except ofc these days ... but shes not totally blaming him
do u think so? i ve always felt thats what is his ..Balm- her not snapping back at him
and the one regarding being saath hamesha and choosing power i think the circumstances in his old break up is making him think all this...i am referring to the break up lines wherein he is said that he was being used to reach the position ...i think he is scared that he may lose her in all this position thing...
this is one thing which confused me like hell- bcoz though kriya said all that during breakup, somehow he doesnt believe it completely- like he tells swayam that i know ki there was something maybe majboori but why didnt she trust enuf to tell me? so it was lie one more thing in his mind rather than the only thing when he distanced taani i thought

well this is my gut feeling that taani will resign from her GS duties after this dance ban assuming dance ban is gonna end after the BB match...i dont want this coz to prove that taani wud be mahaan n all but her character is not as such ..she dint want to have AGS also and she took it just coz of him again...

or if she doesnt give up the post even after dance ban track i am waiting for the day wen she says "no power or position can change my feelings for u"

and i have a gut feeling that khusboo is gonna be sacked after this BB match n touchwood and i am getting positive vibes that all will gonna be good again in d3 touchwood again

frankly is lady villain ka the end hona chahiye arrey jab shivam tha then i was totally fine with him even though he was a haddi



thnaks for the reply
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Posted: 12 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: meghasingh

Again...absolutely to the point analysis...the day shivam was out of the story, he had a feeling that now he can spend time with taani... although the fact that he loves her become clear in the dialogue.."tum meri side ho...humesha..."...still he didn't had exact reason why he likes to be with her, but he knew that he likes her. and then same moment he gotta know that she's not by his side...someone who had been his side no matter what...taani had never asserted herself truly before...but now she's with her own distinct identity, not based on rey or swayam. Now rey becomes kinda insecure, he fears that he'll lose her, the special place they do have is in danger, as she had already changed sides, and now is against her.
The reason behind this is his loneliness too...swayam, he can share his feelings with rey, sharon or sometimes taani too...but rey has no one in his life regarding love...just taani...he can call her anytime even for no reason, he can shout on her knowing that whatever happens, she'll be his, and sometimes a bit flirty or lovey dovey too... "kya main tumhe cute lagta hoon?..."and then look look moments he share with her, moments which make him feel ticklish. He remembers everything what taani says to him, but not what he said to him... like he takes her comment very seriously..." inke saath to kuch bhi personal nahin ho sakta, war bhi nahin..." this line by taani hurts him badly, he is sad why there's not something personal bw them, her assertion of denying the relationship for which once she craved. However again he forgets that it's he who told her to get a life, to stay away from her.
And Taani...she's the one who's stuck between all this mess, without any reason...rey covered up his love, now he's in madly, deeply helplessly fallen for her, intensity in rey's love is really deep, so the rude comments by him to provide the cover up for his love for taani too are really insulting, contains the same intensity in them...that's why mostly times those taunts over silly fights become insulting, deeply humiliating, and rey doesn't realizes it... like when taani went at his house, or many other times...and these are the things which make taani understand that rey feels nothing for her, and never will...he just hates her and she's a reason behind his irritation.




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agree loneliness, insecurity - agree

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Posted: 12 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: ..dinu..

nice analysis dr!!rey can go upto two extremes really..!! so the matter is taani isn't th him but taani joined as gs only to support him she made it clear..!



yes but he was not ready to believe her
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Posted: 12 years ago
#70


at the point fight between man ego and loneliness? perhaps

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