rey- understanding him-page 4 - Page 6

grt post dr!!!u md me to understand rey better,since i ws realy bewilderd wt his behaviour twrds tani.at present he's so shattered,it truly hurts to c hm brkn & cryng.i wish rey & tani sort ot al tr mu's sn & wnt to c bt of thm hpy.

part 4 a

Somehow the day-(oct 30^th epi) when taani met rey and told him that she was the GS was the day the barrier started between them, rather reys insecurities spilled over to taani on that day. If we see, rey had this realisation by then that being around taani made him feel "ticklish" . he was happily openly complimenting her on the way she handled shivam and his thoughts were all FOR HER- like it was one chapter in ur life over , u don't have to be scared anymore, the way u handled it was really good etc., all about her. he was overflowing with concern, appreciation for her. And then the dialogue of main aapke saath hoon and hamesha? To which she replies without a pause Hamesha.

the whole mood changed along with reys hairstyle in the middle of a sentence! His first reaction to her being a GS made me think is he going to be jealous? But he wasn't. For him GS meant against himself and AVP s chamcha and he immediately decided she was THE enemy.

And then the torture starts- for taani and for us TR fans too- constant taunts and unnecessary fights, ready to misunderstand everything that she does or doesn't do- hes immaturish, childish even most times- reminded me of one of kriya s sarcastic dialogues to him- main kya do saal ke bacche ki saath baath karrahin hoon?

maybe taani being quiet at times encouraged him to taunt more ' he wanted some response from her but when she suddenly flared up , he had no strength to handle it- then started his desperate attempts at cover up. u were better off when u were quiet and i didn't know u would sound like this when u opened ur mouth - what does he want to say thro all the innumerable ways that he chose to mock her- why the hell aren't u with me all the time refusing to see that she s with him and for him continuously .

it was almost as if he was waiting for a chance to say- dekha i knew it wouldn't work. Its always position that ppl want, friendship and all don't matter. And after saying she would stand by me hamesha. Girls! Thats why i shud stay away.

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part 4 b

Why cant he handle her being not with him? and why in the first place, does he alone of all the gang feels she s against him?

lack of confidence? doubt? She was there , like a fav furniture that he could move around anyplace that he wanted to or a pet that wouldn't talk back and he had the comfort of her presence even with shivam around. It was reassuring for his ego, for his self esteem and much later on his heart that there was someone who would vote for him anytime anyplace. But when she has an identity of her own, he s suddenly worried she wont be around him anymore. Now shes talking back , saying and supporting things against me tomorrow she wont be around anymore . like before , i will be left alone. The gang on the other hand which was ready to boycott her, throw her away during elections have no such doubts- they have seen her standing up to shivam alone , finally realised that she s a friend one who makes mistakes but a friend neverthless.

And poor taani - her confidence forever on the low side- getting hit daily. Its no wonder that shes talking the crap that she talks now. But theres a fight there too- taani by now used to rey being protective about her though taunts are present , is now wanting to know why he s targeting her. join the circle of confusions.

What touched me during the whole torture was taani s unyielding loyalty. At her own cost- she gets it from AVP , comments like ur useless /brainless but always sees that rey s as safe as she can keep him and as safe as he will keep himself. And the fact that they still talk- rey finally asked her why she wasn't with him?

Theres really no explanation of his behaviour throughout the two months except that he chose to act like that and maybe he chose to act like that bcoz he needed reasons to keep his heart from slipping more and more towards her.to stop feeling ticklish perhaps but dil hain ki maantha nahin - none of it stops a corner of rey s heart from jumping with joy at the fact that she doesn't have a date on rose day! And the struggle between his ego saving itself and his heart yearning for taani s love had him standing on the edge which tipped as soon as he could hold taani in his arms.

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im adding these stuff borrowed from @Wallflower. and @ meghasingh
couldnt have put it better

The beauty of Rey's character is that one minute he can erupt like a volcano...and the next he will be as calm and still as water. He can go to two extremes!

In starting i was wondering why he's having problems with her just bcz she's GS, but the only problem is that he wants her to be with him...shattering down in taani's presence and crying depicts clearly what she means to him. Taani at his side or opposite side, makes the biggest difference for him, in a way he trusts her a lot. From past actions he'd seen that always taani has tried her best to help him, to be with him, regardless of everything.

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sorry became too long but rey ke baare mein baat karna start karoon tho stop nahin karsakthi. thanks for the replies

wow... what a post yaar...truly shows how his mind is goin thru...

wow dr,u r genius in analysing rey... bt i'm realy in lv wt ur post!!!!!

hmm nice one again @prtn

i wud like to add up certain things to ur points ...

sometimes i feel that he constantly taunts her to expect some kinda reaction from her side. ..may be i think he wants her to snap back at him or atleast expects same kinda behaviour from her side too but bhaav nahin deti hain ...instead her ego being 0 before him she questions him as to why these taunting but she never snaps back or doesnt be rude to him...she ofc taking everything onto her all the time ..this one opposite traits in them is the main thing causing MU's accrding to the present situation ...except ofc these days ... but shes not totally blaming him

and the one regarding being saath hamesha and choosing power i think the circumstances in his old break up is making him think all this...i am referring to the break up lines wherein he is said that he was being used to reach the position ...i think he is scared that he may lose her in all this position thing...

well this is my gut feeling that taani will resign from her GS duties after this dance ban assuming dance ban is gonna end after the BB match...i dont want this coz to prove that taani wud be mahaan n all but her character is not as such ..she dint want to have AGS also and she took it just coz of him again...

or if she doesnt give up the post even after dance ban track i am waiting for the day wen she says "no power or position can change my feelings for u"

and i have a gut feeling that khusboo is gonna be sacked after this BB match n touchwood and i am getting positive vibes that all will gonna be good again in d3 touchwood again

frankly is lady villain ka the end hona chahiye arrey jab shivam tha then i was totally fine with him even though he was a haddi

nice analysis dr!!rey can go upto two extremes really..!! so the matter is taani isn't th him but taani joined as gs only to support him she made it clear..!

awesome analysing and great input everybbody :)

I loved it! Once again you have really understood Rey beautifully! I shall come back later to post my 2 cents. Bravo! 👏