Curious Case of Aditya Raj Singh

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Hey everyone, just sharing a perspective.

After the fight scene, the only thing I felt is, how messed up Aditya is! People with such bottled up emotions are whacked up mentally! Adi NEEDS THERAPY dude!🤓 He pays someone for hitting him and seeks solace in that? How sick is it!

They could very well establish a mental health track in future with respect to Adi!🤔 And falling in love is definitely not the solution!🤢 The guy needs a healthy environment. He was better off in canada I feel. His family looks at him like a asset, his father makes him feel the worst about himself. Amber inflicts pain on Adi and Adi inflicts it on others it seems! That's why such rude and cynical behaviour!

From an audience perspective, I love such characters provided they are written properly😎 He's imperfect and he's gray-shaded. Not keeping expectations too high, but I want his character to have different shades in future. Would love to hear your thoughts!😃

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Posted: 3 years ago
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That's how the abused become the abuser!! Sad reality!!


This vicious circle needs to be broken! He is messed up so bad!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yes, yes, yes!!!!! finally someone who share my thoughts and views!!! I love your post.


Adi is the most emotionally unstable ML ever!!! one of the few things that I appreciate about this show that Adi's isn't shown as a multi millionaire self made chef already, but he's striving to become one and on his way to achieve this milestone he has to overcome many challenges including his emotions and his anger that always gets the best of him and is the biggest obstacle between him and his success.


I also like how namita and you mentioned that his father's abusive behavior is the reason he's so aggressive and frustrated towards all his relations but if his mother wasn't respected and that is his main reason for all this hatred then he should respect all women regardless of their status, he was never in the family business and only wanted to become a successful chef on his own then why he even cares about status??? he doesn't care about his so he shouldn't be bothered by anyone else's status too, anyone for the sake of this serial, say that anyone is Ginni and her family, I said earlier also that his arrogance is kind of a loophole that needs to be fixed by the makers of the show.


There was a show big little lies and in that show two school kids behaves wildly towards their class fellow to the point of scaring her so much that she ends up blaming another innocent kid, later in the end it is revealed that their father used to torture and beat her mother and so they thought that this is how all the girls and women in the world should be treated.


I again tell every one that it's painful to see Adi treating Ginni in this way and not hot, and her going to his home and falling in his arms was also not hot.


So, I am super glad that the story is now getting towards it's original theme "food and cooking' and I love how Ginni taunts Adi for leaving the show abruptly and it made him mad clearly and these are also his father's words who called him a looser and that's why I think he hates Ginni even more and is hell bent to snatch her dhaba from her just like his father snatches his childhood and his mother from him, this is something he needs to have control over and learn to be patient but he can't when he's around these two people and like you said that falling in love is not the solution , not at this point but surely he doesn't know that what kind of a person Ginni is and once he will begin to understand her, his softer side will surface even without him knowing about it😉 Adi cares about his Daarji and his reaction and above all he fears of losing Daaji, not so soon ofcourse but he will at some point will have the same feeling for Ginni though we all know it will take longer than expected and longer will be tolerable as long as the story will move forward according to it's theme and plot.



A.

Edited by PerfectStart - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Namita-M

That's how the abused become the abuser!! Sad reality!!


This vicious circle needs to be broken! He is messed up so bad!!

Exactly. Boys see how their mothers and sisters are treated in the house/society and that's how their mindset gets formed. Aditya never saw the respect given to his mother maybe! It turns such males misogynists!🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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It's so sad!! We usually think you might behave differently but no. That's not the case.

Adi was abused as a kid, so he retaliated by burning Supreet's hand! He was punished further and sent away.

The Dad is the root cause of it all. I want to know how fast did Ambar marry Supreet? Was he already in an extramarital affair with her?


Coming to how Adi behaves with Ginni! The guy has no concept that he is crossing all limits. Yet, he showed some emotion when he thought Daarji overheard him.


He knows he is wrong but he is going to continue on this path until something gives or breaks in this case!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: PerfectStart

Yes, yes, yes!!!!! finally someone who share my thoughts and views!!! I love your post.


Adi is the most emotionally unstable ML ever!!! one of the few things that I appreciate about this show that Adi's isn't shown as a multi millionaire self made chef already, but he's striving to become one and on his way to achieve this milestone he has to overcome many challenges including his emotions and his anger that always gets the best of him and is the biggest obstacle between him and his success.


I also like how namita and you mentioned that his father's abusive behavior is the reason he's so aggressive and frustrated towards all his relations but if his mother wasn't respected and that is his main reason for all this hatred then he should respect all women regardless of their status, he was never in the family business and only wanted to become a successful chef on his own then why he even cares about status??? he doesn't care about his so he shouldn't be bothered by anyone else's status too, anyone for the sake of this serial, say that anyone is Ginni and her family, I said earlier also that his arrogance is kind of a loophole that needs to be fixed by the makers of the show.


There was a show big little lies and in that show two school kids behaves wildly towards their class fellow to the point of scaring her so much that she ends up blaming another innocent kid, later in the end it is revealed that their father used to torture and beat her mother and so they thought that this is how all the girls and women in the world should be treated.


I again tell every one that it's painful to see Adi treating Ginni in this way and not hot, and her going to his home and falling in his arms was also not hot.


So, I am super glad that the story is now getting towards it's original theme "food and cooking' and I love how Ginni taunts Adi for leaving the show abruptly and it made him mad clearly and these are also his father's words who called him a looser and that's why I think he hates Ginni even more and is hell bent to snatch her dhaba from her just like his father snatches his childhood and his mother from him, this is something he needs to have control over and learn to be patient but he can't when he's around these two people and like you said that falling in love is not the solution , not at this point but surely he doesn't know that what kind of a person Ginni is and once he will begin to understand her, his softer side will surface even without him knowing about it😉 Adi cares about his Daarji and his reaction and above all he fears of losing Daaji, not so soon ofcourse but he will at some point will have the same feeling for Ginni though we all know it will take longer than expected and longer will be tolerable as long as the story will move forward according to it's theme and plot.



A.


Well said!! I hear you!! Just like it wasn't hot when Adi was all bloodied and Ginni was helping him. People romanticize such behaviour and it's not romantic at all. He bruised her wrist, that is abuse!! Period!!

I love me an Alpha angry young man in shows/books but I don't appreciate abuse. Have verbal spats, but getting physical is something I don't appreciate at all!!

I enjoy the cliches just as much as everyone but I can't stand anything this is bordering on abuse!! Not okay!!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Namita-M


Well said!! I hear you!! Just like it wasn't hot when Adi was all bloodied and Ginni was helping him. People romanticize such behaviour and it's not romantic at all. He bruised her wrist, that is abuse!! Period!!

I love me an Alpha angry young man in shows/books but I don't appreciate abuse. Have verbal spats, but getting physical is something I don't appreciate at all!!

I enjoy the cliches just as much as everyone but I can't stand anything this is bordering on abuse!! Not okay!!!

You know what would have been HOT? Ginni slapping him or screaming hard enough to make a fuss about him strangling her hand! She doesn't owe anything to him! She kept mum! That's more irking!🤢

Secondly, the most frustating ginni kept mum when adi's useless chachi was humilating her!😡 Dude! SAY SOMETHING! How dare she considers her a maid!

On a lighter note, the place where I come from, maids behave and demand as if they have hired us and not vice versa!😆 We are scared of them if they leave the job, kyuki maids easily milti nai haiiii🤪😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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ITV me ek hi therapy hoti hai - marriage. Laakh dukhon ki ek dawa hai kyu aazmayein 👀😂

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