Originally posted by: xaviara
Bani, I understand what you are trying to say, but what really pisses me off now is that previously when Nivi was sacrificing her love for her sister, Sod considered that WRONG, was he not the same person who said that Divya should get a guy who loves her, not someone who is in love with someone else !!! But now that it is the matter of his own family and grandfather, it is RIGHT !! That means his family is everything, and her is nothing ?
He didn't want to keep Divua in the dark then, so why not say anything now ? Because his grandfather's life is more important to him then his love ! The same way Divya's life was more important to Nivi then !! So why was she criticized and bashed then and why is Sid being supported now ??
He was thinking about himself even then, and he is thinking about himself and his grandfather even now !! The only difference is telling the truth to Divya served his purpose then, hiding the truth from her serves his purpose now !!!
I agree with xavaria here about sid doing what serves him best.
He went to Divya today cause Putul told him?!
Because he saw proof , he started trusting Putul again. The thing is...
Even though we all know Sid was put in a situation , it was all circumstances etc. etc. the fact remains, Nivi can never really look up to Sid. She is over him. Yes she did love him, may be still does but for her , her family always was first.
When she found out about Divya she backed out, Sid then said what ever he had to say to convince her because thats what he wanted at that point. But Nivi agreed with him
because , agreed with the reasoning that Divya deserves someone who loves her and not someone who doesn't love her.
Now, Yes Sid is doing this for his family but he could have explained to his grand mother that the wedding has to be put off or even before ht efamily if he would have explained to Divya it would have been fine and not resort this far.
Divya was already in love with Sid. She is not a strong character like Nivi but, yes she does love nivi and she is very nice and good at heart.
She did try to step away from Nivi and Sid's life and that shows that if Sid was honest at that time things would not have gotten that far. [I always am surprised as to why people dont use cell phones to contact each other- I guess thats where fiction comes in]
She did confirm with Sid and Nivi if its fine with them so she let herself totally fall even more for the guy she already loved + the encouragements from her family and ofcourse the marriage preparations , who wouldn't love to marry someone they love and think that in turn they do love them back?
Now , her whole family is involved her dreams are being shattered , and she is not that weak cause if SID can threaten to commit suicide to get nivi to say ILOVE YOU so hey why can't divya do the same thing to get him married to her [ I mean thats not her goal - but yes it will result in it]
So I do not say Sid's love was fake but I think it was an infatuation. He thought he loved her.
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About nivi getting married to viren.
She will have no expectations from him. She is getting into the marriage as a compromise. She will dislike the fact taht she has gotten married to her father's insulter's son! She loves her father the most and that is why somewhere I am skeptical as to will she really marry him before the truth comes out because for her -her father is everything. But if Divya's suicide case comes in front then it might push her. But still I am very doubtful.
Then -she is totally confused and will enter into a marriage where she will probably expect revenge but I think she knows taht Viren cannot hurt her in her heart as that bond has already formed.
They will probably become good friends first and then find love. [Not that they are not already in love. Nivi I do not know, but viren yes]
Nivi has closed her heart to emotions and now she is only living for her family and same is the case with Viren...
but the question arises... will Divya let viren marry nivi... she as we have seen tried to change topic or takeviren away from Nivi. She iwll try and protect him and during that may be Sid and Divya will get closer and fall in love.
Sid has done a mistake and as I posted in one of the earlier threads... its those who act without planning and only on emotions that have to loose the most.
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Sid will have to move on. Past doesn't come back as dadi rightfully said, that it didn't for anyone.
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