Abhishek: "Aishwarya Does The Heavy-Lifting At Home" - Page 4

No Abhishek..even if u resent being reprimanded or disciplined as a child u r a very well brought up person.

Ya like everyone else kids' dignity should also be preserved. And they should have the confidence to put their point forward and explain things logically..but also maintaining their parents' dignity while doing so.

And honestly it pinches if anyone else, a stranger comes n tells anything to ur child to discipline them. It's better to do so at home.

Also they may be technically advanced..

But not well informed..they have lot of unnecessary information which honestly messes up their thoughts.

I like old style of parenting tbh..minus the beatings😬

A good upbringing doesn't always mean preserving the dignity of a child... There are words, fathers/mothers say that can do more harm than a slap...

As for Abhishek and this interview...it revolves around his daughter's age and what comes with this age, what change he sees between his youth and the current youth and Aish as a mother. That's it. He just isn't as much involved in his daughter's daily life as Aish.

As for Aish and her weight gain...it's the menopause (hormonal problems) - most probably (I hope, at least...otherwise it would hint to health problems).

I really like what Abhishek says about the dignity of a child (especially when reprimanding it) and answer their questions...

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

wow this is news! Looks like she's planning to become a body builder? Or going to try out for World Wrestling Entertainment?

Seriously..I honestly thought it was about rearranging stuff at home, taking down stuff from the loft and other mundane things😂

Originally posted by: Grumpydwarf24

Even having her parent while he goes to work is backwards. Him describing it as an ideal situation is. Duh I know Bachchan’s have servants to do domestic work. But parenting among other things should be the responsibility of both parents. Heavy lifting at home while I go to work should very backwards to me.

Oh .. didn't realise this thread was about Abhi Aish equation.

Aaradhya is stepping into teens..and girls can be Papa's pet forever but truth is that they share the most with moms and need them in growing up years.

If she wanted to be a sportsperson and wanted to play n watch matches ..and if Aish wasn't interested in that.. then maybe Papa would fill in. But maybe Aish can connect with her current interests better

Originally posted by: Grumpydwarf24

He said after the success of Ponniyen Selvan that Aish does not need his permission to pursue something she loves doing. 🤷‍♀️ God knows where this statement came from.

Someone asked him and he replied..

Abhishek Bachchan tweeted his review of Aishwarya Rai Bachchan starrer "Ponniyin Selvan: II" (PS 2). One twitter user reacted on his post and commented that Abhishek Bachchan should let Aishwarya Rai Bachchan sign more movies and take care of their daughter Aaradhya Bachchan. Abhishek Bachchan replied stating that Aishwarya Rai Bachchan "certainly doesn’t need" his permission to do anything.

Now honestly tell..who is the one here who says that Abhi should let Aish do something..

And who is the one who says that Aish does what she wants and needs no permission

Originally posted by: TheDecapitated

Didn’t have to guess that. Look what she did to her career post marriage and worse after becoming a mother. She barely is doing movies, keeps rejecting everything. And does only ones where directors (like ADHM, Jazbaa, Fanney khan) can work around her mommy duties *rolls eyes*

The only one she seems to have committed fully is PS, and thats only for Mani. Its sad because you can see what she is capable of here

I feel like most women, she feels like if she becomes more successful it would cause ego issues in her husband and would make it difficult for her at home. You could sense that in interviews when they are talking about her superstardom as opposed to her husband, and she will be no he is amazing and the best.. blah blah.

Yeah, this!^^

Seems she values a stable family life over a career. It's unfortunate because she could still have both.. she doesn't have to mollycoddle the likes of Abhishek and Jaya by standing behind and letting Abhishek steal the limelight. For example, look at Priyanka or Kareena; they are not going easy on their careers to please their husbands. They have not taken up all the responsibilities of parenthood and instead believe in sharing them with their partner. They are modern women of today. Ash, unfortunately, is still living in the 20th century by trying to be this typical housewife trying to support her husband.

It's a pity that Abhishek does not realize that. She was also offered hit movies like Dostana and Happy New Year.. she left those movies so that Abhishek could do them. But even after all her sacrifices, 100% taking care of their daughter, and remaining in the background, Abhishek couldn't make it big. And this guy is so clueless that he preaches these patriarchal tropes as an ideal. Shouldn't expect much from the son of Amitabh Bachchan anyway.

Have one question for everyone..

Why do we judge any actress..or any woman for her choices.. specially after mrg and motherhood?

If she chooses to work we have a problem that she isn't prioritizing her family.

if she doesn't we say family isn't allowing her..why is she giving in..

If she continues working after having a baby we judge her motherhood..

if she chooses not to work and devote full time to her child we judge her for sacrificing her career.

If she attends events or shoots without her child we judge her for leaving kid with a nanny..if she brings along the kid she is a clingy helicopter mom.

Like can't she make her own choice? Maybe Aish herself wants to live her life as it is currently..maybe her family isn't forcing her.

And why should a random stranger even have n opinion on a woman's choices in her own life???

If we have concrete proof that her family is suffocating her, oppressing her and keeping her at home against her own will then pls go ahead..be the savior..else just let her be.

I chose to be a stay at home. I had a working mom (who gave me a lot of quality time btw). So always used to wonder how it would be to come home to open doors and share everything about ur school with ur parent..used to eagerly wait for evenings for parents to return and share stuff with them.

Thankfully office working hours were not as long and rigorous in those times..but all the options I figured out for myself to go out n work didn't quite click timings wise. I admire moms who do.. including my own mom..I just don't have the capacity.

So it was a conscious decision to be a stay at home mom and work as n when I feel like. No one forced me..U may not like my choice but I own up to it nonetheless

Bacchans have a proper staff of servants..if anyone thinks Aishwarya is the one cooking and cleaning dishes god you gotta be kidding me and Aish seems like a helicopter mom and almost obsessed with Aru…for all you know she voluntarily doesn’t want Abhi to help either

And still his body looks like that?

Matlab ye ghar pe bhi kuch nahi karta?

Or maybe he is one of those people jo kaam badha dete hai. Toh Ash be like, tu rehne hi de Seems like the latter to me.