Member Topic: What is constructive love? - Page 3

Constructive love would essentially be accepting that following the heart/love isn't enough for a sustainable relationship.

Behind every long-lasting, peaceful and happy (again that depends on people, their values, their expectations and level of awareness) couple, there have been certain unhealthy conversations, moments of disconnect, triggers etc.

And despite that, it works because of respect, communication and comprehension, which requires efforts and rationalizing.

Originally posted by: Shirsha

Sometimes, we do something for a reason or reasons. Being an author/writer, I wrote 350 answers on quora (a social media platform). One day I wrote answers supporting Pakistani artists. So, two Indian guys talked to me in mocking tone. I didn't like it at all. Apart from that, I was preparing for Nationalised Bank and Teachers Eligibility Test at that time. So, I deleted that account. First of all, my studies were very important to me. Second, I couldn't understand why they were mocking me. There are some amazing Pakistani singers.

Well ... They can be amazing. But I'm one of those guys too who don't support Pakistani artists working in India.... But that's another topic 😆

Originally posted by: NatkhatPyare

Well ... They can be amazing. But I'm one of those guys too who don't support Pakistani artists working in India.... But that's another topic 😆

Well, I don't think they are amazing. One of them said the word, 'solidarity'. And I definitely know what solidarity means. I'm a patriotic person. He could have talked to me in a different way. I supported them for some different reasons. I watched a few shows, so I understood their thoughts and emotions. And I love music immensely!

What's love though? They say love is a secondary emotion.

Supposedly there are 8 primary ones..

Maybe constructive love is working on the primary emotions with eachother together. But shirsha .. that's difficult.

Love is a constant exchange of emotion .. if someone is constantly giving.. while helping to construct the other person..they will burn out.

Best to find a constructed person on or close to your wave length to have your completed love ❤️

Originally posted by: D3viL

What's love though? They say love is a secondary emotion.

Supposedly there are 8 primary ones..

Maybe constructive love is working on the primary emotions with eachother together. But shirsha .. that's difficult.

Love is a constant exchange of emotion .. if someone is constantly giving.. while helping to construct the other person..they will burn out.

Best to find a constructed person on or close to your wave length to have your completed love ❤️

You are an intelligent person Devil. I agree with what you said about wave length.

Originally posted by: Shirsha

You are an intelligent person Devil. I agree with what you said about wave length.

That's why we are fam shrisha 😆

There is actually a real constant transfer of energy that happens. Very important to be mindful of the energy you are recieving or about to recieve ...But we will save that for another convo. Take care sis

Originally posted by: D3viL

That's why we are fam shrisha 😆

There is actually a real constant transfer of energy that happens. Very important to be mindful of the energy you are recieving or about to recieve ...But we will save that for another convo. Take care sis

Absolutely!

Originally posted by: Shirsha

Well, I don't think they are amazing. One of them said the word, 'solidarity'. And I definitely know what solidarity means. I'm a patriotic person. He could have talked to me in a different way. I supported them for some different reasons. I watched a few shows, so I understood their thoughts and emotions. And I love music im0mensely!

@B: Umm..I think Nathu meant Pakistani artists can be amazing but still he doesn't support them in Indian industry. He was obviously not praising 'those guys' and calling them amazing who mocked you. 😃

Originally posted by: SlowlyDrifting

@B: Umm..I think Nathu meant Pakistani artists can be amazing but still he doesn't support them in Indian industry. He was obviously not praising 'those guys' and calling them amazing who mocked you. 😃

Oh okay, I have understood what you meant.

Originally posted by: Shirsha

Sometimes, we do something for a reason or reasons. Being an author/writer, I wrote 350 answers on quora (a social media platform). One day I wrote answers supporting Pakistani artists. So, two Indian guys talked to me in mocking tone. I didn't like it at all. Apart from that, I was preparing for Nationalised Bank and Teachers Eligibility Test at that time. So, I deleted that account. First of all, my studies were very important to me. Second, I couldn't understand why they were mocking me. There are some amazing Pakistani singers.

Shirsha are you preparing to be a teacher? That's wonderful news. It's refreshing to read about how you can look for similarities in other humans and possibly build on positive experiences .. thats a wonderful foundation towards change.

It has to start somewhere.. and imagine if people like you on both side of the borders could influence young minds.. through art and music..wouldn't that be amazing.

Outside of India and Pakistan.. these differences rarely exist..we tend to see eachother as similar if not the same.