Member Topic: Being above 30 and unmarried

Being above 30 and unmarried is a personal choice that is becoming increasingly common in today's society. I think it's important to remember that everyone has their own timeline and priorities.

For some people, being unmarried at 30 or beyond might be a result of focusing on their career, education, or personal growth. For others like me, it may simply be a matter of not finding the right person yet.

Whatever the reason, it's important to understand that there is nothing wrong with being unmarried at 30 or beyond.

Ultimately, the decision to get married or not is a personal one that should be made based on one's own values and priorities, rather than societal pressure or expectations.

Do you agree?

I second you on your opinion.👏🏻

You do what is best for you.

Nothing wrong in being 30 and unmarried or choosing to stay unmarried all life or choosing to be childfree or adopting kids later or marrying later or having kids later or never marrying at all.

Do your own thing. What you are ready for, what you believe in and what you really want to do.

Never get married just for sake of getting married or due to media, peer or family or cultural pressure. Your life. Your choice. Do only what you are 100% sure of.

Absolutely.

Whether someone choses to marry at 18 or 30, or never to get married, its their choice. As long as they are happy and financially settled.

I just don't support those kids who remain unmarried and are not even career oriented, who aren't making it easier for their parents.

Yeah, being educated, skilled, and financially independent are a must and one should have healthy self esteem, good self care habits and fitness.

Just follow own passion and live a full life as you want. Unapologetic.

No need to bother about bullshit social media or society or those incel type trolls that try to shame you, especially as a woman, for being unmarried, after 30 or threaten or judge you.

You can freeze your eggs if you feel the need to be sure for future, in case you want kids later.

The important thing is finding the right person. Gone are the days when you settled in an arranged marriage and saw it through despite all differences and problems.

Now people value peace of mind over everything else, which is exactly right.

If you end up with the wrong people you could get into a very toxic space and no one wants that. So, take your time and get married when you are convinced you can see it through (at least in the beginning, no one can predict the future).

One of my friends recently went through a very messy divorce and I think seeing her condition has turned me against marriage.

You can still focus on career and get married? Doesn't that what the celebrities say.. plus don't they all proud to be able to multitask? Why not ask men to multitask too.. ?

Too much generalisation. I have happily single, ummarried 30 plus men and women in own life.

And also know those who were happily single and childfree for life, never married or considered it at any point of time.

Everyone has own priorities in life.

IMO it is better to be married between 28-30 now a days if you are settled with a decent job.

Although life events have also become fast paced the average life of a person has come drastically down to 55. So not much time left after 30.

Give yourself some time to enjoy life with a partner. Unless you have access to marital benefits without actually being married.