Member topic - Why get married at all? - Page 4

Asked this question myself 50 times before my arranged marriage.Repeats this question every day after divorce, when aunties,uncles, neighbours, colleagues,in short every second person advice me to get married , when I read domestic violence news and when I see my sister, cousin ,friend being disrespected by their spouse.

Originally posted by: Shwetha02

Yes..boys here are ready get married at the age of 25, they have this fear ki kisiko nah bolo tho koi bhi ladki nahi milegi karke ...while girls ar brave now a days😆

I am not talking about boys only.

My first cousin just got married. Mene bola tha mat kar beta lekin nai.. mere Kaka ne Khud bola tha ki rehne de beta. Hamare sath re.. maje karenge family milke. Bolti hai.. majak mat karo tum dono. 🤷‍♀️

If you found your life partner..get married. There are many legal.tax saving advantages, you get rental homes easier,loans easier, visas to some countries etc.

But I don't understand, why people have children these days.Its not like having a pet.. in a few months,they stop growing,their needs are known ..and dont .change. children bring worry and stress from the day they are born. Their needs don't end..I have seen old people any dit their grandchildren. What about the crores you spend on education, wedding .etc. Then they lgo far away seeking jobs. Most die alone. These days there are luxury apartment complexes with medical facilities,mini golf courses..where friend grow old together. I would never want to live with my children. I like to be my own boss.I would leave money ( that I saved)to all those who took care of me supervised by my friends..I would do the same for them.In my family there are many who opted for that..retired and happy

Originally posted by: Maharani69

Mera ek dost hai uski dadhee abhi ughi nahi suddenly 27 ki umar mai shuru ho gaya MUJHE SHAADI KARNI HAI, meri shaadi karwa do mummy, MERE LIYE LADKI KYU NAHI DHUND rahe. (Imagine this in Mai kyu dekhu ganne ke khet voice)

5 months before this ratt he was crying over his unrequited love. Anyway we’ve got him married! Ho gaya uska shauk poora.

🤣 Yar mere hisab se Arranged Marriage wale jyada maje karte hai.

I have group of 7 friends. 6 are love marriage and 1 arranged. Bas wahi 1 wala couple is romantic and looks like in love. Baki sare toh matlab mauka milte hi girls only.: boys only wale plan banane mein lag jate hai. 🤷‍♀️ Aur yeh wale plan ka excitement bhi kafi rehta hai. 😆

Deviyon — IF wala dissection ka karne mat beth jana. Sabki mast hi chal rahi hai. 😆

Aise threads duson saal se if pe ban rahe hain aur sabki sab i won't marry wala aaj do bacchon ki mata hai , yahi hota aaya hai yahi hota rahega

Originally posted by: you2

If you found your life partner..get married. There are many legal.tax saving advantages, you get rental homes easier,loans easier, visas to some countries etc.

But I don't understand, why people have children these days.Its not like having a pet.. in a few months,they stop growing,their needs are known ..and dont .change. children bring worry and stress from the day they are born. Their needs don't end..I have seen old people any dit their grandchildren. What about the crores you spend on education, wedding .etc. Then they lgo far away seeking jobs. Most die alone. These days there are luxury apartment complexes with medical facilities,mini golf courses..where friend grow old together. I would never want to live with my children. I like to be my own boss.I would leave money ( that I saved)to all those who took care of me supervised by my friends..I would do the same for them.In my family there are many who opted for that..retired and happy

Well said. Marriage is not for me but I understand it for legal purposes. Biological Children….that goes right over my head, in this day and age

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am not talking about boys only.

My first cousin just got married. Mene bola tha mat kar beta lekin nai.. mere Kaka ne Khud bola tha ki rehne de beta. Hamare sath re.. maje karenge family milke. Bolti hai.. majak mat karo tum dono. 🤷‍♀️

Shaadi ke baad patha chalega apke cousin ko kaisa majak hua hai😆tab aap yahi kehna😆

Originally posted by: M.Wheeler

Kyun. Kyun khao main shaadi ka ladoo.

Kyun khate ho tum log ?

You tell me

Why did you get married?

Originally posted by: BettyA1

You tell me

Why did you get married?

I am not married. Neither do I ever want to get married

Originally posted by: Charu21

Swetha, behen finally ek chhat (this topic) ke niche live mil hi liye hum.. So you are going to make me no.1 in hall of fame today haan! 😳 Thanks buddy for liking those posts.. haan main likes ki lalchi hun sorry!

Acha we have talked before regularly right? But it was some 9 10 years back so I don't remember exactly... was it pkyek or chandragupt forum?

On the same note 😅

Thank you Swetha for always liking my posts, though we have never interacted properly.