Member Topic - What are your 2022 plans ? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I would gladly change my phone number and move to a new city to avoid them 😆

She used the guy ?? Damn 😆

I wonder if they are ringing in NYE together 😆

It is actually in my to do list as well-- to move out of state. I was gonna do that in 2020 but the pandemic threw a wrench in my plans. When that works out, I'm cutting her off completely indeed. I'm just amazed at how she managed to worm herself into my life at all ... and how I didn't recognize it earlier!

Are they ringing in NYE together? Let me tell you another story.😆 Last month, they had a MASSIVE fight, quite possibly the WORST fight they've ever had, and he was completely done with her. I totally thought that was the end of their toxic roller coaster ride. She was bawling with me, showed me all his abusive messages, the reasons he flipped, etc. She might have overplayed her helplessness and grief too but I spent an entire day trying to make her feel better, and what the heck, I even wrote up this "conversation" for her to practice and parrot out to her boyfriend the next day like the perfect love guru idiot that I am. They made up and she went completely MIA--not a word from her for a month. I've been down that road about 5645645 times with her before, so I was expecting exactly that.

So, YES, they're ringing in NYE together. She called me to hang out with her and her boyfriend for lunch this month after she crawled out of her hole, which I pretended to not hear. But GET THIS, she knows I work crazy hours Mon-Fri and yet, she called me around 1 pm on a Monday afternoon after that, ON HER WAY to her other actual buddy's house, cuz my house happens to be on the way, and it woulda been a convenient quick stop by for her... doing her bare minimum sh%% again. I blew off her call and texted her hours later to tell her I work Mon-Fri and my availability is only during the weekends. I should probably even tell her that I charge $$$$ for my services next time.😆

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

She sounds awful - hit that block button

She will def. be blocked and cut out in due course of time...... in a way that it burns her soul.😈

Edited to add: Don't hate me for using this gif, I just thought it really went with my sentiments here. 😆

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Its Friday 31st already ?? If you dont mind me asking what time exactly ??

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

What are you plans for 31st night?

Just spend it with family....❤️

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

To finally achieve my Kamli body goals. 🥲

But actually ever since Kala Chashma, that has been my new goal, minus the boobs of course ☺️

Originally posted by: SmittenKitten

It is actually in my to do list as well-- to move out of state. I was gonna do that in 2020 but the pandemic threw a wrench in my plans. When that works out, I'm cutting her off completely indeed. I'm just amazed at how she managed to worm herself into my life at all ... and how I didn't recognize it earlier!

Are they ringing in NYE together? Let me tell you another story.😆 Last month, they had a MASSIVE fight, quite possibly the WORST fight they've ever had, and he was completely done with her. I totally thought that was the end of their toxic roller coaster ride. She was bawling with me, showed me all his abusive messages, the reasons he flipped, etc. She might have overplayed her helplessness and grief too but I spent an entire day trying to make her feel better, and what the heck, I even wrote up this "conversation" for her to practice and parrot out to her boyfriend the next day like the perfect love guru idiot that I am. They made up and she went completely MIA--not a word from her for a month. I've been down that road about 5645645 times with her before, so I was expecting exactly that.

So, YES, they're ringing in NYE together. She called me to hang out with her and her boyfriend for lunch this month after she crawled out of her hole, which I pretended to not hear. But GET THIS, she knows I work crazy hours Mon-Fri and yet, she called me around 1 pm on a Monday afternoon after that, ON HER WAY to her other actual buddy's house, cuz my house happens to be on the way, and it woulda been a convenient quick stop by for her... doing her bare minimum sh%% again. I blew off her call and texted her hours later to tell her I work Mon-Fri and my availability is only during the weekends. I should probably even tell her that I charge $$$$ for my services next time.😆

What are these fights about even 😂 😂

So you rehearsed a monologue and then she pivoted 😆

Yeah for sure I’d stay away from this girl. She’s no type of friend at all

Have you here had a conversation that didn’t revolve around her ? I’m sure she put a stop to that quickly 😆

Originally posted by: Rekha_ji

OMG me too!!!!! I've been so so close at different times over the years, but I feel ready now (not really)

But actually ever since Kala Chashma, that has been my new goal, minus the boobs of course ☺️

Let me correct myself. In 2022, I want to achieve her Kamli thighs/legs and her Kala Chashma waist. Basically her figure in both songs are my eternal goals in life. 😆

Originally posted by: Festival

Who called you a bad mother? 🥺🥺

Never mind! 😅

Happy new year in advance to everyone here🥳

May all of your plans/goals succeed this year❤️

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

What are these fights about even 😂 😂

So you rehearsed a monologue and then she pivoted 😆

Yeah for sure I’d stay away from this girl. She’s no type of friend at all

Have you here had a conversation that didn’t revolve around her ? I’m sure she put a stop to that quickly 😆

yeah, can you believe someone else feeding lines to her to make up with her boyfriend? I am a piece of work too, for doing that.

you pegged her right, she cuts it short if it's not about her! she even sounded "annoyed" last time I was venting about something, now that I think about it.

to answer you, their fights are mostly him complaining about her disrespectful behavior when they're hanging out with their friends, group trips, etc.--she likes to look like she's the "leader" of the pack and the "coolest" of the lot while putting down her own boyfriend, something she never does when she's with him one on one. Roles are reversed one on one.

She doesn't give a f%^$ about anyone or anything as long as it serves her personal interests either, even when the other person is majorly inconvenienced by her. For example, if she has a flight the next morning at 4:00 am, she would, without batting an eye, make that totally unreasonable request for you to wake up at 3:30 am to drop her off. Her bf calls her out on the blatant disregard for others including him.

He seems to bottle it all up and wait till he gets to an unhealthy level of anger. So when a third person reads his texts, he looks abusive, and it discredits his valid concerns while putting her in a sympathetic position. Someone needs to tell that guy that she might save them all for safekeeping if the occasion ever arises.😆 and to get some anger management therapy seriously!

I have a feeling she is also a narc, except a dangerous one cuz it's not obvious to others till they experience it closely and she plays the game well.

so, that's the story, sorry for another essay again. and I hope to stay 1000 miles away from people like her starting 2022, after giving her the boot. 🥳