Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale
Looking at the two options, I'd say neither...because if both men love me, I'd expect them to buck up and put their ass on the line to save me
But since this is a Harry Potter reference here are my two cents.
There is a huge difference between the two scenarios. Harry was about to die to save every one he loved, which included Ginny. It was a selfless act in order to stop innocent people from being murdered. So I don't see anything wrong in him wanting to kiss Ginny one last time.
Ron was not as strong as Bellatrix so he knew he couldn't defeat her. The only thing, however, he could do was offer himself for torture which he did. That too was a selfless act. But Bellatrix was a sadist with deep-rooted hatred for Muggles.
However, coming to the Harry Potter ships, the films tried to create this image with certain scenes that Harry and Hermione was possible, for example:
1. when Hermione recovers from being Petrified she hugs Harry
2. Rita Skeeter's managing to get a picture of Hermione hugging Harry before the first round of the Triwizard Tournament and pass it off as romance
3. Hermione kissing Harry's forehead after the second round of the Triwizard Tournament.
4. Time-turner scenes in Prisoner of Azkaban
In the books, they have a strictly platonic relationship but they do love each other dearly. As a kid I always thought Harry and Hermione should have ended up together, but now I feel JK did a brilliant job in keeping them platonic, because not every boy-girl friendship has to culminate into love.
I didn't mind Harry and Ginny in the books because you can see how they started liking each other and it gradually turned into love. They did have things in common, like Quidditch. Like from gradually noticing Ginny to getting jealous over seeing her with Dean, and then them getting together. The movie did not have enough build up.
Coming to Ron, I never felt he was a good match for Hermione. I disliked him immensely in the movies due to his annoying and nagging nature. I was neutral towards Ron in the books though.
Although I do feel Hermione and Ron were not an appropriate match. I can imagine they would have dated for a while and then gone their separate ways because they were two very different individuals. Hermione is intellectually brilliant and would want that from her partner. Not talking about books and knowledge at all times, but someone who would intellectually stimulate her. I don't see Ron doing that and definitely don't see Movie Ron doing that!
The only character from the franchise I felt was perfect for Hermione was *controversy incoming* Draco Malfoy. He check boxes every characteristic that I imagined Hermione's life partner would have. Coming to him being a Death Eater and belonging to a Pure Blood manic Family, he could have easily had his redemption from Book 5. JK could have made him into a character who understood what his family was doing was extremely wrong, and then stealthily changing sides. They would have been the modern day Lily and Snape, and it would have been good to see someone from the Dark Side shunning the inhumane ways and fighting alongside Harry.
i am not saying it harry rembering ginny was anything wrong ofcourse it was not i just used that as an arguement to show how little sense they make
draco would intellectually stimulate hermione and ron would not? i completely utterly absolutely disagree it was ron who was the chess champion neither harry nor hermione and certainly not draco could match upto to him and chess is game of genius
if hermione was book smart ron was street smart hermione was more mature but ron was more charming and easy to get along with
keep in mind in the first book it was ron who saved the day during the troll incident hermione was frozen to the ground ron came up with wingardium leviosa and he came up on his own unlike shown in the movies hermione did not prompt him
also during the battle with death eaters ron perfrormed very well as accounted by nymphodora who was a trained auror
even in mafoy manor it was ron who disarmed bellatrix ron who saved hermione from greyback so no he is plenty strong to face bellatrix
all this show how great ron works under pressure unlike him hermione is more flustered while hermione certainly knows more charms when it comes to actual duel ron is way better
hell ron is better than draco when it comes to duel keep in mind that draco was snivelling like a fool infront of death eaters until ron and harry come and save his life compare this to ron s brilliant performance in duel and you will have your answer who was better
ron and hermione they complete eachother they bring things into eachother s life that the other did not have she makes him more sensible he makes her more fun she knows all the trick in the book but it is still him who works under pressure
draco could never match upto either in terms of intelect conscience as human etc
dramione is a pretty toxic ship he bullied her for years and found the idea of her assault funny
he can certainly redeem himself but i dont see hermione ever falling for him
going from ron to draco is just like lowering yiur standards
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