Valmiki Ramayana, Bala Kanda, Chapter20, Verse 2:
https://www.valmikiramayan.net/bala/sarga20/bala_20_prose.htm
(Dasaratha to Visvamitra)
'uuna sodasha me raamo raajiiva lochanah |
na yuddha yogyataam asya pashyaami saha raaxasaih ||' 1-20-2
'less than sixteen years of age is my lotus-eyed Rama, and I see no warring aptitude to him with the demons.'
Valmiki Ramayana, Sundara Kanda, Chapter 33, Verse 17:
(Sita to Hanuman)
https://www.valmikiramayan.net/sundara/sarga33/sundara_33_prose.htm
"samaa dvaadasha tatra aham raaghavasya niveshane || 5-33-17
bhunjaanaa maanushaan bhogaan sarva kaama samriddhinii |"
"I stayed in Rama's house there for twelve years, enjoying the worldly pleasures belonging to human kind and fulfilling all my desires."
Valmiki Ramayana, Aranya Kanda, Chapter 47, Verse 10:
(Sita-Ravana debate)
https://www.valmikiramayan.net/aranya/sarga47/aranya_47_prose.htm
'mama bhartaa mahaatejaa vayasaa panca vimshakah || 3-47-10b
astaa dasha hi varhsaani mama janmani ganyate |'
"My great-resplendent husband was of twenty-five years of age at that time, and to me eighteen years are reckoned up from my birth.
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If Ram/Sita were 25/18 at the time of their exile, and she'd stayed in Ayodhya for 12 years, Sita was 6 and Ram was 13 at the time of the swayamvara.
Yes, child marriage was a thing those days.
https://www.sacred-texts.com/hin/manu/manu09.htm
88. To a distinguished, handsome suitor (of) equal (caste) should (a father) give his daughter in accordance with the prescribed rule, though she have not attained (the proper age). Proper age means puberty
89. (But) the maiden, though marriageable, should rather stop in (the father's) house until death, than that he should ever give her to a man destitute of good qualities.
90. Three years let a damsel wait, though she be marriageable; but after that time let her choose for herself a bridegroom (of) equal (caste and rank). 3 years after puberty, if daddy hasn't found a groom, she could choose for herself.
91. If, being not given in marriage, she herself seeks a husband, she incurs no guilt, nor (does) he whom she weds.
92. A maiden who choses for herself, shall not take with her any ornaments, given by her father or her mother, or her brothers; if she carries them away, it will be theft.
93. But he who takes (to wife) a marriageable damsel, shall not pay any nuptial fee to her father; for the (latter) will lose his dominion over her in consequence of his preventing (the legitimate result of the appearance of) her enemies.
94. A man, aged thirty years, shall marry a maiden of twelve who pleases him, or a man of twenty-four a girl eight years of age; if (the performance of) his duties would (otherwise) be impeded, (he must marry) sooner.
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