Originally posted by: RegressiveThug
But Ram hardly had any grey shades. Lord Vishnu or Lord Krishna yes, but Ram, nah he was a gai, who just suffered and got his near and dear ones suffer because of his uprightness.
Actually, not true. Also isn't there a hypocrisy in your statement? Lord Vishnu or Krishna may be grey but not Rama who was a likewise human avatar, how's that even possible? There have been a few authors who strongly mentioned this in their writings. And those authors are highly respected in the literary field for saying the truth. But like people mentioned in this thread, public in India cannot handle that as a truth.
This guys writes it better than I can on this topic. https://myanasworth.wordpress.com/tag/rama-good-or-bad/
"If I remove the halo of ‘Avatara Purusha’ from Ram’s head, he comes across as a very average and self centred man. He cared for his reputation more than he cared about those he loved. To him his duties as a king took precedence over his duties as a human being. Yes, he loved his wife and was devoted to her but there was no acceptable justification for the way he treated her. He fulfilled his duties as a king and ruler but he miserably failed in his duties as a husband, father and human being. Sita was his responsibility as much as his kingdom – so why did he not take that responsibility seriously. Because, this didn’t offer a path to everlasting glory?? What kind of a man would banish his pregnant wife for a whim. Why Sita tolerated this, I will never understand. Yes there are many explanations in the book but personally, I can relate to Draupadi’s fiery and feisty nature more than I can to Sita’s earthy patient nature. Now, if treating a person with kindness is a yardstick for being ‘good’, Ram fails miserably. They say of all the sins in the world ‘hurting a woman’ is the worst sin. By this definition he is sinner too!
By contrast, Ravan who is personified as evil himself is not so evil when you read the story. Yes he is smitten by Sita’s beauty and falls in love with her. He abducts her hoping that one day she will agree to accept him. Yes, by the moral standpoint of current day society, capturing another man’s wife is wrong and to capture an unwilling woman is wrong but there ends the streak of evil. He is portrayed as a god fearing, learned man with a good heart. Not once does he force himself upon Sita. He could have. Of course, there is the notion that he didn’t do so because of the curse upon him that if he forced a woman, that would bring about his destruction. Even so, I’d like to think that on face value of the facts presented in the book, he had more conviction and was much more in tune with his finer emotions that Ram. Yes, there are shades of evil but he is largely a good man.
My fascination for these sorts of stories is that when you look at the characters, there is no person who is entirely good or entirely bad. It is people like us who develop these cliché’s and stereotypes. There are shades of grey and it is the shades of grey that make humans so fascinating.
Maybe I am not the only one who thinks these kind of ‘offbeaat’ thoughts! Mani Ratnam’s Raavanan certainly presents all my thoughts beautifully on screen."
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