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adventurousman

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Posted: 6 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

If you don't find these creepy, then maybe you have a problem. Especially the bold one.

An 18 year old is legally an adult, but he/she is not much different from a 15-16 year old.

Right right. No I don't have a problem, problem is in your thinking and believing that you have a right and know better than them who they should be and shouldn't be with according to what you find acceptable

Someone else might find a 25yr old just a bachchi

someone might find 15yr age gap creepy and unacceptable others 10

People don't function according to your whims and what you find acceptable and non creepy just because you do doesn't make it so nor do they should be judged for their choices because it makes you uncomfortable

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Posted: 6 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: adventurousman

Right right. No I don't have a problem, problem is in your thinking and believing that you have a right and know better than them who they should be and shouldn't be with according to what you find acceptable

Someone else might find a 25yr old just a bachchi

someone might find 15yr age gap creepy and unacceptable others 10

People don't function according to your whims and what you find acceptable and non creepy just because you do doesn't make it so nor do they should be judged for their choices because it makes you uncomfortable

Yeah, except that NOBODY will really call a 25+ woman a 'bachhi'. But sure, anything to debate on.

It's a generally accepted fact that an 18-year old is as mature as a 15-16 year old. If you really see no difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old, then I guess it's no use arguing.

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adventurousman

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Posted: 6 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Yeah, except that NOBODY will really call a 25+ woman a 'bachhi'. But sure, anything to debate on.

It's a generally accepted fact that an 18-year old is as mature as a 15-16 year old. If you really see no difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old, then I guess it's no use arguing.

I've seen people do. Accepted fact? Haha no accepted fact is that they're adults and that's for a reason at 18 they're free to make their own choices and you can't do anything about it, they're not 15 or 16, those are the facts

now if an adult is dating another adult albeit much older and you find the age gap creepy then that's your problem not theirs

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Posted: 6 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: adventurousman

I've seen people do. Accepted fact? Haha no accepted fact is that they're adults and that's for a reason at 18 they're free to make their own choices and you can't do anything about it, they're not 15 or 16, those are the facts

now if an adult is dating another adult albeit much older and you find the age gap creepy then that's your problem not theirs

You've seen people who think that 25-year-olds are kids? Well, looks like you have a really exclusive list of acquaintances. 😆

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storminateacup

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Posted: 6 years ago

#35

18 year old girl with 80 year old.. this forum 🤢 😆

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AllThatCritique

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Posted: 6 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

That's an idealistic point of view. Parents cannot be that detached and indifferent to their children's choices; there's a reason they're called 'parents' lol.

Irrelevant? LOL that's the very debate here. About what SRK feels about his daughter's cleavage show. 🤪

Not every parent polices their child's clothing choices. Mine never did and considering the education Shah has, am sure he wont ever either 😆 Not everyone is so closeminded. I cant even imagine giving up a piece of clothing just cause my parents disapprove it. That idea is ridiculous to me. Next they'd disapprove who I got out with or my orientation. Am i supposed to live my life or dress acc to them ? Ridiculous.Also parents can be a lot of things. s**tshamers, homophobic, sexist. Those are also 'opinions'.

As someone born and brought in India itself where parents actually kill you for wearing certain stuff am glad Shah has never atleast publicly mentioned or stuck his nose in how his daughter dresses. Bas. 😆 Probably cause he knows that's none of his business. Its what an educated,decent human being would do. Let his child be. The ones meddling in their daughter's business probably dont trust them enough to make their own decisions. A skip on those fathers. 😆

And it is irrelevant. To think about this in 2019. In my head it can't be debated at all. Parents are allowed to have all kinds of opinions about their children but the one where they are okay or not okay with the way their children dress or attach worth to that is problematic. Any situation where covering up is considered some better trait essentially stating that a woman's body to some commodity weighed acc to exposure is not some parent that warrants respect. It was never cute to tell your daughter to cover up and never will be. Shah has never stated he has problem so he's one of the better parents in this world. Anyway am beat 😆 Ciao.

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adventurousman

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Posted: 6 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You've seen people who think that 25-year-olds are kids? Well, looks like you have a really exclusive list of acquaintances.😆

I've seen people do that but that's not the point. You got nothing to refute my points.

You presenting your opinions as facts but they aren't

As I said what adults do is their business you find it creepy is on you regardless of the age gap, you're no one to decide who should be with whom and what's acceptable and what's not

you find an 18yr old immature and not capable of making a decision to have sex with someone 10yr older than her while fact is that in many countries legal age of consent is not even 18 but 16 meaning they find them mature and well capable to make that decision and I'm not even bringing that up but people have problems with adults making their own decision and finding it creepy that's on you

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Posted: 6 years ago

#38

if my guy friends (in their late 20s early 30s) make it obvious they're perving on 18 yo's, i'd be creeped out to the max...

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Posted: 6 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: adventurousman

I've seen people do that but that's not the point. You got nothing to refute my points.

You presenting your opinions as facts but they aren't

As I said what adults do is their business you find it creepy is on you regardless of the age gap, you're no one to decide who should be with whom and what's acceptable and what's not

you find an 18yr old immature and not capable of making a decision to have sex with someone 10yr older than her while fact is that in many countries legal age of consent is not even 18 but 16 meaning they find them mature and well capable to make that decision and I'm not even bringing that up but people have problems with adults making their own decision and finding it creepy that's on you

What part of 'maturity' do you not understand? You said that some [people might find 25 year olds bachhi. Do you really not understand that an 18-year-old is BARELY an adult. It can be medically argued from a psychologist's POV that an 18-year old is within the mental development range of 15-16 year olds. Your bringing up strange people who think 25-year-olds are kiddos proves nothing.

And FYI, nobody's telling anyone what to do. If people find it creepy, then that's their opinion and they have a right to state it.