Are Saif and Kareena being insensitive?

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return_to_hades

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Posted: 7 years ago

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I cannot judge people for living their life. I do not think death means that life should come to a standstill. The societal expectation is that we put life on pause and stop doing everything fun. However, I personally do not subscribe to that notion.

As for paparazzi, Kareena Kapoor has always been someone who thrived amidst attention. So I am not surprised that she is indulgent to the paparazzi. But it goes both ways. There is a market to consume the life of an innocent child. There are people willing to put the life of a child up for public consumption. If people didn't consume it and if paparazzi didn't enable it - the willingness to indulge would be naught. I am not saying the parents are blameless. But its a vicious interconnected cycle. You have to blame the whole system.

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Jaitreya23

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Posted: 7 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: Shaitan-Haiwan

Personal space? LOL They are bombarding everyone with their travelling photos. That's hardly personal space.

I may have been more lenient if they didn't release any pictures of themselves and were silenty and discreetly on vacation. You know that getting your pictures leaked is something stars do on purpose ? Otherwise how do they always manage to find stars at the right time. Its sickening that during a such this tragedy these two are parading their photos around. Of course its wrong.

😆 I dont like either of them. Just being practical here.

They are not dancing outside Boney or Anil's house. They posted pics in their social media. People have a choice NOT to see them. They would be wrong if they tag the grieving family or post on their FB pages.

They arent into mourning so they have full right to have all the fun. Those who attended the funeral might have partied later on, so its all full of sham.

IGNORE them😆😆😆 Thats the best punishment, right! The duo wanted attention and got that!😆😆

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Aisha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#73

Kareena is an attention seeker. If she went to Sri's funeral you would not have discussed her action. She wants to be discussed. Her goal is achieved.

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Justmoi

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Posted: 7 years ago

#74

It's not mandatory people go for funerals. They were represented by both sides of the family.

They were not close, they had other obligations, they could have sent flowers, called. We do not know. Sridevi is dead, she is not keeping score of who came and the family too distraught to care I would imagine.

Nannies are ok. No one begrudges a nanny.

But what I see in pictures of Taimur wanting to be carried obviously by his mother and his mother ignoring him and posing. Now that is being vain, shallow, selfish and I would say a mother who needs to examine her priorities.

Sridevi was no saint, but her kids came first. Ash is no saint, but the way she interacts with Ara in public shows her priority. Kajol. So many mothers with bigger and better careers put their kids first in public. Karishma for instance. Stop posing and pay attention to the child Kareena.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: return_to_hades
I cannot judge people for living their life. I do not think death means that life should come to a standstill. The societal expectation is that we put life on pause and stop doing everything fun. However, I personally do not subscribe to that notion.

I don't think anyone expects people to pause their life. Ranveer is partying with Pharell for Holi but nobody said anything because he went to Anil's house and laid low for 3-4 days before doing any public shenanigans. Other actors all returned to work and started shooting and spent time on Holi with family. Amitabh Bachchan posted pics of the family Holi with Aish and Aaradhya too.

It's about having a little bit of respect and decorum for a colleague that you saw frequently at events and award shows. Kareena has worked with all her family members including her husband. It really doesn't take a lot to show up for 2 hours to a funeral to show your respect. Apart from that, it makes sense not to shove your happiness in people's faces before the body is even cremated. It requires behaving with some decency.

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Shaitaan Haiwan

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: Justmoi
It's not mandatory people go for funerals. They were represented by both sides of the family.
They were not close, they had other obligations, they could have sent flowers, called. We do not know. Sridevi is dead, she is not keeping score of who came and the family too distraught to care I would imagine.

Nannies are ok. No one begrudges a nanny.

But what I see in pictures of Taimur wanting to be carried obviously by his mother and his mother ignoring him and posing. Now that is being vain, shallow, selfish and I would say a mother who needs to examine her priorities.

Sridevi was no saint, but her kids came first. Ash is no saint, but the way she interacts with Ara in public shows her priority. Kajol. So many mothers with bigger and better careers put their kids first in public. Karishma for instance. Stop posing and pay attention to the child Kareena.

I agree!

I have also seen what a positive effect motherhood and how people like Ash and Rani have changed! Lets not forget they've also had their share of arrogant moments, but motherhood has certainly soften them up!

Kareena on the other hand is hopeless!

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anjs

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: anonymous39

I don't think anyone expects people to pause their life. Ranveer is partying with Pharell for Holi but nobody said anything because he went to Anil's house and laid low for 3-4 days before doing any public shenanigans. Other actors all returned to work and started shooting and spent time on Holi with family. Amitabh Bachchan posted pics of the family Holi with Aish and Aaradhya too.

It's about having a little bit of respect and decorum for a colleague that you saw frequently at events and award shows. Kareena has worked with all her family members including her husband. It really doesn't take a lot to show up for 2 hours to a funeral to show your respect. Apart from that, it makes sense not to shove your happiness in people's faces before the body is even cremated. It requires behaving with some decency.

well said 👏 @bold : thats the main point...

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Posted: 7 years ago

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There is no maternal bone in Kareena this child was conceived and brought into this world for vanity reasons. Which is why he is being treated like an accessory by his parents, in particular his dumb bimbo mother

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return_to_hades

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: anonymous39
I don't think anyone expects people to pause their life. Ranveer is partying with Pharell for Holi but nobody said anything because he went to Anil's house and laid low for 3-4 days before doing any public shenanigans. Other actors all returned to work and started shooting and spent time on Holi with family. Amitabh Bachchan posted pics of the family Holi with Aish and Aaradhya too.

It's about having a little bit of respect and decorum for a colleague that you saw frequently at events and award shows. Kareena has worked with all her family members including her husband. It really doesn't take a lot to show up for 2 hours to a funeral to show your respect. Apart from that, it makes sense not to shove your happiness in people's faces before the body is even cremated. It requires behaving with some decency.

Could you please explain how Kareena and Saif are intentionally shoving their happiness in the Kapoor family face? Personally, I did not get that. I might have missed something they did.