How do you define masculinity?

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Justmoi

@Justmoi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: JustMySelf
a man having total self control in all the senses(such as anger lust greed)
thoughts feelings expressions desires n behaviour...is truly masculine.

I am female and believe me we have anger, greed and hell even lust. Self control ? Sometimes. What does that make us ? 😆

Edited by Justmoi - 8 years ago

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JustMySelf

@JustMySelf

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ---Betty---

In other words a monk?

in other words there is no more a masculine man now in this age 😆

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CherHorowitz

@TotalBetty

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Justmoi

What she was born with and what was on her driver's license until recently.

She did undergo gender assignment surgery recently, so no penis. Y chromosome still. Female on driver's license. If you self identify as female and born male and undergo surgery I say you are female then. Above that, transgendered and how that works is beyond my pay grade as they say.

Oh I didn't know that... First he got breast implantd and kept his equipment too, they said he wanted the joy of having both, whatever that means...

That's why it was annoying when everybody referred to him as 'she '

But now that he got it removed, it it's okay I guess 😊

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JustMySelf

@JustMySelf

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Justmoi

I am female and believe me we have anger, greed and hell even lust. Self control ? Sometimes. What does that make us ? 😆

non masculine 😆

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Seig heil

@S_H_Y

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: .Mishh007.
No idea..

Kiska hai tumko intezzaar

Main hoon nA

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Phosphorus

@Novarieaa

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ---Betty---
Isn' t that sexist? 😉

Asking what femininity and masculinity is about is sexist they say

Is it? The lines are blurring very fast. 😆

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Phosphorus

@Novarieaa

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: JustMySelf
a man having total self control in all the senses(such as anger lust greed)
thoughts feelings expressions desires n behaviour...is truly masculine.

But don't we all need to have such control?
I really didn't mean to be sexist or any kind of 'ist' The fact is that people have a very flawed idea about masculinity (& femininity too) IMO. Many men think there's only a certain type of behavior to prove yourself as a macho guy. And the guys who show emotion and compassion are tagged as effiminate. That's just sad.

Edited by Lilac_N_Maple - 8 years ago

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JustMySelf

@JustMySelf

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Lilac_N_Maple

But don't we all need to have such control?
I really didn't mean to be sexist or any kind of 'ist' The fact is that people have a very flawed idea about masculinity (& femininity too) IMO. Many men think there's only a certain type of behavior to prove yourself as a macho guy. And the guys who show emotion and compassion are tagged as effiminate. That's just sad.

yes we all need to have ..bt that is why we are labelled as egoist as we
have little self control .none of us have enslaved our ego ..one who
calls out the other as effiminate is in the delusion that he is masculine.