'I dont want to spend an hour with my child and rush to work' - Mira - Page 4

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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: anonymous39


How is she "smart?" She's just a rich girl with an easy life and no real responsibilities. Most people have to get jobs and earn money or continue their education to get ahead when they're in their early 20s. They can't afford to sit at home and start popping out kids because kids are expensive and time consuming.

Most people have to buy homes, increase their bank balance and get to a position in their jobs where they can actually take some time off, etc.

Who is she to be bragging about staying home doing nothing and making insinuations about women who work having "puppies" instead of babies? She has maids and cooks to take care of all the work anyway.



Everyone's situation is different. Just because she has money doesn't mean she is any less. She is just explaining what works for her. Even non celebs who are regular people have money and use it to better their own lives so just because Mira is wealthy doesn't mean she can't explain her own personal choice about raising her child.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32
mujhe toh aajtak yeh samaj nahi aya isne Shahid se shaadi kyon ki ? 😆

I mean nothing wrong with that, it's her life her choice but still why shahid ? She's young, pretty, educated and comes from a good background, apne se zaida age ke aadmi se kyon shaadi ki jiski ek casanova image ho?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Terenaina

shahid is young and has a young face, yes he is 10 years older than her but he still not OLD. Even bebo is married to guy 10 years older than her



but Bebo was totally smitten by Saif, she was actually in love when she married him but Meera, she got arranged with a guy, while she could do much better.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: anonymous39

[quote]I don't think she was trying to insult anyone. Taking a dig... yea. But not insult anyone. This was about her personal choice. How she wants to raise a baby.[/quote]

^She could have just talked about herself but she framed it in such a way that she was clearly taking shots at other people who do things differently. As if she's done some grand thing in life by popping out a kid and sitting at home when she doesn't do any housewife-type work anyway.

I'm sure she also goes out and has lunches with friends and all that. Mothers are also human and need their own time sometimes that's not completely taken over by their child. It's just that she's a nobody and photographers aren't going to take pics of her the way they do with Kareena.

And if she needs to take sly digs at Kareena, it says more about her than anyone else (and none of it is good). There's nothing worse than self-righteous mothers who think nobody has ever raised kids before them when millions do it everyday.



I agree with what you're trying to say. It did sound wrong they way she said it. I thought she was better then that. But I was wrong.

But I kinda understand her mentality(not in a bad way). I have some rich, privileged friends who have the same thinking as Mira. Even they go on about being house wife with their baby. And how they would never work and leave their baby. For normal people it sounds kinda mean. But for these rich kids, it doesn't sound mean.. cause they never had to worry about work or money. How are they suppose to understand the plight of normal middle class people if they've never experienced it. So trying to hope that the rich will understand the life of a normal person is foolishness. I've learned that a long ago.

yea, Mira must go out she's a high society girl anyways. She's always clicked with Shahid at some restaurant every week. Plus she's got a big girl group in Mumbai. She's prolly got 2-3 nannies to take care of her baby. this statement was nothing more then a jealousy dig.. Even on KWK I could tell she doesn't like any of shahids ex. And him having an EX as famous as Kareena must make her uber jealous.

But I do disagree with what you said about giving birth not being a grand thing. C'mon... giving birth to a baby is a huge deal. I mean you're giving birth to a life. holding your baby for the first tim after carrying them for 9 month. That must be a whole different experience all together. And what New mother doesn't gloat about their baby. First time mommies are always looking for a way to talk about their experience and baby. I would know.. I've rolled my eyes at a few of them. lol
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Posted: 8 years ago
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promotions,publicity of motherhood season going in bollywood 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks

Pallo - You are lucky !! I had troublesome morning sickness for 5 months and heartburn for next 4 months 😭 .
Mira was admitted in hospital a few times . So she had difficult pregnancy.

Tammy - I can so relate to your comment !! I have seen all sorts of mothers . I dropped everything to be with my baby and went back part time when he went to school. I have seen full time working moms and stay at home moms. All of them are able to raise happy kids .


That's true! I don't get the judging.. Isn't it about choice? If someone wants and affords to be at home, why can't she?.I don't get why people ll judge!! Stay at home moms judge working moms..working moms judge stay at home moms..if the kids are healthy and happy.. And they are not asking others for money..why people ll have opinions in other people's lives ??
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37
Whao the judgements here! so mira is being judged because she chose to be a house wife? she is being mocked at of not accomplishing a single thing in life? Shame at the so called professional mentality here!

What if this sterothypical role of a woman gives her pleasure? WHo are you all to judge her? She is being judged because she was born rich? Married an elder guy? LOL at everybody who thinks only a "professoional "woman is successful !

According to me she DID NOT take a dig at the common struggling woman. She strictly talked about her own luxuries and said she would not want to rush to work because she has a choice to not. No one mentioned the common woman. Ofcourse there is a whole different league of women who HAVE to leave, but then there are two categories, those who DONT want to but HAVE TO, and those who can afford NOT to leave their babies alone but still DO LEAVE them alone. Mira is being BOMBARDED with questions of is she working or not so her answer pertains to her and people like her only IMO. i dont think she made a general statement. It was strictly subjective to her, and to some extent BW!! ..




Edited by Fantasia. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#38
Its great how she wants to spend time with her child but here she comes across as very annoying and arrogant person. If woman want to or have to work post motherhood then that is their choice and they are entitle to do what they want to do. This does not mean that they are any less of a mother than she is.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So she is saying that somebody actually wants to hire her? What are her qualifications (other than being marriage to a B-grade actor)?

So where are the feminists of the forum now? Is this your idea of an independent woman?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fantasia.

<font size="2">Whao the judgements here! so mira is being judged because she chose to be a house wife? she is being mocked at of not accomplishing a single thing in life? Shame at the so called professional mentality here!</font>


<font size="2">What if this sterothypical role of a woman gives her pleasure? WHo are you all to judge her? She is being judged because she was born rich? Married an elder guy? LOL at everybody who thinks only a "professoional "woman is successful !</font>

<font size="2">According to me she DID NOT take a dig at the common struggling woman. She strictly talked about her own luxuries and said she would not want to rush to work because she has a choice to not. No one mentioned the common woman. Ofcourse there is a whole different league of women who HAVE to leave, but then there are two categories, those who DONT want to but HAVE TO, and those who can afford NOT to leave their babies alone but still DO LEAVE them alone. Mira is being BOMBARDED with questions of is she working or not so her answer pertains to her and people like her only IMO. i dont think she made a general statement. It was strictly subjective to her, and to some extent BW!! ..</font>







I have no problems with how Mira lives her life and definitely not judging if she wants to be a hands on mom. Most of the children in India, including me have grown up with their mother being housewives and I could never consider it a job less than a working woman. But the problem here is her defensive stance! In justifying her choice of life, she is pulling down someone other's.Heck even Bebo's statements were not directly comparable like hers was.
She says she didn't have a puppy, which pretty much means mothers who have to start working soon after had puppies, since they leave their children and go to work. These people are celebrities, they can't throw such frivolous statements around. I definately do not want somebody sayings such a line to me if I want to work after my pregnancy - I would love my child as much Irrespective of the number of hours spent on the baby.


Edited by JaaniDushman - 8 years ago

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