BW gupshup #6/7 pyar ka paigam lao andar aao - Page 109

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Noor and MEB talking about all these designers and who they will be wearing on their weddings like how rich are these two chicks? Us little people just sitting here scratching our heads. 😛

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

MEB is our royalty, none can beat her😎sorry umz.

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

i would like to work in the gov't one day tbh, but more behind the scnes than as an MP/ MLA.

Aha like running campaign eh? Kanye for president😛

As for the policies. Well, a lot of the answers are in your questions themselves. What gives right to dictate what woman should do w/ baby? In their mind, what gives woman the only right what to do w/ another person? See for most religious ppl, killing a baby is akin to killing another person. so in their mind, by forcing a woman to have a child they are preventing a murder/ sin. the mother doesn't really factor as she's only a vessel, so to speak.

and you said a child is concieved w/ 2 ppl. but if that means its their decision, by that reasoning, technically the arkanasas law discussed earlier is right -- it gives father the paternal right to save the life of their child. if its concieved by 2 ppl means that 2 ppl have right to make decisions regarding its life, so if mother doesn't want child but father does, then father can sue/ prevent abortion. this is actually a hot debate as well, the rights of a father over an unborn child.

And when it comes to how painful it is to have a baby, etc. Like I mentioned, sexism plays a REALLY large role in this. Generally, most men are ignorant of what it takes to have a child (there's literally been comments wherein US men said that women shouldn't get hygiene products like tampons/pads for free b/c they can hold their blood in like urine -- LOL like W*F period blood is not like urine but they have no idea) b/c for some reason, religion also prohibits sex talks/ education. So when a woman becomes pregnant and its unplanned, its her fault. she has no more say. she f**ked up and got pregnant and now the only thing tht matters is making sure the child comes out alive. a lot of the more liberal religious ppl do see the need for exceptions like abortions or life-threatening pregnancies, but a lot of the more sexist ppl don't. the mother's life is literally second when it comes to the child.

as for what happens afterward, adoption. however this is where most ppl wash their hands. the baby is "saved"/ not murdered so their duty is done. there's nothing about how the baby needs to have a good life, etc.

I actually think that's one of the biggest fundamentals contradictions of the GOP. Like you support the life of a baby but then also refuse to raise taxes to help ppl raise them?

Through years of oppression and patriarchalism, in many religious communities it has been ingrained that men are the more dominant sex so men must be the final decision makers. And there really is no distinction for them b/w children already existing and fetus. Mother is irrelevant. She got pregnant and must bear the consequences (sexism). What makes me incredibly angry and sad is the women who have actually accepted this line of thinking and agree with it. Women who argue against abortion and believe that men are #1.

And regarding US as greatest place on earth. This is kinda controversial, but that entire ideal began with the US itself, if I'm not mistaken. It's not relly other countries who say this, but US says it about itself.

Also, cognitive dissonance is real. These people only see the issue from one angle and ignore the other. And the worst part is, you can't even really argue w/ it b/c they don't see it unless its directly in front of them. even then some choose to ignore b/c its easier to do than questioning your entire belief system. learning is never easy.

Originally posted by: ScreamForMe

I don't understand why everyone wear red at their wedding. In Muslims weddings Red is a must for Nikkah. Baki walima py jo colour pehn na ho pehn lo but Nikkah par toh Red is must 🤢 i would wear peach coloured Lehnga on my Nikkah chahey kuch bhi ho jaye NO RED for me😆

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Noor and MEB talking about all these designers and who they will be wearing on their weddings like how rich are these two chicks? Us little people just sitting here scratching our heads. 😛

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

Noor!! 😆 😆 You keep talking to Umz when you mean Noor! 😆

Originally posted by: NepaliStrawbery

As they say, if you cannot pronounce the designer, u cannot probablyafford it. She has spelled all of it correctly, so that means she can .😉😆

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Noor and MEB talking about all these designers and who they will be wearing on their weddings like how rich are these two chicks? Us little people just sitting here scratching our heads.😛