Will Shahid choose Mira over his work? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Terenaina

it's not just pak culture. So many people have kids early in their life. My brother wife is 23 and she has a daughter. My best friend got married at age 19 and had her first child at age 20.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

What nonsense, who cares if he keeps by his child-bride's side or not.


It's just highly disturbing for some reason that a child is having a child. :/

Originally posted by: gulabi22

Ya I don't know what's si wrong coz I myself got married at21 finished studies after marriage so?it not a big deal.

Originally posted by: hermione82

There are nothing really 'illegal' or 'immoral' having a child at young age as 22..But having a child tie you up..It needs a lot of maturity and patience to bring up a child which most 22 years women seriously lacks.

In my personal opinion 21-22 are the years when a woman finishes their college, starts their job, starts enjoying their life or recently 'earned' freedom. Most young urban women doesn't marry at the age of 22 forget about having a baby. So it comes as a little surprise when a celebrity or a wife of celebrity decides to have baby at this tender age that too soon after having an arrange marriage..It takes at least some time to know the other person well enough before the thought of bearing the child should come.

I am saying all this because Mira doesn't look like helpless, oppress girl whose voices are not heard. or may be she is. who knows !! But then again its their life and their decision. We can only express our views

Originally posted by: gatheringstorm

Trust me its a very big deal in urban India especially considering the strata of society to which she belongs that is middle to upper middle class.There is no one and I mean literally no one that I have ever come across in my entire graduate and post grad college life who was married. As a matter of fact even after our post grads, most of my friends would express surprise if one of our classmates got married soon, before 25 even. I find it shocking cause the environment in which I have grown up, be it family or friends or social circle, no one gets married so soon forget having a child at this age.

Hence its a big deal cause I have no personal exposure to this phenomenon of early marriage and child and someone who belongs to the same milieu as me doing this shocks me.

Originally posted by: gulabi22

As I said I came from Paki society.as there's no gf/bf culture.so ppl get marry at early age
Though 18 is the legal age here too. But my friends or besties or me got married ,finished education and even doing jobs.so for me its disturbing to read child bride or child having child at age of 22.