Is Alia a 'Beard' for Siddharth Malhotra? - Page 6

@Zee: Unless you thought it was meant for you I don't see what has you so bothered. Yes people are stupid & uninformed about sexuality & homosexuality which is why they think if you sleep with /have a relationship once with the person of the same sex, it is ALWAYS because the person is gay. Which isn't always the case & esp not in immensely murky places like BW & HW. In any case, am glad we are on the same non-argumentative page... Cheers!

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

@Zee: Unless you thought it was meant for you I don't see what has you so bothered. Yes people are stupid & uninformed about sexuality & homosexuality which is why they think if you sleep with /have a relationship once with the person of the same sex, it is ALWAYS because the person is gay. Which isn't always the case & esp not in immensely murky places like BW & HW. In any case, am glad we are on the same non-argumentative page... Cheers!

"Ignorance" and "stupidity" are two different things, these people are simply ignorant or naive or both. I'm bothered because I know ignorant/naive people like this but they're not "stupid". I guess I'm also bothered because I feel that saying someone is stupid as an explanation for something is very dismissive of them when more often than that it's more complicated than that. I suppose that has more to do with my own personal issues than with you, but yes it did bother me which is why I couldn't help but comment. In any case, I'm sure we both mean well, so at this point I don't even know why I'm talking. 😆

Cheers!

^ The people that I was referencing, the ones on this forum & in reality, aren't a case of simple ignorance. They're vicious, malicious, pointed & cruel. They're the ones outing people for the sake of a cruel anecdote, a vicious reminder of what they view the person's failing, to make the other a joke, an amusement to gossip & nastily laugh about later on to other "friends." Simple ignorance is a mistake, an uninformed opinion that can be rectified. Wilful cruelty cannot & that truly is what makes things "complicated". While you're unaware why you reacted to me, I am fully aware why I reacted to you- These issues are close to my heart because I've seen a few friends & my own cousin who don't identity as gay, but have had a relationship with the member of the same sex. These people aren't misinformed, it's pointed maliciousness that makes them act this way; the need to shame & punish the other with what they view to be a 'dirty difference', even when it isn't, even when there is nothing to be ashamed of. So yes, I reacted, but yes, we both mean well. :)


TC.

I don't think they're dating, at least, I hope not. 😆 Saw an interview of SidFaLia and she can barely string one sentence together. I hope Sid's taste isn't that bad.

Anyway, even if Sid were gay, wouldn't matter. I don't think he is though.