I am not a sati savitri: Kangana Ranaut - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nova19

Both people in an extramarital relationship are at fault. You don't need to give the non-married person a pass to hold the adulterer accountable. I would even say maybe once a person (especially a young person) could make a mistake and fall for a married person. But if someone repeatedly has affairs with married / unavailable people - something is wrong. That person may be stupid (this one is different), have low self esteem (I don't really deserve someone of my own), or ambitious (this one looks like someone who can help me), etc. I do not buy that a person with normal self esteem, self respect, and morality repeatedly sleeps with married or otherwise unavailable people.

Having said that, the adulterer is an 🤬 .

Originally posted by: mali89

I don't quite agree with you on this. If the married men had problems in their marriage how is it her fault ? For all we know they told her they were in an open relationship with their wife or that their marriage was as good as over but divorce wasn't an option because of the kids/image/family...

Let's not forget that Kangna was young at the time and those those men were way older than her. They are the one who should have known better because they were the one who had the upper hand in the relationship.

All the married men she dated are reportedly serial cheater so in the end she's one of many.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

@Nova: BW is ONE messed up place. Lots of them have affairs with married men, it's extremely common. Am not saying Kangana having affairs is right or wrong but I definitely place *most* of the blame on the married party rather than her because if they don't respect their wives or their marriage vows, W*F should she. Also often, it's a subtle form of the Casting Couch-Please me, and you'll be given movies... One really can't sit in judgement then because it's just another form of coercion & as a method of self-preservation, actresses learn to exploit the system. It's terribly sad but it is a f**kED up industry.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

But what gives the other woman the right to exploit the chink in the guy's marriage? Isn't that akin to stealing money from a purse that was accidentally left unattended?

Originally posted by: mali89

For me it would be more a case of finding a bill on the floor. 😊

More seriously, the fact that I pointed out the fact that those men are serial cheater is more to show that they don't seem like the type to refuse an opportunity to cheat they. May even be the kind to look for it.

The men Kangna was with were her senior in the industry but more importantly they have a lot of relation. For a girl who comes from nowhere it was easy to be tempted by such opportunities. Kangna despite impressing with her onscreen performances time and again was still only good enough for B list projects (Queen was a B-list project until it succeeded at the BO and critically). At a time, she had to do movies like Tezz and Rascal to work.

Originally posted by: hermione82

I got the point you are saying then why hail herself as a brave heart or role model

She had to sleep with multiple men(some of them are married) because she was not born with silver spoon..She got used and abused for her own sake...She had to be greedy, opportunist to climb up the ladder because it was soo hard for her to be an outsider

Nothing wrong in that in a murky place in bollywood may be but she is not a crusader.

No one had it easy. even in the business or corporate world. But generally we appreciate a Ratan Tata more than a Mukesh Ambani for the extra bit of integrity and humility left in him.

For me where she reached today is iconic but how she has reached the position will always remain questionable.