Originally posted by: Justmoi
I like an actor for what he or she does in his profession, I couldn't care about their personal life or what they are as people, if so I won't like people like Kamalhassan. I find it amusing people say SRK-PC couldn't possibly be true even a brief affair. Well, this rant of hers is convincing to me for one. She is talking about married men being honest, she was rumored to be connected to two, why should it only be Akki and not SRK ? Because Akki is a dog and SRK a pati vratha ? Please 🤔
And most amusing of all the argument that Gauri, whose "career" and everything she has done is based on being Mrs. SRK from the shows she'd had to the "designs" she's done to the magazine covers to the films she's "produced" is a strong woman who will leave SRK if he stepped out on her while people like Kajol and Jaya are doormats. 🤔. Kajol and Jaya had a career before marriage and still have a career independent of their husbands and before marriage. What is Gauri's "career" ? Sussane went to design school, Gauri did not. Even if she had the most exquisite taste, she would not be the popular "designer" she is if not for SRK. As for producer, Kamal Hassan too had a habit of sticking the wife du jour's name as producer for any film her produced under his banner. Funny how both Vani and Sarika never produced any movies after the divorce. What has Gauri achieved on her own before SRK became an actor ? If she leaves him, most people who hang around her because she is Mrs.SRK will disappear except a loyal few, the magazine covers will disappear, the producing credits and she will be left will a huge settlement of money and be the target of fortune hunters in her middle age. So why would she leave SRK even if he stepped out on her ? As for SRK, if they divorce the money he will pay will be one of the biggest settlements in India so pardon me for believing they worked on their marriage after a bad period and had a reconciliation baby in Abram to recommit to their marriage. Their relationship has not been the same to me for a while, there used to be a lot more warmth between them. Add to the rumors I cannot but believe the relationship had a bad patch. To paraphrase Jaya in KKKG, he is a pati, not parameshwar so I have he has the potential to step out on Gauri despite the love story.
As for Abram being a reconciliation baby, why not ? He is not an *oops* baby but planned deliberately. To have a IVF baby, you must have many embryos fertilized, not just one and in most cases they implant more than one. The success rate is quite low and the risk of miscarriage is high. So all the planning and the huge effort, money, the gap between his siblings, the timing after the rumors all make him more a child wanted and loved, but very much a symbol of two people recommitting to their relationship and marriage.
None of this is "proof". I don't pretend to know the truth, I only speculate, but I am also not going to hide my head under the sand and believe an actor I liked since I was a child is "perfect" and anything negative or rumors about him and he is a pati vratha while other actors stepping out on their wives are possibly true. Not everyone is out to get SRK, he is not so special that the blinds about him are untrue while things about other actors could be true, too many *circumstantial evidence* things add up to form a picture for me.
I also think most actors are narcissistic, not just SRK. To believe that people will pay to watch you or vote for you, needs a little of that. To be an actor or a politician a little of that is necessary IMO. SRK is a complex individual. Fascinating, smart, unique, ambitious, ruthless all making up an individual I have liked since I was a child. But I am under no illusions he is *perfect* with *perfect love story*. If you had said the same thing about SRK-Kajol being lovers I would be the first disprove it, but this PC thing makes sense to me. *shrug*
I find it a little too hilarious that you are stating that this interview of hers "convinced" you. Going by everything you have stated here , I don't think you needed any "convincing" to begin with. You are throwing "examples" out there to state as to how this could be true which pretty much says you believe in it and didn't really need this "rant" of hers to start with.
Secondly , let me just state to you since you went on to assume a whole lot about what kind of a fan I'm , I don't think Shahrukh is freaking "perfect". Hell...I don't think anyone out there is. Anyone who has followed him long enough would know he isn't someone to hide his "insecurities" unlike so many out there who pretend to be oh so secure. He has always talked about his flaws quite candidly so I'll be the last person to say he's a saint!
Wow...you have pretty much made Gauri out to be someone who's a gold digger to put it politely. Here is a woman who married this guy when he was a nobody. I don't think she will ever stay with him because she likes the "perks" that come with being Shahrukh's wife. If anything , she is one of the few star wives out there who doesn't care for the attention that comes with being in that position. She is someone who has always shied away from the media. It's only now that she has started giving a lot more interviews and that's only due to her work. You might also want to read up a little on her before you go on claiming as to what she would have achieved or not achieved if she were not in the position she is in today. The woman passed from LSR with a honors degree in history. She has done a course from NIFT as well. Her family is into exports if I'm not wrong. She had joined the family business for little while and when they shifted to Bombay , she did infact get a job. These are things she has talked about in interviews she did ages ago. She had to leave the job as they were newly married and Shahrukh's job was such where he had to go on different locations for weeks and film. So if she wanted , she could have had a "career". Just because she was homemaker for the longest time doesn't mean she is not capable of doing something else entirely on her own. Besides since when did taking caring of kids , building a family together , taking care of their homes become something one shouldn't be proud of! Shahrukh is incredibly hardworking but Gauri and his family have provided him with the stability he has always craved which is why he's where he's today. Doors didn't just open for her because she is Shahrukh's wife. They opened because she had some freaking talent. Anyone who knows a even a little about her would know she is always been drawn to art. Used to paint and has done a course in designing as well. Sussanne went ahead and offered her to make some pieces for her store and the rest is history. To think that there are companies out there just giving her a "job" because she is Shahrukh's wife is underestimating their intelligence. It's a business for crying out loud. None of these people would be offering her projects if she wasn't good enough. As for the producing credits , I don't think she has ever claimed that she works behind the scenes or anything. She has always been incredibly honest about how she signs the checks and that's it.
I don't know why you keep bringing up examples of people out there. What the hell does Kamal Hassan or Amitabh or John Edwards have anything to do with this!
As for her being isolated or people abandoning her if she were to tomorrow file for divorce , you got to be kidding me! If anything it'd be other way around. Anyone who has followed them as a couple would know how many friends Gauri has in this industry. She is someone who makes an effort , who had a huge role to play even when it came to things getting sorted between Shahrukh and Farah. A whole lot of folks out there are closer to her than they are to Shahrukh. She is the one who calls a lot of the industry folks over for gatherings and all that at their home.
As for if a divorce happens , it'll be one of the biggest settlements ...well duh...lol! Which is why I stated why would Gauri stay in marriage where she was beyond miserable! Where she's really not getting anything out of it.
Okay...a bad phrase in a relationship doesn't equate to an affair. I'm not someone who believes they have had a "perfect" marriage as that word really doesn't exist in my dictionary. Every relationship has its share of ups and downs so I'm not naive enough to think they haven't but I certainly don't believe ups and downs here mean him cheating on her with Priyanka! Who said anything about him being special and people out there to get him! Okay...let's pretend all the blinds are spot on. Well where the hell is the evidence then! You are claiming people in the media are right about the affair but can't freaking find any shred of evidence about it. That too in this day and age! This bull has been going on since 2011. These rumors haven't stopped so if the media really is in on everything one would think we'd see a shred of evidence by now. As for me believing in blinds about other actors and not him...lol! If I believed the blinds out there , I'd be quoting examples here like you are. I haven't bothered to do so. I mean if the media can go on and on for years about Shahrukh being gay then this really isn't all that surprising. He brings eyeballs to these sites so why not just continue concocting stories.
Coming to AbRam, who said he was an "oops" baby. Of course he was planned. He is a surrogate baby for God's sake! You initially stated Gauri stayed because of AbRam to which some of said if she was thinking of leaving , they wouldn't have brought him into this world. Aryan and Suhana are grown up and like I pointed out before , Shahrukh was talking about having more kids way before the rumors began. Aryan went abroad in 2012 if I'm not wrong which is when I think they started planning. Could AbRam be a symbol of their recommitment to one another? Yeah! But why is that a bad thing! Good Lord! Since when did recommiting to each other in that way equate to a husband cheating on his wife!
Lastly, I'm not someone who thinks he's perfect just to make it clear...again. Neither am I under any illusions. Just because one doesn't believe all the talk that goes on doesn't make one a blind fan. I'd be blind if I were believing everything that is said out there without any iota of "proof"...lol! Priyanka ain't the first person he has been linked to. It's just that we live in an age now where every blogger out there can write a story and claim they have "sources" and it'll be out there. It's that easy.
Shahrukh is indeed quite complex. Most people are. Hardly anyone is one dimensional...lol! We all have layers to our personalities.
Edited by srkjuhi - 9 years ago
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