Originally posted by: ViccoTurmeric
And can people come forward and say WHAT WRONG did she say when she said spouses/lover should say the truth and leave their partner if they have fallen out of love/relationship
Do you want to stay in a suffocated relationship and kill yourself only FOR SOCIETY?
People need to link in some way or other with whether she said with SRK..
Simply because SOCIETY does not work that way. Even so called American society where the divorce rate is 50%. Hillary and Bill Clinton are the biggest examples. After having a public spectacle of infidelity they are still married. Who knows what the state of their marriage is ? But when they pose pictures with their grandchild, the world goes aww. Do you think Hillary would have come close to running for the democratic nomination if she was divorced. She could still be the same woman with the same credentials, but even many liberals in America would balk at having the first woman president as a divorcee. People don't want to know the state of the marriage, even with public infidelity as Clintons as long as they are married. Sympathy is with Hillary, not Monica even today and the public loves Bill.
I blame a married man most for any infidelity, but next the other woman who knowingly goes into such a relationship. PC has been alleged to have been the other woman in not one, but two relationships. There is nothing empowering or being a feminist about it and all the statements about the big bling she buys herself does not make her strong, makes her pathetic. If she was involved in any way with these men when they were married. If she truly loved herself, she would have waited UNTIL they separated from their wives.
Why would the men come out ? They are having their cake and eating it too. The wife will not come out because in the end it will be a Jaya Bachchan story with the children and the houses and the respect while Rekha in her Kanjivarams and her maang mein sindoor cuts a lonely figure and doing sorry things like running after Jaya when Amitabh wins a BA. So Ajay can sleep with anything that moves, but Kajol will never leave him because of the children and cars and the houses and private plane and the respect of being Mrs. Devgn . Ajay could not even leave her when he had a thing for Kangana nor would he marry her. Why the hell would Gauri leave SRK, someone she fell in love with at 13 and was right by his side when he made his millions of dollars. As for SRK, a divorce with Gauri would cost him plenty not just in terms of money.
If PC wants HONESTY she should first look at herself in the mirror and ask herself why she is going after married men or even saying yes to them if they like her. She is the not the only one they go after, she is one of many from the lowly dancer in the background to national award winning actress does not matter to them. There is nothing strong or empowering about being an other woman. if you lie with a cheating dog, you have no right to complain about fleas.
If PC wants the married men to be honest in their relationship, first be honest with and ask what is it about her being as successful as she is wanting married men who are powerful when there are plenty of powerful unmarried men around. What is it in her that thinks she deserves to be in the shadows of a man's life when she should be in the sun ? That is what is wrong about her statement. The complete lack of self awareness.
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