Why cant older actresses in BW look like this ?? - Page 2

People say Bollywood is brutal towards mothers , but there is also another way of looking at it .. there are stunning mothers like Halle Berry , Kate Winslet , Jennifer Lopez etc in Hollywood but these women also ( intentionally or unintentionally) put a lot of pressure on mothers out there , looking like them post motherhood is no mean feat , it not only requires sheer dedication , hard work , money , babysitting help, cosmetics help but also requires to shun out the natural selflessness that comes with motherhood .. mothers often forget their own needs & put their children's needs before them , most even end up feeling guilty if somehow they manage to get some time for themselves , most mothers here would find it unthinkable to leave their babies with babysitters while they are out there enjoying a nice date with their respective husbands or boyfriends.. motherhood opens a door for a different wave of human experience .. modern feminism might help few struggling mothers but it also puts unreasonable pressures on mothers who find happiness in traditional motherhood ( Aishwarya's post pregnancy fat fiasco comes to mind ) .. i would say , most Indian women are inclined towards traditional motherhood - now its up to you to call them lazy , not good enough or suppressed/backwards/regressive .. I would say Bollywood & its audience naturally understands & respects the traditional motherhood & yes , there is a flip side to the predicament as well - less scope for ambitious mothers .. however that doesnt explain the lack of credible work for non-mothers post 40, though Tabu is sort of proving it otherwise .. 🤔.. oh well , women are bound by their biological limitations no matter what , fertility is often if not always directly proportional to attractiveness or sex appeal ...