Originally posted by: Saraa.
She should divorce him just like karishma did. Their is not use of living in such relationship. She tolerating all the crap he's doing to her. And according to me, the one who tolerate injustice is a culprit too.
Kajol should get out of this relationship. Worshiping A guy like ajay and spoiling your own life is not sensible at all.
Kajol comes from two generations of broken families. Her grandmother and her mother are divorced / separated. Kajol did not grow up with her parents, she spent a lot of time with her grandmother as her mom was working and did not have a great relationship with her dad.
I am no psychologist, but it is clear to see she values family a lot and is trying to re-create the childhood she never had for her kids. She quit her career in her 20s to get married and have a kid, especially after a huge hit like DDLJ. Who does that ? She clearly has put her career second, her kids come first no question. She lives in a joint family by choice. Karishma hardly lived in Delhi, so I do think different outlook. All I speculate Kajol did to give her kids the kind of security and 'family' she never had and probably craved. That is why IMO she also stopped working even though she says her mom-in-law is great with the kids, she is the primary care giver for her kids, not like her grandmom was for her.
I certainly don't give props to Ajay as a husband, but as a dad he comes across as a great one. Perhaps for all those reasons she chooses to look the other way. Her choice to be a passive wife is not something I like about her, but I have followed her for years and I do think I understand why she made the choice she did. I may not agree, but I do respect her for trying to create the childhood she never had for her kids.
I do respect Karishma too for taking a stand and giving her kids what she thinks is important. Both of them came from broken homes and both have chosen to deal with their lives different. They both are great mothers though and that is one of the things I love most about them.
As for KJo he has no business discussing this with both of them in a talk show.
Edited by meribaat - 11 years ago
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