My parents had a very troubled marriage: Ranbir

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VintageWine

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Humsafar.
You're lucky your parents are still together, RK. Not everyone is as lucky as you to be living with both parents under one roof.

Sorry to say this...

How is he lucky ?? 😕 Its highly disturbing to be around ppl who are constantly fighting.

Might leave you traumatized and def not wanna make you believe in relationships.

Better to be in peace n meet them once in a while or over alternate weekends den sit in despair for his parents to stop whining arguing n fighting .

The kid might might b living in constant fright ye log phir se shuru na ho jaye 😆

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light_year

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Na its even more toxic to live with parents who keep fighting with each other 24*7..It probably wouldn't have been this bad if Neetu had the courage to dump Rishi ages back..Especially cos there were stories about how Rishi was very abusive at one point..

Neetu is mild women if she had dumped rishi kapoor tge kids qould have gotten out of control . You need a father figure to control kids specially in teenage days , when kids are more rebellious.like how katrina says if she has chance she will never want her kids to grow without father . I guess she knows its difficult to control kids if u are single parent.

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rogerrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Humsafar.

Abuse is a different story, I don't want to get into that.

As far as what Ranbir said is concerned, at least you still get the love and guidance of both parents, if they both live with you.

There was an article which said Neetu even filed a police complaint against him..I don think Ranbir is lucky in any way..He even mentioned how he hardly met his father when they were kids and he hasn't had one normal conversation with him till date..Thats as dysfunctional as it can get😆

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rogerrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: light_year
Neetu is mild women if she had dumped rishi kapoor tge kids qould have gotten out of control . You need a father figure to control kids specially in teenage days , when kids are more rebellious.like how katrina says if she has chance she will never want her kids to grow without father . I guess she knows its difficult to control kids if u are single parent.

So in your opinion, a woman should put up with an abusive hubby/ douchebag however pathetic he might be cos the kids need his love but shouldn't ever think of dumping him cos kids might turn rebellious without a father figure?😳

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MaebyFunke

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Wonder if Rishi would react to this..

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light_year

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

So in your opinion, a woman should put up with an abusive hubby/ douchebag however pathetic he might be cos the kids need his love but shouldn't ever think of dumping him cos kids might turn rebellious without a father figure?😳

Rishi Kapoor is loud mouth but his kids respect him . He may be abusive with words but he is was not hitting neetu and kids , things could be worked out , today they are happy together . Nobody should take dicesion in heat of the moment. Having parents around gives a sense of security to kids , I myself had a very blunt father , I myself never used to see directly to my fathers eyes while speaking , I am myself libra like ranbir. But I can never imagine my parents seperate . That would kill me . Sometimes parents stay together for kids . And latter on tjings work out . Nobody is born bad , its just everybody have different nature , and nobody gets perfect life partner , there will be always difference which can be worked out .

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rogerrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: light_year
Rishi Kapoor is loud mouth but his kids respect him . He may be abusive with words but he is was not hitting neetu and kids , things could be worked out , today they are happy together . Nobody should take dicesion in heat of the moment. Having parents around gives a sense of security to kids , I myself had a very blunt father , I myself never used to see directly to my fathers eyes while speaking , I am myself libra like ranbir. But I can never imagine my parents seperate . That would kill me . Sometimes parents stay together for kids . And latter on tjings work out . Nobody is born bad , its just everybody have different nature , and nobody gets perfect life partner , there will be always difference which can be worked out .

Dude there were also reports about Neetu filing a police complaint against Rishi accusing him of domestic violence..There is a difference between being blunt and being abusive..If you think thats fabricated, so be it..Lets agree to disagree..

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Aweeeecute

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: light_year

Rishi Kapoor is loud mouth but his kids respect him . He may be abusive with words but he is was not hitting neetu and kids , things could be worked out , today they are happy together . Nobody should take dicesion in heat of the moment. Having parents around gives a sense of security to kids , I myself had a very blunt father , I myself never used to see directly to my fathers eyes while speaking , I am myself libra like ranbir. But I can never imagine my parents seperate . That would kill me . Sometimes parents stay together for kids . And latter on tjings work out . Nobody is born bad , its just everybody have different nature , and nobody gets perfect life partner , there will be always difference which can be worked out .

6. Sometime in 1997, the Bandra Police station received a call saying that Neetu Singh wanted to register a formal complaint against Rishi Kapoor as he was turning violent every time he was drunk. Neetu Singh was directed to do so at the Khar Police Station. When the officer visited the house a visibly drunk Rishi Kapoor pretended to be asleep and claimed it was a prank call. But the police always confirm the number and identity of the caller before making a house call. To date this couple denies the incident but insiders maintain Rishi's heavy drinking was the main cause.

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Edited by twilightsucks - 11 years ago

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light_year

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: twilightsucks
6. Sometime in 1997, the Bandra Police station received a call saying that Neetu Singh wanted to register a formal complaint against Rishi Kapoor as he was turning violent every time he was drunk. Neetu Singh was directed to do so at the Khar Police Station. When the officer visited the house a visibly drunk Rishi Kapoor pretended to be asleep and claimed it was a prank call. But the police always confirm the number and identity of the caller before making a house call. To date this couple denies the incident but insiders maintain Rishi's heavy drinking was the main cause.
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The police did go right , did they find any bruise on neetu , it would had been call to threat rishi for his rash behaviour towards family. If they had seen any such proofs of hitting and bruises , surely they would have reported it too. Seems like neetu found a way to deal with his mercurial behaviour towards her .

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charminggenie

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: light_year

I am sorry but even if Rishi was abusive with words it is still very very serious, words can equally be caustic. This is the reason why women suffer in Asian countries because they are too caged by the so called society perceptions. Neetu herself has mentioned that she lived through a bad phase , she might have had financial and social reasons to be stuck in an unhappy marriage but it is not right and should not be replicated. She has as much right as her kids to think about herself. Being woman doesn't mean you have to be the self-sacrificing house keeper.

You and I are not privy to the domestic life this couple leads, so it will be preposterous to say they lead a happy marital life, they are actors could easily be putting an act . Being Libran or any other sign doesn't tell us what type of respect Ranbir has for a father who still jokes about his personal private life in media.

It is not healthy to live in a "bad" abusive relationships. Abuse doesn't mean different nature . You work out on difference of opinions not abuse. She should have walked out for her own sanity and for her kids better future. That would have been better than seeing their parents fight and their father hurling abusing while being drunk.