Divorce such a big deal

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 12 years ago

It is 2013 and still people consider divorce a taboo. Marriage is not a prison. You are not bound to be married always. Marriage is a bond of love. But if this bond becomes a barrier, it is better to break the bond. Not all relationships work out. People cut relationships with best friends, then why can not they cut relationship with their spouses? Kids should not be the sole reason of dealing with a bad marriage. Kids growing up with parents who do not respect each other suffer much more than kids with divorced parents. Why the blame game starts after divorce? Breaking a marriage is not equivalent to killing a person, so the blame factor does not need to come to the picture. Maybe no one is to be blamed. It can be just lack of compatibility.

I am very disappointed in Hrithik. He did not need to post such statuses. It clearly points a finger at the woman. This is completely unacceptable. Why can't people just say, "We were not meant to be. So we have decided to part ways."

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Annie

@Star_girl

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am very disappointed in Hrithik too.

I never thought Sussanne had it in her. But I respect her now. Brave, indeed. Not everyone has the courage to come out of the shadow of their famous husbands. That too with a family pressuring her to get back together with him. As a woman, I admire her.

And if hrithik's statement was weird, then his status was in very bad taste. Blaming the woman and letting his fans loose to crucify her? Badly done.

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J tiger Barbie

@wat_up

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Posted: 12 years ago

No it isnt but in India it is in upper societies!!

But agree you not happy and cant work it out ten good not to be in it..but that dont mean people cant try to work things out, but still cant then ok..

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J tiger Barbie

@wat_up

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl
I am very disappointed in Hrithik too.
I never thought Sussanne had it in her. But I respect her now. Brave, indeed. Not everyone has the courage to come out of the shadow of their famous husbands. That too with a family pressuring her to get back together with him. As a woman, I admire her.

And if hrithik's statement was weird, then his status was in very bad taste. Blaming the woman and letting his fans loose to crucify her? Badly done.

No one is her but its been rumored that she been on drugs and something with her and arjun in the news..how true that is dont know..but the way people say barbara link up is then arjun is too!!

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TheJake

@TheJake

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Posted: 12 years ago

Divorce is something one needs to work on. It's a very normal thing, yet it's no joke. Depends on one's perspective.

HR needs to stop with such statements --- Don't blame him if those statements are his heart sayings --- but he needs to give some space to Suzanne. If he indeed loves her. Why bring it out in front of the world? Declaring your love in front of everyone is one thing ... but ... If he keeps on with such teary-eyed statements ... he'll end up pushing her further. Unless that's what he wants and being cunning about.

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Anastasia Smith

@ForeverSHINee

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Posted: 12 years ago

Its better to part ways than being tied down to a sham of marriage.Even I think this had to do with incompatibility more than anything else.Hrithik should just respect Susanne's decision.

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Annie

@Star_girl

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: wat_up

No one is her but its been rumored that she been on drugs and something with her and arjun in the news..how true that is dont know..but the way people say barbara link up is then arjun is too!!

I am not denying that at all. But even if it was all "her fault", Hirthik shouldn't have made such a statement. His fans and media will tear the girl apart. He shouldn't have done this to the mother of his children. He is well aware that people will almost always sympathize with the star. But still, he decided to throw the girl under bus?