All is not well between Kareena Kapoor & Sanjay Leela Bhansali - Page 6

Originally posted by: kitkataha

but no matter how much I scrutinize her (I am not her "fan"...that would be taking things too far)...I want with all my HEART for her to succeed...that is IF her definition of "success" matches mine. If not, then I am fine with that too.😆 She seems to have a stable personal life, she has acknowledged several times she's happy...so if she really is, then I wish her all the best. She deserves to live her life on her own terms. As someone who took interest in her work, I feel she owed me more...😆 in terms of her work...I made sure to watch her films and contribute to her success so maybe that's why I feel I have the right to scrutinize her.

Ranveer's case is different altogether! 😆 Anything, anyone DP is associated with is favored this season. It's the first rule of being a fan: thou shalt love thy star's friends; thou shalt not love thy star's enemies. 😆 I can't wait for his film with Anushka to begin...& I am too sleepy to type why I feel that way.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Word to everything you said😆 Despite everything, i cant help but hope that she comes back with a bang..Its very strenuous to be a fan IMO😆 I have had enough experiences with being a die hard Federer fan..I know its stupid cos they are random ppl who don know you exist but you end up being so invested that you cant help but feel sorry when they fail..So i totally get what the die hard Bebo fans must be going through..Atleast for their sake, i hope she does well 😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I was gonna say the exact same thing..May be not as well as you though😆 But yeah, i was just gonna say how Bebo is being trashed like no tomorrow after the dismal performance of GTPM😆 Its not just success..Its mob mentality too IMO..Ranveer was the most despised actor on this forum just a few months back..I distinctly remember how a lot of them were horrified that a gorgeous girl like DP is dating such a fugly looking guy..But in no time, i saw so many members gushing about him & i have no idea how this change came about😆 It has nothing to do with RL cos this started long before even the first poster was released😆

Originally posted by: desigal90

The funny thing is, a die hard Bebo fan who has no connect to the online world wouldnt think twice of anything or go through anything.

Isolated, it's just a typical bad year Bebo normally has had in her career. A tremendously bad one, I"ll give her that, but she seems to be doing perfectly fine, because hse's not reading what people are saying.

That is what makes it difficult for fans. Not films doing bad or good, and not the future prospects coz I personally think she'll be ok. But it's the whole movement to lynch her alive that's the challenging part for die hard fans. And the fact that, lets get real, every star has haters that are just waiting to pop out and start celebrating failure, etc etc.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Word to everything you said😆 Despite everything, i cant help but hope that she comes back with a bang..Its very strenuous to be a fan IMO😆 I have had enough experiences with being a die hard Federer fan..I know its stupid cos they are random ppl who don know you exist but you end up being so invested that you cant help but feel sorry when they fail..So i totally get what the die hard Bebo fans must be going through..Atleast for their sake, i hope she does well 😆

Oooh, real hard times for you Even though I'm from the 'opposing' side (Djokovic fan here), I'll tell you too...don't let anyone tell you that Roger Federer isn't the Greatest of All Time until someone comes up with anything to challenge his credentials. People don't always remain at the top, but what they achieved and the reason why you followed or respected them...I don't know, I feel it lingers on if you were in it for the right reasons. People should try to find those reasons in the ones they choose to follow rather than running after success, bandwagoning, and having knee jerk reactions. Alas, that is characteristic of mobs, as you so aptly worded it yourself.

Originally posted by: briahna

and hey just cos of this kareena i made some wonderful friends and then lost them. these friends i made during my ugly journey of defending/supporting/thrashing kareena kapoor. one piece of my heart wanted gtpm to bomb, but other piece wanted it to become a hit.

if it was a hit, i would have said cheers abbebo, wherever you are love...cheers this ones for you!

it bombed...now i say cheers kareena kapoor! well deserved!

Originally posted by: kitkataha

I've been Tom Cruise fan, Eminem fan (I know..don't laugh...) for over a decade now. So trust me , I also know how it feels when the entire world (or so it seems) is against someone you chose to believe in. 😆 It hurts man! Also it so happens that the people I choose to passionately follow and believe in turn out to be a bit cuckoo...they get trapped in their heads too often! 😆 & so I know how frustrating it is to make the world (i.e. your friends, the internet fans, your siblings) understand that your star idol is really not all that...they are much more than that. At the end, I fail of course...because people are going to have different perspectives. People simply DO NOT know the bigger picture like you or I do...and you just have to leave it at that. Not matter how much I wish and no matter how attached I feel to my favorite X,Y,Z...I cannot influence their choices...I feel I have the right to scrutinize them though...cuz hell I spent a decade or so being their fan! 😆

Originally posted by: Star_girl

Why Ranveer became suddenly popular is one thing that's obvious. Firstly, he actually is a good actor, So you don't need to defend his acting. Secondly, Deepika's boyfriend. Favourite actress's boyfriend my idol. 😆 Thirdly, there were a large group of DP fans, majority actually, who hated DP with RS. But as soon as the promotions started, Ranveer started to come across a genuinely caring and affectionate guy. So, bandwagon jumpers. 😆 Now, when he runs back to Anushka or Pari, everyone will hate him. Doubt na rakhna. 😆 I will always be with him. He is my favourite right now. And if he keeps doing good movies, he will remain. Also, I have been a Kareena fan myself when she started out. But you have no idea of the pain of being her fan. People are annoyed because they have reason to be this year. She leaves every good movie, to do horrible romantic comedies. When an actress of her caliber ruins herself, people will be angry. It is natural. If DP acted bad, people won't be. Because she is an average actress. But Kareena? No excuse. She has been handed everything on a platter. Everything. If she chooses to waste it, why should anyone stand by her? I would really like to know.

Originally posted by: desigal90

I still see it in her and hope she sees it in herself soon. If she does, great, if not, that's ok too.

I just wanna see my favorite actress onscreen.

Hell, even if she chooses to leave, it's ok. For some reason, I'd be more devastated if she suffers in her personal life. Maybe coz I know that at this point, she can handle failure in professional aspects, but her personal life is what keeps her going strong.

I hope she always has that.