'I cant be in a relationship with an actor' - Bebo - Page 3

So I doubt she really thought this over in a practical way like you say, and over time decided to go for an actor. No, she basically said whatever the hell came in her head and spurted it without another thought.

This might also have been a statement to basically deny any fling with Hrithik. Like oh, I'm never gonna go for an actor.

And her relationship with Saif was not a calculative move coz Saif was hardly the ideal bachelor in the practical sense. Come on, a man with 2 kids, divorced, inter-religious, slightly older? She wasnt even thinking of marriage when she fell for him and had just gotten outta a relationship with Shahid, who btw, she could have easily stuck with IF she was practical. He was on a huge career rise post Vivaah, single, unattached, young.

Saif was a gamble that miraculously worked out, and most people were skeptical. Gave em a year at most.

So maybe it's not that unbelievable that, I dunno, she genuinely fell for him without any ulterior motive. And if she wanted to just nab an actor and tie him down, wouldnt she have married Saif ages ago, if after all, the main goal was lets just settle down with an industry man before he can slip away. Why wait 5 years? Even arranged engagements with family interests might shatter ovwe a few years. For a relationship to work for 5, it has to have something a bit more legit than just ulterior motives.

And your entire reasoning is why would she go for Saif unless there was another catch is flawed coz it's assuming that it's a fact. It's an opinion. In your opinion, Saif is blaaah.
But in Kareena's eyes, he's like the best thing since sliced bread. She cites, here a there, a million things she loves about him, plugged into random interviews. Stories of how she was pulled towards him on the sets of Tashan were all over the place. She recites stories of his sense of humor, bike rides through the streets of Ladakh, dining, wine, walks.

It's really not that inconceivable that a girl could fall in love with him.

I doubt that only happened coz he's an actor. It could have been anyone.
But since she's working around actors, chances of her falling for actors outweigh other careers. It' s like how people question why so many actresses go for married men, well...most of the men they're working with are married. It's not like they prefer married men, it's just the majority.

That said, I'm sure her career IS important to her and she definitely discussed the prospects of her career post marriage. And Saif's supportive stance obviously mattered a great deal.

But I think that was the cherry on top, not THE reason she pursued him in the first place.

I feel ,Hrithik chapter gave her lot of insecurities, Shahid re-enforced her confidence and faith in love, while Saif gave her the love she wanted. These two stuck together, no link up rumors and pretty chilled out marriage. I was not too fond of them together, his glaring past was hard to miss. She was smitten, I think his charm and sense of humor did her in, not to forget his very longgg and reliable persona. Then they got married , 5 years of togetherness and most importantly they seem to be a very happy and secure couple.

P.S. A very long post on Bebo, things I do for you Desu😳😆

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she has matured, looks like Saif influence