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Things fall apart
Divorce is a function of a marriage no longer being what it was: forever. It's destructive for some people to continue living together. If you're happier without your spouse, then a divorce will leave you feeling more positive towards your kids and family at large. Divorce is much easier without kids, but even then, you should make every effort to ensure your marriage works. But it's not the end of the world if you grow up and say, look, we can't live together. At some point, you need to take control of your life and not be dictated to by society. Some people say it's better to have an affair and not rock the boat. I don't agree. I like how my life has turned out. I respect my past, and have learnt many things. The most important thing is for the children to be taken care of, if there are any. They will eventually understand that there's nothing wrong with their parents living in different environments.
Don't cheat, leave!
Cheating is so bloody stressful you should avoid it at all cost. Forget about your partner; just think about yourself – you're better off leaving! Do whatever you have to – live alone, rent a studio, buy a record player, take guitar lessons or run around naked – but don't cheat. Deal with yourself better, look better, learn to be more interesting to other women, but do not cheat. I can understand if a person in a long-term relationship gets attracted to someone else and things happen. He doesn't want to take it all the way, but doesn't want to lose the opportunity either. But this is a dangerous path, mostly for you. Unspoken sins weigh most heavily in our minds. And cheating negates everything. It's the wild card in the pack. What we need to understand is why people cheat. What we're really looking for is the warmth of another person, to touch or be touched by somebody. It's the sensation you're chasing. We want it because it's on the other side – the forbidden fruit. It's fun, gratifying, and you enjoy it for a while. But the damage that occurs later is almost irreversible. This understanding is the only thing that will protect you, unless you don't want protection. Some men have a stable marriage, kids, a house, car, everything, and after that they want a little excitement. But it's a dangerous game, because you can get burnt and lose everything. The path to peace lies through boredom. Physical sensation is like a drug – it's addictive. If life feels empty, there are so many ways to fill it up… though they might not be as much fun [laughs]. But they're much healthier in the long run.
Caught in the act?
If you're in a relationship that you're not serious about, and you're constantly screwing around behind her back, getting caught could be a great opportunity to move on. If you're in a loving, honorable relationship and you've been indiscreet, you can beg, plead and explain – and try to live with that crack in your relationship. If you're in that type of relationship, my advice is to drink a bottle of your favourite poison and walk away, because it's never going to be the same again. Women blow up in your face for the smallest mistakes. Infidelity – forget about it. An honorable relationship is done the moment you've been unfaithful. There's no love left. If she needs security, either for herself or the children, or money, then she might stick it out, but there will be no love. My advice would be to split before she cuts your dick off in your sleep. You'd never believe that this is the same girl who once looked at you with so much love.
Originally posted by: desigal90
Guys read this, this is REALLY interesting. As a woman, I was so INTRIGUED to read this. Do all men think this way?
From a man who has cheated - SAIF ALI KHAN.This came out in 2009. Read what he says. He pretty much speaks with the given that people know he's cheated. You can tell by the way he talks.Things fall apart
Divorce is a function of a marriage no longer being what it was: forever. It's destructive for some people to continue living together. If you're happier without your spouse, then a divorce will leave you feeling more positive towards your kids and family at large. Divorce is much easier without kids, but even then, you should make every effort to ensure your marriage works. But it's not the end of the world if you grow up and say, look, we can't live together. At some point, you need to take control of your life and not be dictated to by society. Some people say it's better to have an affair and not rock the boat. I don't agree. I like how my life has turned out. I respect my past, and have learnt many things. The most important thing is for the children to be taken care of, if there are any. They will eventually understand that there's nothing wrong with their parents living in different environments.
Don't cheat, leave!
Cheating is so bloody stressful you should avoid it at all cost. Forget about your partner; just think about yourself ' you're better off leaving! Do whatever you have to ' live alone, rent a studio, buy a record player, take guitar lessons or run around naked ' but don't cheat. Deal with yourself better, look better, learn to be more interesting to other women, but do not cheat. I can understand if a person in a long-term relationship gets attracted to someone else and things happen. He doesn't want to take it all the way, but doesn't want to lose the opportunity either. But this is a dangerous path, mostly for you. Unspoken sins weigh most heavily in our minds. And cheating negates everything. It's the wild card in the pack. What we need to understand is why people cheat. What we're really looking for is the warmth of another person, to touch or be touched by somebody. It's the sensation you're chasing. We want it because it's on the other side ' the forbidden fruit. It's fun, gratifying, and you enjoy it for a while. But the damage that occurs later is almost irreversible. This understanding is the only thing that will protect you, unless you don't want protection. Some men have a stable marriage, kids, a house, car, everything, and after that they want a little excitement. But it's a dangerous game, because you can get burnt and lose everything. The path to peace lies through boredom. Physical sensation is like a drug ' it's addictive. If life feels empty, there are so many ways to fill it up' though they might not be as much fun [laughs]. But they're much healthier in the long run.
Caught in the act?
If you're in a relationship that you're not serious about, and you're constantly screwing around behind her back, getting caught could be a great opportunity to move on. If you're in a loving, honorable relationship and you've been indiscreet, you can beg, plead and explain ' and try to live with that crack in your relationship. If you're in that type of relationship, my advice is to drink a bottle of your favourite poison and walk away, because it's never going to be the same again. Women blow up in your face for the smallest mistakes. Infidelity ' forget about it. An honorable relationship is done the moment you've been unfaithful. There's no love left. If she needs security, either for herself or the children, or money, then she might stick it out, but there will be no love. My advice would be to split before she cuts your dick off in your sleep. You'd never believe that this is the same girl who once looked at you with so much love.
Father figure
Women can definitely get it wrong. They can react out of ego. They're often right, but sometimes they're not. But if you don't get into an argument at the time, you might get an apology later. You will be respected for not having blown up. You have to let her know that she is the queen in certain areas. And sometimes you have to treat her like a child and tell her she's pushing it. She has to know that she can argue and shout, but that there are certain rules. She has to know that you're not her chamcha and that you can say no, but that as long as she's not wrong, you will give her the moon. You have to play the role of father, brother and lover all rolled into one.
Originally posted by: desigal90
Man, bollywood is a dirty place...or just a small sphere that is under scrutiny so we can see it. This shit happens everywhere and its sad.
I dont think this article is anything to be proud of. Woohooo, the men cheated, and the wives accepted them back.Kudos to the ones that genuinely tried to mend things back together and make efforts to change, but I have a feeling the majority are just women in compromise. Compromise with fate, compromise with their lifestyle. They've just accepted it as a norm.The fangirl is me is coming out, but Saif talked at great lengths about cheating in his GQ interview. It was quite interesting to see a man admit the fact that he cheated and be ashamed of it. And learn from it and introspect.He said that once you've cheated, no matter how hard you try, things are never the same, because you've broken that faith, and those cracks are there no matter how hard you try to put it back together. And that sometimes, its better to just end it and walk away.Ooh I wanna post it, can I? Cant I?
Originally posted by: BlackStar.
I'm all for divorce if your spouse cheats, but I guess there's too many concerns for Bollywood Star Wives if a divorce does occur..
Fame, money, status, etc.. Soo many things besides trust, while love comes after..
And then there's the children.. There upbringing gets affected, while the parents don't understand that hving more does NOT fill the cracks in your relationship..
Which of these star wives consider themselves independent enough to divorce a superstar and bring up children?
In-fact who would want to?
It's ridiculous but yes they DO care about the fame they get being the actor's wife.. There's so much recognition.. For it they'd sacrifice their souls and sanity. To a certain extent self-respect. Especially if the cheating continues..
Just look at Gauri, Jaya, Suzanne, Twinkle, etc.
They're mentioned frequently in bollywood despite not being actresses.
Originally posted by: _Priyanka_
who all did akshay do after marriage? I thought Priyanka was a one off and he'd mended his ways😕
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