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Posted: 13 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: Dexterkichokri


Perhaps you should speak for yourself as well, no? You criticize others for sitting on the CC and "passing judgments". Yet, you are always complaining about the forum being too boring, or "cynics" doing things that's not to your liking or fans being overly sentimental. Or, people creating too many polls just because you started the "trend" first. Or, people annoying you and forcing you to take a sabbatical. Everything is non-stop whining, isn't it?

I don't come here to criticize myself. So why would I? No one does it anyway. Others do it for us.

Kya karoon main phir. I am the bin paindey ka lota.. haha.. i am neither a fan nor a cynic.. I get to judge both fans and cynics... its fun, you should try it sometime. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: ladygaga.

When did i call you darpok?? And some of us have emotions..yes even on an online forum.. you are too critical and judgemental...Sometimes criticize yourself also!


Add hypocritical to that.😆 I would have responded then but I was banned and wasn't here actively posting. So did not feel the need to clarify. Now that you ask though, I have no problem opening the can of worms. You accuse me of pouncing on you. Yet, it is you that takes slight digs here and there at me all over the forum. Why feel the need to have these petty and manipulative housewife politics when we can have a war right here. So let me assure you, I did not quit e-life, I needed a break from being dexterphile because it was too monotonous and saccharine for my liking. As you say, I am too harsh and judgmental so that reasoning should make sense. I wish though that you would say these things while I am around so I can defend myself instead of sprinkling it all over in different topics on the forum.

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How boring has this place become??? There is NOTHING LEFT HERE!!! All the interesting members who used to really rile me and irritate me and because of whom i used to enjoy or take part in debates are GONE. Shadowkisses, qww, pragya... their cynicism and sarcasm was great.. at that point i hated them... but atleast i felt like fighting with them... others who are left here are so boring.. i don't even feel like debating with them... Can't believe Xeta and Zainab made topics that pissed off a lot of interesting members and drove them away... and how hypocritical of xeta.. she used to pick on celebs for quitting twitter and she herself quitted e-life.. dusro ko darpok kehti thi.. when they self banned themselves or quitted twitter.. but khud chod ke IF bhaag gayi..😆

Edited by Dexterkichokri - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: ladygaga.

Kya karoon main phir. I am the bin paindey ka lota.. haha.. i am neither a fan nor a cynic.. I get to judge both fans and cynics... its fun, you should try it sometime. 😆



I don't consider myself a cynic, that was the term you used to lump us all together. Neither am I a fan. So yes, I have already tried and got bored of. Don't see the point in being constantly judgmental when I'm not perfect myself. 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: Dexterkichokri


Add hypocritical to that.😆 I would have responded then but I was banned and wasn't here actively posting. So did not feel the need to clarify. Now that you ask though, I have no problem opening the can of worms. You accuse me of pouncing on you. Yet, it is you that takes slight digs here and there at me all over the forum. Why feel the need to have these petty and manipulative housewife politics when we can have a war right here. So let me assure you, I did not quit e-life, I needed a break from being dexterphile because it was too monotonous and saccharine for my liking. As you say, I am too harsh and judgmental so that reasoning should make sense. I wish though that you would say these things while I am around so I can defend myself instead of sprinkling it all over in different topics on the forum.

ladygaga.

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How boring has this place become??? There is NOTHING LEFT HERE!!! All the interesting members who used to really rile me and irritate me and because of whom i used to enjoy or take part in debates are GONE. Shadowkisses, qww, pragya... their cynicism and sarcasm was great.. at that point i hated them... but atleast i felt like fighting with them... others who are left here are so boring.. i don't even feel like debating with them... Can't believe Xeta and Zainab made topics that pissed off a lot of interesting members and drove them away... and how hypocritical of xeta.. she used to pick on celebs for quitting twitter and she herself quitted e-life.. dusro ko darpok kehti thi.. when they self banned themselves or quitted twitter.. but khud chod ke IF bhaag gayi..😆

I said that because you always criticized people.. me and many others for several self bans. I remember you were overcritical of SRK when he quitted twitter.. and imran also.. You always said that.. why should people quit e-life so easily... and run away.. that is why i thought it was weird that you banned yourself. You were totally against self bans.. so i thought it was out of character for you to ban yourself. And i have always faught openly with people.. jo main kehti hoon woh kehti hoon..I have been the only one who has faught with you, zainab and many others.. i think i have argued with and debated with maximum number of people in BS.. and always said whatever felt right or wrong to me. Atleast twitter par jaa kar... toh i haven't made any comments.. i have always been straightforward. But you are overcritical of others too... maybe not me.. but many others.. So its not a biggie if i criticized you... or other cynics. Sometimes i feel that cynics get away with stuff and no one criticizes them ... so i do.. and when i think fans are unfair then i criticize them too sometimes. But mostly cynics also sit there and judge many others. Make threads bashing members.. the one that you and zainab made... and people are too scared to say anything.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#95
@ladygaga:


I am not a celebrity so what does my opinion on SRK or Imran have anything to do with what I choose to do with my personal life? They quit because in their own words they were getting sick of the hatred. Yes, I criticized them. Cowardice does not suit public figures. As for me, I did not quit for the same reason. I wasn't being subjected to hatred, the hate pms I always get them, they're not strong enough to scare me off. Secondly, I was vocal about my annoyance with people self-banning themselves because they did so out of hurt or spite. I have mentioned the same several times so you picking and choosing my words to prove your point is just plain silly. I was vocal because I could not understand how or why anyone took something online so strongly to the extent of banning oneself. Personally, I had no major showdown with anyone before my ban. So your assumption about me being hypocritical or a chickenshit is wrong. Then again, I assume that you like to believe the worst of me to feel better about yourself. I left because I was bored. I came back because I wanted to. Plain and Simple.

The thread that Zainab and I made did not include the two of us alone. Lot of people participated in it. It crossed 100 pages. Clearly, if people disliked it that much or were so scared as you put it, they would have reported it or not participated at all. Or the pages would just be filled with Zainab and my comments. That wasn't the case, was it? You blame me for Shee's exile, you blame me for Pragya or Lilly's exile. Well let's face it, I did not put a gun to their head and force them to leave. They left because they couldn't handle it. That's their prerogative. I have nothing to do with what people choose to do with their lives. I can only control mine.

You call me judgmental and overly critical. Yes, I am. But you know what your issue is? You like to think you're straightforward but you're just another whiny mcwhiner. Fighting with me on bollywood related topic is one thing, we do it, we forget it, we move on. It's taken in the spirit of a debate, done, dead and buried. But taking constant digs at me or Zainab just to lionize yourself or prove that you're straightforward in the face of us two "cynics" is frankly very juvenile. You don't have to prove your courage by taking digs. You can directly confront us. Either way, Zainab isn't even here, so taking digs at her is just below the belt. Then again, that's your forte.
Edited by Dexterkichokri - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#96

Well if my comments ended up hurting you and zainab.. then i apologize. I will try to restrict my comments more to bollywood celebrities rahter than members from now on. Like i said in some thread.. i have nothing to gain from the politics of this forum.. i say stuff whenever i feel something right or wrong is happening in the forum. Maybe in my head i am fair..but i am actually not. So i won't bother from now on..

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Posted: 13 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: ladygaga.

Well if my comments ended up hurting you and zainab.. then i apologize. I will try to restrict my comments more to bollywood celebrities rahter than members from now on. Like i said in some thread.. i have nothing to gain from the politics of this forum.. i say stuff whenever i feel something right or wrong is happening in the forum. Maybe in my head i am fair..but i am actually not. So i won't bother from now on..



It did not hurt. It was annoying because it was not said straight to our faces. Anyway, apology although appreciated isn't necessary. Why apologize for something you felt was right. Apology defeats conviction. I brought this up in the open to clear the air from my side and the timing was apt.

Anyway, moving on.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: liverach

YAAAYYY I got all the results from my first term for uni, passed all! I'm SO HAPPY


I passed accounting. Thereyago. xD xD



Congratsss Rachnaa! 🥳🤗
HAHA. I want to say ane extra congrats for the accounting bit. LOL. I have been so bad with numbers all my life and I had accounts 3/4 semesters ago in college(I was an arts student in school) and I just took a few classes before exams and actually did well and my dad got so happy bcoz he was a Math and Science genius 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
#99
Hello Anku. Rachna, Xeta and Lady Gaga 🤗

Aaah, feels so good to log in to IF during the day :)

Anku - did you fix your sleep cycle yet? :P

Rachna - Congratulations girl!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: eraser

Hello Anku. Rachna, Xeta and Lady Gaga 🤗


Aaah, feels so good to log in to IF during the day :)

Anku - did you fix your sleep cycle yet? :P

Rachna - Congratulations girl!



Eraser 🤗

HAHAAA! Welll, I am better than before 😆😆 I sleep by 5ish in the morning n get up by 2/3 in the afternoon 😆😆😆 Btw, you know I passed my BBA as well First Class :D My BBA is bachelors in business administration law though
:P How are youuu?
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