'Betrayal & cheating...'-Ranbir Kapoor

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Posted: 15 years ago

"....are part and parcel of romance today."

Credit: ranbirkapoor.net

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Pooja

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Posted: 15 years ago

where did he say that? in interview? plz post the interview naa plz

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Posted: 15 years ago

What is he referring to....movies? his own relationships?

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Posted: 15 years ago


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I'd like to do a loyalty test on Madhuri Dixi t: Ranbir Kapoor

He is the much-loved rising son in B-Town and has been branded as a Casanova what with his reported liaisons with Katrina Kaif (and subsequent break off with Deepika Padukone). It seems the gossip mills have been linking him up with one name after another.

But ask actor Ranbir Kapoor about this, and he skirts the issue saying that betrayal and cheating are part and parcel of romance today.

So, who's that one dream girl who he hopes would cheat on her partner for him? "Madhuri Dixit!" pat comes the answer.wow that is selfish.You want some girl to cheat on her husband/partner too!Even a thought like that is DIGUSTING😡

The actor admits that he has not yet gotten over his teenage crush on actor Madhuri Dixit. The Kapoor scion says that given a choice he'd love to do a 'loyalty test' on her even if she's happily married.

The actor is referring to a popular international reality show that's based on a relationship being put to test by an undercover agent, who tries to flirt and wean away one partner in a relationship. "When it comes to Madhuri Dixit, I am tempted to do a loyalty test on her... No other woman has that effect on me," says Ranbir coyly when talking of his childhood crush.

Even if she's happily married to Dr Sriram Nene and with two kids?"I know I shouldn't be saying this. But come on, she's my favourite actor, and it doesn't matter that she's married,"😲 quips Ranbir.

Since he's brought up the topic of trying to lure a woman he fancied away from her boyfriend or husband, would he do that in the future? "I'd be petrified. Besides, I am not as good an actor to track somebody this close," says the newest superstar on the block.

However, Ranbir hopes to make films on Emotional Atyachaar type topics in the future. "Our culture doesn't allow us to glorify this side of human nature(you want it to be glorified..really😲),but it's important to know that such things are rampant here too," he says.

So, is that a Casanova or disillushioned lover speaking?

http://www.dnaindia.com/entertainment/report_i-d-like-to-do-a-loyalty-test-on-madhuri-dixit-ranbir-kapoor_1442951

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Pooja

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ye kaun sa RK bol raha hai, i never knew this ranbir

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Posted: 15 years ago

haha that's good fun, quite clearly he was pretty stoned while giving this interview.

anyways I think he meant it in good humour.

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mj_applehead

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Posted: 15 years ago

its true that all the cheating and betraylas are a part of human nature.it happens in india too but yea they are not something anyone should glorify.you dont want such things to happen with you.would you?unless of course if you are the one cheating and betraying. 😛

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Okazaki

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Posted: 15 years ago

thank you, ajooni..the original link just disappeared ;)

Follow up (I think this was when we was sober/suffering from selective amnesia):

I'm a super boyfriend!

Actor Ranbir Kapoor dips into his own experiences to play love guru and offers tips on matters of the heart. Are you listening, boys?

Namrata Bhawnani

Posted On Sunday, September 26, 2010 at 01:59:03 AM

Ranbir is amused at the idea of playing love guru, as he feels he is yet to master the art of relationships. Over the years he has become aware of his flaws. But contrary to popular perception, he says, he's very shy around women and needs a lot of encouragement to approach them.

He insists, "I need a sign, When I was in college, I liked a girl but didn't have the courage to make the first move. I was low on confidence. So I got my best friend to call her and I would be on conference. This went on for two months!"

He talks about the secret of a good relationship and getting over heartbreak. Here are tips from the young Kapoor charmer:

Don't have a checklist

She is a woman in your life, don't treat her like a menu card. Sure enough, the young actor does not have a 10-point agenda when it comes to a date. He says, "I'm not desperate for a relationship. It will happen when you have a connection and if it grows organically. She just has to be a good person, positive and should respect our parents. But Indian women are like that — family oriented. I hope she has a career or something that belongs solely to her; I don't expect her to live my life." Respecting the partner's individuality lays the foundation for a strong relationship.

True love is rare, respect it

An arranged marriage will not do for Ranbir. "Love is rare, and few people are fortunate to experience it. I hope to meet someone who I will fall in love with and marry eventually." Since he doesn't socialise, he only meets people on the sets. He rules out multi-dating, as "you might end up hurting someone with a fling."

Make the effort

Love is not about expecting; it's about giving, feels Ranbir. From planning surprises to offering stability, learn to give. He says, "On an ideal date, if I had to spend the day with my partner, I'd start with a good breakfast. We could go to the gym together or play a sport. Have a good lunch, sleep for a bit. Wake up, play some videogames, listen to some music, chat, watch a movie, speak about our day. I've planned a few surprises in my relationships. I'm not an explorer, so if I plan a getaway, I'd go to New York City or places that I have a connect with. I wish I could do more. A relationship is about stability, about how much security you give your partner." On a scale of one to ten, how would he rate himself as a boyfriend? "A super 10!"

Work on your flaws

The young star is conscious about his flaws. He says, "I've gone wrong, that's why my relationships haven't worked. I'm a bit of an isolated soul. I want space. That's unfair for a partner. And I'm not terribly expressive. I expect my partner to understand that. You just have to be more real and caring. Also, I live like a gypsy, so the distance can be tricky. There has to be a strong foundation of trust."

Forget ego, not self-Respect

In relationships, people tend to take their partner for granted. But compromise is key. He says, "I don't have a big ego. I have the same insecurities as everyone else — does she love me completely, is someone else interested in her? If there is a difference of opinion, ego does come in, but it's about self-respect. When there are differences or problems, honestly I would love to be the person who voices it, but unfortunately I don't."

Dealing with heartbreak

Everyone has had their share of heartbreaks, and Ranbir hasn't been immune either. He says, "Fortunately, I've not got my heart broken. You have to say, 'Listen, it's over' and try to move on. I surround myself with positive people. You need a low phase to appreciate happiness. I don't let time pass, I search for happiness."

Stay friends with your exes

Ranbir says he is friends with his exes as there is no bad blood, no regret, no negativity. He says, "It's not their fault that things ended, and it's not mine. I have no qualms about breaking the ice."

Monogamy is a good thing

Ranbir claims to have never cheated on anyone. And it's because of our values, he believes. He says, "I believe in the sanctity of marriage. And in monogamy. I don't feel like I'm footloose and fancy-free."

His final word is that there is no perfect rule of the game. Be yourself. You don't need to quote lines from a book. Respect women, say something that means something. He concludes, "I take women seriously. They are far more intelligent and stronger."

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think "glorified" is totally the wrong word to use in this context. Perhaps he should have said "openly displayed in film"

There is nothing glorious about hurting someone and betraying their trust---nothing.

Even if it happens all the time, so does going to the bathroom but that certainly doesn't deserve glorification!!

But that aside I like the fact that Ranbir has the real balls and honesty to be himself and not pretend to be some picturebook saint of love who never, never would put a foot wrong with his wife and all the while he's doing stuff that would make a pimp gasp in shock with girls and boys BOTH!

I can respect Ranbir's honesty and like him for it...even if I wouldn't want to date the guy. It's the liars and hypocrites I can't stick.