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swan20

@swan20

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

aww sanam you are such a sweetie.......thanks for making this post...😊

Desu....do come back yaar.You have every right to be here & post whatever you like. You've come up with some really inventive & unique posts here......miss you lots...😃

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nerdynerd

@nerdynerd

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Ms.GoodMorning
I talked to her yesterday.. she said she doesn't want to post in a place where she constantly gets attacked.. can't say I blame her.

But desi, still, we miss you.

Well maybe you should send her a link to this thread. It might change her mind. She has every right to post here.

I saw the thread yesterday. While everyone has their opinions, noone has the right to attack her personally. It just goes to show that they have nothing creative or geniune to offer to the argument. I had no opinions about it so I kept away. I wish people on this forum would just learn that if you don't have anything to add to the discussion, it's best to keep away. Because of this, the forum lost a good member who had her friends here.

I hope desigirl that you return because even though there might be few 'haters', you seem to have made plenty of friends also. There is no point of leaving the forum because of one argument. People are going to have their opinions and it's best to pick your discussions with people who have actually something to offer and ignore the stupid, inane comments.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: *guesswho*

Well maybe you should send her a link to this thread. It might change her mind. She has every right to post here.

I saw the thread yesterday. While everyone has their opinions, noone has the right to attack her personally. It just goes to show that they have nothing creative or geniune to offer to the argument. I had no opinions about it so I kept away. I wish people on this forum would just learn that if you don't have anything to add to the discussion, it's best to keep away. Because of this, the forum lost a good member who had her friends here.

I hope desigirl that you return because even though there might be few 'haters', you seem to have made plenty of friends also. There is no point of leaving the forum because of one argument. People are going to have their opinions and it's best to pick your discussions with people who have actually something to offer and ignore the stupid, inane comments.

She has the link and at first she wasn't listening.. but I think I've managed to convince her.

desu. we're dying to hear about saifeena yaar. 😳😳

Edited by Ms.GoodMorning - 16 years ago

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

Yes, desigirl90, just come back already. Look at all your supporters, they miss you here. And yes, I was one of those haters (most people on other forums seem to think the same😆) of your posts, but no biggie, I'll just stay clear and try to ignore your posts. I guess I should learn how to be sensitive, too bad I like being politically incorrect all the time. Regardless, I hope you don't feel personally attacked by me because honestly I don't hold grudges against anyone on here.😃 And I never meant to attack you personally, so Im confused as to why you left. You seem like a good person (as is evident from the people here who like you) therefore don't let my comments offend you. I mean no personal harm to anyone, Im just not a sweet talker! Thats just how I am, I guess. Although you did say I annoy you, so I am going to try to NOT annoy you from now on. I have no intention of making members on here feel attacked.

My apologies.🤗

Edited by psychobalehead - 16 years ago

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@solly21

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#15

I really did not know desigal but I always knew she was the biggest SAIFEENA FAN, and in a day posted atleast one off their post or pics.

I think its a personal choice if she wants to post anything related to saifeena because its a bollywood forum.

Please come back and don't let the people that told you crap get away with it.

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zaveria

@colling

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#16

desigal i may not know u personally but i have seem ur love for saifeena on the firum so who doesnt have any fav..u have every right to frredom of opinion like every1 else here...come back na!

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desigal90

@desigal90

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Aww man....Sanam... crying hspace5

Shit yaar, you didnt have to do this, really, haha. Now how in the world can I even thank you? I think I tried before but let me try again through emoticons

I love you!

As for the rest of you, this is for everyone who put a message down

First you guys put up with my constant saifeena yak, and then you do this. I really dont have any words right now for all of you. Just lots and lots of gratitude.

I guess I never realized how many friends I made in IF, and then it hit me AFTER I wrote that message, but keeping in touch through PMs wasnt too bad, lol. Just THANK YOU! I really was gonna miss you all. And just a secret, I was still arond in the saifeena fanclub. But posting in the main bollywood section...I dunno...I get the hint now. Enough saifeena talk. ANd I really cant change. The fan inside just jumps out. I'm just not that interested in other stars apart from saif and kareena, so I mostly keep updated on them. Also coz I'm admin on kareenak, its just easy this way. And the only reason I posted this much was coz I felt like IF was family. You know that annoying lil sibling you just accept with all of her faults and fanaticism, lol. Never realized it was getting on people's nerves.

And just to clear up, I didnt leave because people didnt agree with me. That's the point of a forum, to disagree. I left because rather than criticsing my views or my argument, I felt that some members were attacking ME. By all means, go ahead and disagree with the post, but what's up wiht attacking the member? And I'm not the only one this has happened to. Its happened to so many members that its just become part of the norm now. I've talked iwth some IF members via PMs who say they've stopped posting in the main bollywood section because htey would end up getting attacked if their opinions didnt match someone else's. I think this really needs to change. Can we all please just try to cooperate and respect each other as people first and then "fan of so and so?"

And yeah...sending Sanam a hate message because she stood up for me...very mature. I'm not gonna name that member, but really, its time you realize that the person at the receiving end of your spiteful attacks is a PERSON, not some virtual player you can engage in combat. And realize that she's a lot older than you are, and htat its just downright disrespectful.

Psychobalehead, its realy sweet of you to apologize. All is forgiven 😊

And just to let you know, it wasnt "YOU" who prompted my slight sabatical there. But just a combined attack over a period of time. I know you dont agree with my views, but I would love it if we can just speak on cordial terms coz I now know you're a great person at heart. It takes guts to own up and be the better person.

So yeah, haha, guess I'm back. Are you SURE you're ready for my saifeenamanic again? I promise I tossed all the saifeenaholic tags down the garbage disposal. 😳

Now I have Saifeenaholic stickers!

And if you still have your saifeenaholic bracelet, keep it! When I get married to saifu jaan, the core of my being, the love of my life but he just doesnt know it yet....I will give preference to ppl with tags when it comes to invitations 😃

Edited by desigal90 - 16 years ago