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Posted: 16 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: pksanam

no my dear.. i fully disagree... it's much easier to leave.. you turn your back, you sulk, you moan, cry, etc... but to stay and face the situation.. now, that is strong...!!

it is easy to break something, but very hard to fix.. same thing is with relationships..

It has nothing to do with "moaning, crying" and self-pity. That's just insulting to say that. So if a woman leaves her husband for cheating on her, she's sulking and turning her back?😕 It has everything to do with self-respect. Some people believe in themselves and think highly of themselves (not at all in an arrogant way). They cannot continue living with a husband, seeing his face everyday, knowing that he has cheated on her once and may do so again in the future. If staying requires strength, so does leaving - leaving a family, letting go of love, happiness, and memories. You may support one side of this argument, but that doesn't necessarily mean that the other side is wrong.

Jaya did what is best for her and I hope she is happy with her decision.😊

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Posted: 16 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: nanshr

It has nothing to do with "moaning, crying" and self-pity. That's just insulting to say that. So if a woman leaves her husband for cheating on her, she's sulking and turning her back?😕 It has everything to do with self-respect. Some people believe in themselves and think highly of themselves (not at all in an arrogant way). They cannot continue living with a husband, seeing his face everyday, knowing that he has cheated on her once and may do so again in the future. If staying requires strength, so does leaving - leaving a family, letting go of love, happiness, and memories. You may support one side of this argument, but that doesn't necessarily mean that the other side is wrong.

Jaya did what is best for her and I hope she is happy with her decision.😊

that is not what i meant, in the least bit.. and i am not saying that it doesn't take a strong woman to have to turn her back from her love.. but i am saying that it takes even more strength to stand and face the music.. and it has nothing to say that either way, you are losing your self respect either.. and not to say, that if you turn your back, you have ego.. but sometimes, the 'self-respect' factor becomes such a big issue that we fail to see the picture too clearly..

and i completely agree with that line in blue.. but some people are just calling Jaya a doormat, etc. and i find that wrong... how is that fair to her..? she's one gutsy lady, imo...