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I posted it in the other thread; however the MODS locked it. Im posting this here for all to read so that you dont become a victim or somebody like Rajiv in real life. I don't see why would they lock it when we were discussing a very important issue that lurks around the corner in our lives.
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As I said before the predators are often the ones with position of trust, they play their victims will with varied temperaments in order to make them gullible and strike when the least expected.
If everyone can educate themselves by few steps then it would go a long way in sexual harrassment, molestation, date rapes, being taken advantage of etc..
We are all blessed with the ability to draw the line. We know well when and where it is but we often let others cross and there lies in the problem because it gives an advantage to the opportunist to go for the kill.
Keeping your personal space, not mingling in alone, raising your hands up palms facing the person, making eye contact, backing off a few steps will usually send the message across to the predator that now is not the best time.
She should have dealt with this like Aashka did that night with Santosh. It is never a good idea to sit down and resolve issues at middle of night unbeknownst to others when you are dealing with perverts.
Also keeping at arms length away and not letting anyone in your personal space is the way to go.
Too many wierdo's out there, and its not just women but men too need to watch out for predators like Rajeev. Having predefined limits and where to draw the line is INTEGRAL to ensure that this does not happen to you regardless of who and in what state you are dealing with said person.
Women and to some extent Men, there is a lot of power in the word NO, please try to use it as often as you can, if you stand up for yourself you can greatly reduce the chances of becoming a victim.
Thank you for reading!
Agree with u. I had an ex bf exactly like rajiv coincidentally his name is rajiv tooo. It's better for girls to be extra careful while dating my bestfriends saved me but everyone wudnt be as lucky as im
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