Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 25th Sep 2025
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Sept 25, 2025 EDT
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BTW, well-written post Buffie. Even though I don't always agree with your POV, I have to admit you always express you views and thoughts well. 👏 👏
I'm glad Ragini said "Carol should win". Many people in the BB house felt the same, at one point or another.
Diplomacy dear,diplomacy!!To uphold one's dignity,One at times does have to act with diplomacy!You know,didnt I already mention this somewhere...Our mind thinks so many things,but we employ our brains to felicitously put down our points so that we are respected in the society..It was the vein in which those words were spouted...And when one is on record/on tv,one has to be all the more careful.....Flip sides of stardom...(though she's not one,am being generous in calling her a star)
But Rakhi WAS being diplomatic don't you see? She said all of this in the confession room and not in front of the others. You should be happy 😊, she was being diplomatic. But, I guess you expect her to be more diplomatic by not letting out her feelings in the confession room as well.
But, hey if she was THAT intelligent, she would be Rupali. 😊
I'm glad we atleast agree on this - Rupali's hyprocracy.
PS - I have to say Buffie, I'm enjoying this thread very much. Thanks. Seriously.
Really??...Who did the survey,did you??...How many cross-sections did you cover in your survey??....WHy not give the break up,how many belonging to the creme de la creme talk like Rakhi,how many belonging to a dignified middle class family use the crass lingo??
Exaggerated figures,no wonder,so many of my foreign friends harbour such gross misconceptions about India...90% of India talks like RAkhi and people of her ilk😲...Get real!....Its only a part of the population who talk in that manner!
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you plz tell me in figure, what part of population talk in that manner? waiting for your answer😊
Oh I apologise if I was getting wrong in terms of facts and figures - you tell me how many ppl you know who are like Carol or you... you are in your own world.... you can see people who are either like you or like Carol & no doubt appreciate them... have you ever looked at Jhopadpattiwalas you were talking about... only in metropolitan cities you can find many educated and sophisticated families... I hope you agree that India is an agricultural country where a huge portion of the population work in the agricultural stream.... 90% of the population include middle-class or people below poverty line... I am not from from north but from a place where information technology and modern sciences are said to be the basic education in any KG student's life... here even an autorikshaw has a digital meter...lol but I dont say that we are sophisticated or classy or educated coz still I know that what I am seeing is a fraction of mass what we have even in our place... dont try to tell me to be real... I know what I am talking about... and if you have time plz go through our Indian contitution... I know without the help of Google, most of the people here seldom know about India... I have seen the lives of those people who dont even know what tv is all about... they dont even have electricity... No doubt we are living in India - a modern India.... but there are still many states where people do not know whats going on in, forget about world, even India...
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Meaning to say I'm not a good citizen...Well,thank you 😃...
In this forum,Rakhi loosely represents all the unfortunate people,who were born into poor families and werent given the proper upbringing,thus everyone's heart wells with sympathy,and look at her through tinted glasses....But they conviniently forget that this woman is paid in lakhs,doesnt any longer live from hand to mouth,thus she CAN redeem herself,if she tries...But since people prefer her crudeness and disgusting talk all in the name of being "real",her antics and shenanigans are defended!Defeats me how!...😕...If people become a little polished and well groomed,doesnt imply they become fake and artificial or they lose their identity,everyone can EVOLVE for the betterment of one's own self
well you better know about yourself ... how good Indian citizen you are😃...
you always keep on asking and wondering (sometimes laughing) why the hell should Carol feel jealous of Rakhi?... you yourself have given the answer here.. May be like you Carol also feels jealous of Rakhi who inspite of being a wretched, crude, cheap, indecent, ill mannered, who cannot speak proper English, who is weak in terms of etiquettes, behaviour,.............. is earning in lakhs😲😲😲
People like Carol feels superior, or you feel she is superior to Rakhi BUT they are in a house where all are celebrities and all of them earn good money in their profession... isnt that going to hurt people like Carol who are well versed in English, well educated, good at manners & etiquettes, sophisticated, well behaved?.... do you feel that people like Carol are going to accept that She and Rakhi are equally treated as a celeb in BB house?...
What kind of citizen is that person who loves only sophisticated and well mannered fellow citizens... What kind of citizen is that who hates low class, Jhopadpattiwalas and poor people... what do you call a person who only likes goody goody stuff... okay a part of Indian population speak like Rakhi - you hate Rakhi and you hate that part of population too who are like Rakhi, naturally... more that half of the masses in India are like or worse than Rakhi - and you hate all of them.... you like people like Carol who are posh, classy & all... okay fine......... you have a right to like or dislike a person but plz try to accept that you are a kind of person who do not completely believe in humanity - you have something in your mind which you want to spread all over and try to tell & justify that loudly... people who bash Rakhi on being cheap in behaviour cant face reality... this is reality... for the sake of being on National Television, if one loses his/her trueself then that person is called fake... I hope yu know that (I want to talk about Rupali here but I will not coz this topic is purely about Rakhi😛)...
Geez Sarah,please stop shoving it down people's throats that 90% of India is like Rakhi.....I live in India,and I have seen and interacted with people,belonging to all classes and cadres,and all less fortunate people are NOT like Rakhi.Its an insult if you paint all Indians with the same brush...I've worked for an NGO voluntarily,and I've been to the remotest villages and interacted with all cross sections,and I dont find them to be like Rakhi....Its not RAkhi's unsophistication alone which makes her so abominable,but its her nature... Not everyone is as street smart and obnoxious as she is,I know my maid and her family,and they arent like RAkhi,albeit they are poor...RAkhi is LOUD MOUTHED,and that isnt an idiosyncrasy which rubs off on all poor people...Her raucousness is HER INNATE characteristic,it isnt a signature characteristic of all poor people...Rakhi is too "in your face",and 90% of Indians are not that outlandish
You like Rakhi,FINE😊..But can you please STOP judging me,you cannot sit on judgment and decide how good a citizen I am,when you dont even know me from adams..Not that your sermon really bothers me,but it really is inappropriate to dissect my character and gauge my love for my country and its citizens.....How did you come to the conclusion that I hate every slum dweller,and everyone who isnt like Rakhi,how did you decide that I belong to Carol's ilk??......Do you even know me,do you even have an inking about my life..When you dont,how COULD you judge me,just based on my opinions about a certain Rakhi Sawant 😕 ....Please grow up,and stop judging people....I dont really need a character certificate from you .....
Rakhi Sawant doesnt even figure in our scheme of things,and liking her or hating her is each one's personal preference,but why attack fellow members which leads to nothing but bad blood,OPINIONS CO-EXIST,cant we discuss everything without getting personal or taking potshots,because by attacking another member's character,you do not corroborate your stance,it plainly connotes escapism at its best,...The escapist nature is underscored exactly when, when you do not have anyother point to contribute to the premise of the thread,start annihilating the author's character!
Originally posted by: RainbowWarrior
But Rakhi WAS being diplomatic don't you see? She said all of this in the confession room and not in front of the others. You should be happy 😊, she was being diplomatic. But, I guess you expect her to be more diplomatic by not letting out her feelings in the confession room as well.
But, hey if she was THAT intelligent, she would be Rupali. 😊
I'm glad we atleast agree on this - Rupali's hyprocracy.
PS - I have to say Buffie, I'm enjoying this thread very much. Thanks. Seriously.
Rakhi wasnt being diplomatic😊...Being diplomatic is all about weighing the pros and cons before making a statement....Rakhi's tirade against Carol wasnt diplomatic, because for then,she wouldnt have mouthed those derogatory words which is, without a modicum of doubt ,unsavory!The audience are privy to these confessions,and if she was diplomatic,she wouldnt have hurled inprecations,for what she says DOES offend the audience(some sections)
There is a thin line demarcating diplomacy and hypocrisy...Being diplomatic is all about not voicing everything that you think,because certain portions might offend other as they are inappropriate...Hypocrisy is all about saying something,and acting in a totally different manner...Hypocrisy is practised by EVERYONE in the BB house(maybe barring Carol),diplomacy is being employed ONLY by Carol,Rahul,Baba,Rupali and maybe Ravi🤔(debatable).....Amit and Rakhi arent diplomatic,but Rakhi crosses crosses all limits of tolerance by using some of the most appalling words and gaalis,something which Amit doesnt!(that's where his dignity comes into picture)
Confessing certain things in the confession room,and staying mum about those issues outside is diplomacy....Confessing something,and acting in a totally different manner is hypocrisy( which is being taken to new heights by Rupali and Ravi,)....