If Shilpa isn't a bully, then neither is Priyank...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Last week when Shilpa was poking Vikas, Arshi found it funny and was laughing it off. And today, when Priyank was laughing at her, she went in the washroom and started crying?

At least I did not hear Priyank going personal in their argument. He did do Arshi "thu" khan, but that was something that happened on the show not outside. Arshi was the one who used words like "nangi" and "bahut saare pade rehte hai tere jaise mere paas" and even involved Priyank's dad "iske baap ka" "tere baap ka" aisa kuch... If Hina saying "tumhare mummy-papa dekh rahe hai is "personal comment" then "tere baap ka nahi khaati" and "iske baap ka ghar nahi hai" should also be personal comments since they both involve the other person's parents in the conversation.

My point is should Priyank be called out because it was a guy poking a girl but Shilpa ko sab maaf because it was a girl poking a guy? In fact, Priyank's so called torture didn't even last for as long as Shilpa's so how is this bullying? Either both should be appreciated or both should be reprimanded.

And if both of these incidents constitute bullying then kick everyone out aur show khatam karo because they all support one or the other (except maybe Hiten who tried to talk to them both but neither heard him out or Sapna jo sirf threats deti hai par karti kuch nahi).
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arshi said your father doesn't feed me nor does he buy my clothes - she was asserting her independent nature. Just because the term "tera baap" comes out in a conversation does not automatically mean she is cursing his father. Listen to her whole sentence then judge accordingly.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: x_CaMi_x

Arshi said your father doesn't feed me nor does he buy my clothes - she was asserting her independent nature. Just because the term "tera baap" comes out in a conversation does not automatically mean she is cursing his father. Listen to her whole sentence then judge accordingly.


So where in my post did I say she cursed his father? First, read the whole post properly then comment accordingly. I just said she was using phrases bringing Priyank's father in the convo which made her sound rude.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nehlove


So where in my post did I say she cursed his father? First, read the whole post properly then comment accordingly. I just said she was using phrases bringing Priyank's father in the convo which made her sound rude.


In that case, reread my post and replace "doesn't automatically mean she is cursing his father" with "doesn't automatically mean she is being rude to his father"

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nehlove


So where in my post did I say she cursed his father? First, read the whole post properly then comment accordingly. I just said she was using phrases bringing Priyank's father in the convo which made her sound rude.


lol i dont blame her for saying cursing. this is probably the 4th / 5th post i read today where members are referring to Arshi saying "tera baap" to Priyank as if she cursed at him. And in each post, only the two words - "tera baap"- are mentioned and all the TMs (of those 4 / 5 posts) conveniently forgets to mention what Arshi actually said to Priyank.

At the end of the say : Arshi was not cursing nor was she being rude by saying your dad doesn't own me.

As for comparing what Shilpa did to what Priyank did - Priyank takes the cake. No comparison there.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nehlove

Last week when Shilpa was poking Vikas, Arshi found it funny and was laughing it off. And today, when Priyank was laughing at her, she went in the washroom and started crying?


At least I did not hear Priyank going personal in their argument. He did do Arshi "thu" khan, but that was something that happened on the show not outside. Arshi was the one who used words like "nangi" and "bahut saare pade rehte hai tere jaise mere paas" and even involved Priyank's dad "iske baap ka" "tere baap ka" aisa kuch...

My point is should Priyank be called out because it was a guy poking a girl but Shilpa ko sab maaf because it was a girl poking a guy? In fact, Priyank's so called torture didn't even last for as long as Shilpa's so how is this bullying?

And if both of these incidents constitute bullying then kick everyone out aur show khatam karo because they all support one or the other (except maybe Hiten who tried to talk to then both but neither heard him out or Sapna jo sirf threats deti hai par karti kuch nahi).



Neither Shilpa nor Priyank were bullying.But..I do not find Shilpa and Priyank's behavior the same at all. Shilpa shows her comedy timing. humor and wit in her fights, which is very entertaining to some viewers. Priyank did not show any humor, or comedy timing or wit in his fight. He was not at all entertaining in any way during his fight. He has seen how much Shilpa is being appreciated.So he tried to copy her by not abusing, not crossing his line and yet trying to annoy his enemy. It was a very poor attempt from Priyank to copy Shilpa for footage.
Priyank is a terrible actor while Shilpa is very very talented.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I consider both Priyank and Shilpa as bully. Priyank may not be of SS's level in bullying but he is petty and cheap as hell too.

I liked the difference in Vikas' and Arshi's behaviour though. When Arshi was full on laughing and enjoying Shilpa's torture, Vikas came to comfort her. 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes. Please kick Hina out for supporting and rooting for this cheapster
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: denver_diva



Neither Shilpa nor Priyank were bullying.But..I do not find Shilpa and Priyank's behavior the same at all. Shilpa shows her comedy timing. humor and wit in her fights, which is very entertaining to some viewers. Priyank did not show any humor, or comedy timing or wit in his fight. He was not at all entertaining in any way during his fight. He has seen how much Shilpa is being appreciated.So he tried to copy her by not abusing, not crossing his line and yet trying to annoy his enemy. It was a very poor attempt from Priyank to copy Shilpa for footage.
Priyank is a terrible actor while Shilpa is very very talented.

If it looks then OK if not then not OK well cute is subjective. Priyank also was giving cute smiles. At the end of day they both r doing same stuff poking. Priyank dint anything. Insult is insult whether u do it cutely or not it doesn't change. Priyank did dint even last for minutes while what shilpa did was 24/7 . Shilpa was appreciated then priyank should be.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakthpipasu

Arshi ki beizaati kuch fan groups ko khaasa pasand aa raha hai without a doubt. So instead of openly accepting this fact, Shilpa ko dhaal banake Priyank ko defend karna is not very cool.


I am not defending Shilpa or Priyank. I am saying they both were doing the same thing so either both should be reprimanded or both should be appreciated.

And maybe you should go read some of my other posts. I have posted in Arshi's AT as well a few days ago when I thought she was being funny so please don't assume that someone would make a post merely because they don't like Arshi. This thread is about comparing Shilpa and Priyank's behavior and the fact that if Arshi (and others) did not find Shilpa's behavior unacceptable then Priyank's behavior was no worse so that should be acceptable as well then.
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